BDSM Dating

BDSM Dating – Find Kinky, Like-Minded Partners 

Are you looking for a safe, sex-positive space to explore your kinks, connect with fellow BDSM lovers, and build relationships that cater to your desires? Welcome to Fetish.com, the ultimate BDSM dating site where dominants, submissives, switches, and curious newcomers come together to embrace their sexuality, share experiences, and form real connections.

Whether you're searching for a long-term BDSM relationship, a casual kinky fling, or a partner to explore power exchange with, this is your space to meet, chat, and play with like-minded people who get you.

What is BDSM Dating?

BDSM dating is all about exploring relationships through bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism—but it’s much more than just sex. It’s about trust, communication, and mutual pleasure in a way that fits your personal desires and boundaries.

From sensual dominance to intense power play, soft restraints to strict discipline, BDSM relationships take many forms. Whether you're experienced or just dipping your toes into the world of kink, the right partner makes all the difference. That’s where Fetish.com comes in — helping you find your perfect match, learn more about BDSM, and connect with a vibrant, welcoming community.

Why Join a BDSM Dating Site Like Fetish.com?

Unlike mainstream dating apps that often censor kink or make BDSM an afterthought, Fetish.com is built for people like you — those who crave relationships where power, pleasure, and play go hand in hand.

Here’s what makes BDSM dating on Fetish.com different:

Kink-Friendly Environment – No need to explain your interests or hide your desires. Everyone here embraces BDSM and fetish play.

Safe & Respectful Community – Consent and communication are key in BDSM, and our members understand that. We foster a space where respect, education, and exploration thrive.

Match with Like-Minded People – Whether you’re a Dom, sub, switch, brat, or just curious, find partners who share your kinks and relationship goals.

Learn & Grow – Explore our BDSM forum, articles, and live chatrooms to connect with experienced kinksters and get practical advice on BDSM relationships and play.

Express Yourself Freely – Share your journey, talk about your fantasies, and flirt openly in a judgment-free space where BDSM is the norm.

BDSM Dating for Every Dynamic & Kink

No matter your level of experience or what turns you on, there’s someone out there who shares your desires. BDSM relationships come in many forms, and Fetish.com welcomes them all.

For Dominants & Masters

Do you thrive on control and authority? Looking for a submissive partner who loves to surrender? Whether you prefer gentle domination, discipline, or a full-time D/s dynamic, you’ll find subs eager to serve, obey, and explore with you. 

For Submissives & Slaves

Do you love the thrill of submission? Want to find a Dom, Master, or Mistress who can guide you into pleasure, discipline, and surrender? BDSM dating gives you the chance to explore your desires safely and consensually with partners who understand the beauty of power exchange. 

For Switches & Brats

Maybe you enjoy being in control one day and surrendering the next. Or perhaps you love teasing, testing limits, and pushing boundaries as a brat. No matter where you fall on the spectrum, Fetish.com helps you meet partners who love to play on your level.

For Kinksters & Fetish Lovers

BDSM dating isn’t just about power exchange—it’s also about sensory play, bondage, discipline, impact play, and exploring fantasies. Whether you’re into latex, rope bondage, pet play, impact play, humiliation, or anything in between, you’ll find partners who share your kinks.

How to Get Started with BDSM Dating on Fetish.com

Joining Fetish.com is easy—and it’s free to start! Here’s how to dive into the world of BDSM dating and community connections:

Step 1: Create Your Profile

Tell us about yourself! Share your kinks, interests, and what you’re looking for—whether it’s a play partner, a long-term BDSM relationship, or just great conversation. Not sure where to start? Take the BDSM Test to discover your preferences and better understand your dynamic.

Step 2: Browse & Match

Use our advanced search filters to find partners based on role, experience level, and specific kinks. Whether you’re after a hardcore Master/slave dynamic or sensual domination, you’ll find potential matches who turn you on.

Step 3: Join the Conversation

Fetish.com isn’t just for dating—it’s a thriving BDSM community where you can join forum discussions, post in chatrooms, and read expert-written kink articles. Get to know people before taking things to the next level.

Step 4: Connect & Play

Once you’ve found someone who piques your interest, start chatting! Whether you take things slow or dive right into planning your next scene, Fetish.com makes BDSM dating exciting, safe, and completely customizable to your needs.

