i'm a very versatile dom. i enjoy both bdsm and being a pleasure dom, so if you like both, i can deliver!😈

ultimately i would like to meet someone who would be interested in being collared. i once owned someone, but that relationship fell apart. they were my first and only, so i learned everything i know from them (and my own research). if you're looking for a pro, then i'm probably not a good fit. you could consider me a confident learner, tho, so someone who has dibbled and dabbled or doesn't have years of experience might find me approachable. or someone experienced willing to teach me more would also be nice.🙂

i am not looking for a 24/7 situation, as that would be impossible for me (i have a spouse and kids at home). i am polyamorous/non-monogamous, and intend to stay that way. but i do want someone who wants to be owned, to be taken care of, to be punished when they're being bad, hehe (brats to the front plz!). i'm also cool with age and pet play. and while i do have multiple relationships, i want to only own one special person as my sub. i am a nurturer by nature, so i am full of TLC for my sub, especially after-care.🖤

i want to be able to put someone in subspace fairly regularly. so you'd need to live close to me (an hour or so is about the max distance) and be able to do the majority of the hosting (because fam, duh). and be willing to schedule some sessions several times a month. also cool with doing some distant sessions and eventually add remote toys to our video chats. (would also like toys to use on in person dates that i can control).😁

D/s is a very deep and rich relationship for me, and i miss it so much!! 😭 i would like someone who wants to reach those same depths. trust, communication, and clear boundaries are absolutely necessary for both of us.👍

also note that i am 100% a switch (lol my kink test is so accurate), and i'm cool with switchy ppl as well, but prefer to have two separate dynamic relationships to satisfy my switchiness. (you'll probably run across a sub ad from me too, so that's why.)😅

BDSM/Fetish Family18 to 40 years ● 240km around USA Smyrna

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