books, terms and shit

[gothmatryoshka]

is there any book or website which I can find all the words involving bdsm activities and how i should actually behave? I am more of a brat type, but im still unexperient, i might need some help 

[Deleted Member]

Definitions? that sort of thing? How dos a brat behave? badly  There are heaps of resources on the net that will tell you what you need to know, although some may contradict each other. Read as many as you can and discard that and use your head and your instincts as well as lots of common sense. Don't promise the "I will do anything for you" thing, stay away from those who will offer you the world if you will only....... Turn away from dangerous players and keep yourself safe, always have an escape route.  I bet there are others much more qualified than I am that could tell you heaps of stuff, but make a start by reading some of the material on this  site, there is a lot of good solid advise in it. Good luck.....