Safe & Consensual BDSM Dating – Our Commitment

At Fetish.com, we believe that kink should always be safe, sane, and consensual. That’s why we encourage open conversations about boundaries, limits, and desires.

Consent First – No means no. Always discuss limits before play.

Safety Matters – Use safewords, establish trust, and never rush into anything.

Communication is Key – Talk about desires, aftercare needs, and expectations openly.

Community Support – Our forums and resources help newbies and experienced kinksters navigate the BDSM world confidently.

Ready to Start Your BDSM Dating Journey?

If you’re tired of vanilla dating sites that just don’t get your kinks, Fetish.com is the place to be. Whether you’re an experienced Dom, a curious sub, a seasoned kinkster, or just dipping your toes into BDSM, you’ll find real connections, real people, and real pleasure waiting for you.

Sign up today and take control of your BDSM dating experience!

Hey little girl... Cum here...

Are you a woman who craves the exquisite release of surrender? Do you long to shed the weight of choice and exist purely to please and obey? Your search ends here. I am currently seeking one exceptional female to become my remote slave—a role reserved for the truly devoted and daringly open-minded.

The Art of Remote Slavery:

This is a dance of ultimate submission, conducted through the invisible threads of the internet. You will live your normal life, but beneath the surface, you will be owned. A single, secret word, shared only between us, is your key. When I send it, you will shed your identity and step into your role. You will respond, "Yes Daddy, your wish is my command," and from that moment, your will is mine. Your body, your mind, your pleasure—all instruments for me to play. This sacred trance lasts until my command is fulfilled or one hour passes, returning you to the world, marked by the memory of your service. Every detail—our names, your limits, your availability, your safe word—will be meticulously defined in our contract, ensuring your complete security as you explore the depths of your submission. To cement our bond and immortalize your devotion, every encounter, every command, every moment of your surrender must be recorded—whether by a hidden camera, a strategically propped phone, your own hand, or by another person I designate.

The Ideal Candidate:

I am searching for a female with an insatiable hunger to be commanded, one who finds bliss in the Daddy/little girl dynamic or similar. Your age and race are irrelevant; your spirit is everything. The more uninhibited your mind, the further we can journey together. Due to my current incarceration, this connection is exclusively remote, a bond forged in words and will. Your desires should align with the thrill of Dd/lg, age play, profound Dom/sub dynamics, sleeper slave scenarios, stranger danger, calculated risks, public exposure, dogging, tip-for-tip games, and the delicious mindlessness of a robo slave.

Your Initiation:

Our journey begins with conversation. We will explore the hidden landscapes of each other's kinks, fetishes, and most secret fantasies. If the chemistry ignites, we will craft a bespoke contract, a testament to our shared desires. Upon your acceptance, you are owned. When you receive the activation command, your life pauses. You respond with your pledge, and then you wait. You wait for my voice on the screen, for the command that will set your body and soul alight. This is your chance to find out what it truly feels like when "the devil made me do it"—to give in to your most primal urges with the full, exhilarating permission of your Master.

**A Glimpse into Your Commands:

  • The Office Obedience:

    "Baby girl, today you will wear a skirt or dress, and you will wear nothing beneath it. At your desk, you will text me. When I reply, you will select a common office item—an object touched by your colleagues—and you will record yourself. You will slide it deep inside your pussy, using it to fuck yourself to a powerful, shuddering orgasm right there in your cubicle. You will not clean it. You will return it to its place, and you will send me the video as proof of your devotion."

  • The Stranger's Seduction:

    "Baby girl, you will use a text-now number. You will take a breathtakingly explicit photo of yourself. You will send it to ten random numbers I provide, with this message: 'Daddy i'm so drunk and horny rn, last night was so intense! I can still taste you... Help me get off real quick, send me something and tell me what to do... I can't wait until your next route near by, I need you inside me now!' You will engage those who reply, pushing the conversation as far as you can, with my guidance."

  • The Confessional:

    "Baby girl, please your Daddy. Whisper to me your deepest, darkest sexual secret. Describe your most forbidden fantasy in such exquisite, filthy detail that you make Daddy cum with your words alone."

  • Plug n Play:

    "Good morning, baby girl... It's time to start the day with a little extra spark. Feeling sluggish? Plug it in, baby.

    • Version 1: Grab your fox tail plug and wear it all day with only a short dress or skirt. No panties. Send me pictures and videos throughout the day and on command.

    • Version 2: Work your extra-large stainless jewel plug in until it locks into place. Wear your shortest skirt or dress and no panties. I want pictures and videos throughout the day and on command."

  • The Delivery Dessert:

    • Version 1 (The Accidental Flash): "Hungry, baby? Daddy's ordering you food, but you handle the tip. Answer the door in a towel, your hair wet as if you just showered. Apologize sweetly and ask the delivery driver to step inside while you search for their cash. As you 'search,' you will stumble. The towel will fall. See where the moment takes you."

    • Version 2 (The Kneeling Offering): "You will be completely naked, wearing only a blindfold. You will kneel by your front door, holding a sign that reads 'Your Tip' with an arrow pointing to your open, waiting mouth. We will repeat this until a driver accepts your offering and feeds you his creamy dessert."

    • Version 3 (The Unlocked Door): "Baby girl, hungry? Daddy's got you. I've ordered food, but you get dessert first. You will be naked, on the floor near your unlocked, slightly ajar front door. Your ass will be high in the air, your eyes covered. No looking. No talking. Just wait. Daddy's special delivery is on his way, and he's going to love his tip."

      Your New Reality:

      This contract is your key to a world of pleasure you've only dared to imagine. Expect mind-blowing orgasms from the most depraved sexting, the adrenaline rush of public exposure, the raw, primal thrill of sex with complete strangers, forbidden public masturbation, and earth-shattering climaxes in the most forbidden of places.

      The Dare:

      I triple-dog-knot-dare you. Are you truly kinky enough to handle this? Are you brave enough to find out what you're capable of when you finally let go?

      Daddy adores his obedient girls and loves to spoil them with expensive gifts. This is an exclusive arrangement—one slave at a time. Contracts can be renewed by mutual agreement, ensuring our dynamic remains fresh and intoxicating.

      With years of experience in orchestrating safe, anonymous encounters, I know exactly how to push your limits while protecting you. I have studied the female body and its psychology for over five years; I know your desires before you do.

      Your first act of submission is to reply.

      Ready to let go? Ready to be owned?

      Message me for more information or to begin your application.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Charlotte

The most attractive part of a woman's body is what's between her ears. I seek someone who shows her interest through attention and actions, and I'll gladly reciprocate. I share steady, confident energy: not controlling, but protective and very certain of what and who, I want. It's easy to list physical appearance, but qualities like character, charm, and values are far and away the most important to me. I like to drink American, eat Asian & kiss French. Chemistry, transparency and empathy are essential when building a safe place to share each other’s kinks, fantasies and vulnerabilities.

I'm a confident divorced man who's excited to meet vibrant women with no long term expectations, while having a goal of discovering a life partner who has a keen sense of appreciation and adventure for even the smallest of pleasures. An advocate for all females and a father of a precocious newly middle school daughter (who encouraged me to put myself out into the dating pool!), I know how to take the lead without being controlling. My preferences sway to interracial dating.

A romantic who knows his way around a work bench, behind a grill, under the hood & across the small of a woman's back, my hands are great at giving massages and wiring GFCI circuits. I have experience with brewing beer, fermenting wine & smoking a mean spatchcock chicken.
Some of my many favorite pastimes are amusement parks, full moons, parades, hours-long talks, fireplaces, ocean sunrises, random acts of kindness, drive-ins, New England excursions, decorations for holidays and all kinds of music.

Kinky Date42 to 80 years ● 5km around USA Baltimore

BDSM Dating

BDSM Dating – Find Kinky, Like-Minded Partners 

Are you looking for a safe, sex-positive space to explore your kinks, connect with fellow BDSM lovers, and build relationships that cater to your desires? Welcome to Fetish.com, the ultimate BDSM dating site where dominants, submissives, switches, and curious newcomers come together to embrace their sexuality, share experiences, and form real connections.

Whether you're searching for a long-term BDSM relationship, a casual kinky fling, or a partner to explore power exchange with, this is your space to meet, chat, and play with like-minded people who get you.

What is BDSM Dating?

BDSM dating is all about exploring relationships through bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism, and masochism—but it’s much more than just sex. It’s about trust, communication, and mutual pleasure in a way that fits your personal desires and boundaries.

From sensual dominance to intense power play, soft restraints to strict discipline, BDSM relationships take many forms. Whether you're experienced or just dipping your toes into the world of kink, the right partner makes all the difference. That’s where Fetish.com comes in — helping you find your perfect match, learn more about BDSM, and connect with a vibrant, welcoming community.

Why Join a BDSM Dating Site Like Fetish.com?

Unlike mainstream dating apps that often censor kink or make BDSM an afterthought, Fetish.com is built for people like you — those who crave relationships where power, pleasure, and play go hand in hand.

Here’s what makes BDSM dating on Fetish.com different:

Kink-Friendly Environment – No need to explain your interests or hide your desires. Everyone here embraces BDSM and fetish play.

Safe & Respectful Community – Consent and communication are key in BDSM, and our members understand that. We foster a space where respect, education, and exploration thrive.

Match with Like-Minded People – Whether you’re a Dom, sub, switch, brat, or just curious, find partners who share your kinks and relationship goals.

Learn & Grow – Explore our BDSM forum, articles, and live chatrooms to connect with experienced kinksters and get practical advice on BDSM relationships and play.

Express Yourself Freely – Share your journey, talk about your fantasies, and flirt openly in a judgment-free space where BDSM is the norm.

BDSM Dating for Every Dynamic & Kink

No matter your level of experience or what turns you on, there’s someone out there who shares your desires. BDSM relationships come in many forms, and Fetish.com welcomes them all.

For Dominants & Masters

Do you thrive on control and authority? Looking for a submissive partner who loves to surrender? Whether you prefer gentle domination, discipline, or a full-time D/s dynamic, you’ll find subs eager to serve, obey, and explore with you. 

For Submissives & Slaves

Do you love the thrill of submission? Want to find a Dom, Master, or Mistress who can guide you into pleasure, discipline, and surrender? BDSM dating gives you the chance to explore your desires safely and consensually with partners who understand the beauty of power exchange. 

For Switches & Brats

Maybe you enjoy being in control one day and surrendering the next. Or perhaps you love teasing, testing limits, and pushing boundaries as a brat. No matter where you fall on the spectrum, Fetish.com helps you meet partners who love to play on your level.

For Kinksters & Fetish Lovers

BDSM dating isn’t just about power exchange—it’s also about sensory play, bondage, discipline, impact play, and exploring fantasies. Whether you’re into latex, rope bondage, pet play, impact play, humiliation, or anything in between, you’ll find partners who share your kinks.

How to Get Started with BDSM Dating on Fetish.com

Joining Fetish.com is easy—and it’s free to start! Here’s how to dive into the world of BDSM dating and community connections:

Step 1: Create Your Profile

Tell us about yourself! Share your kinks, interests, and what you’re looking for—whether it’s a play partner, a long-term BDSM relationship, or just great conversation. Not sure where to start? Take the BDSM Test to discover your preferences and better understand your dynamic.

Step 2: Browse & Match

Use our advanced search filters to find partners based on role, experience level, and specific kinks. Whether you’re after a hardcore Master/slave dynamic or sensual domination, you’ll find potential matches who turn you on.

Step 3: Join the Conversation

Fetish.com isn’t just for dating—it’s a thriving BDSM community where you can join forum discussions, post in chatrooms, and read expert-written kink articles. Get to know people before taking things to the next level.

Step 4: Connect & Play

Once you’ve found someone who piques your interest, start chatting! Whether you take things slow or dive right into planning your next scene, Fetish.com makes BDSM dating exciting, safe, and completely customizable to your needs.

Safe & Consensual BDSM Dating – Our Commitment

At Fetish.com, we believe that kink should always be safe, sane, and consensual. That’s why we encourage open conversations about boundaries, limits, and desires.

Consent First – No means no. Always discuss limits before play.

Safety Matters – Use safewords, establish trust, and never rush into anything.

Communication is Key – Talk about desires, aftercare needs, and expectations openly.

Community Support – Our forums and resources help newbies and experienced kinksters navigate the BDSM world confidently.

Ready to Start Your BDSM Dating Journey?

If you’re tired of vanilla dating sites that just don’t get your kinks, Fetish.com is the place to be. Whether you’re an experienced Dom, a curious sub, a seasoned kinkster, or just dipping your toes into BDSM, you’ll find real connections, real people, and real pleasure waiting for you.

Sign up today and take control of your BDSM dating experience!