First off, I am neurodivergent , meaning sometimes I dont get a lot of "unspoken" social cues, so I would need to be told... a lot... I also have a few environmental allergies so I usually have a few things on me like medications and my inhaler I am also engaged but we are open/ poly and he knows I look for others to play with. his drive is lower than mine

I am looking for someone that is able to host in my area or at least nearby my area, and preferably at these times:

weekdays:
9 am to 2 pm , (except for doctors appointments)
week nights:
8 pm to 2 am ( overnights are okay as well)

weekends : can be a little tricky, Im usually pretty busy on weekends but every so often I will have a weekend or two off a month, though Im thinking sundays are probably my least busy days.

Play:
above all I crave these things:
Passion/affection, touch , and penetration .

Someone that is respectful, confident, and playful ,

usually wins me over much more than arrogant, stubborn, and bullying ever will.

( though of course I do enjoy dirty talk )

I also crave more experiences in life and want a few other things only this area can give me.

I wish to experience more in these fields/things :

Primal , ropes, "knives"/claws/wheels

wax, penetrative / stretching toys, pumps,

harnesses, leashes , massage ...

theres probably a few here im forgetting but I hope the general gist comes to mind and other things can be added

heres also a few things im NOT into:

Im NOT into:

// *** ( some markings and sex on period is okay for me but nothing huge)

tasting/ ingesting fluids ( im sensitive to tastes and doesnt help my gag reflex) but I do enjoy giving blow jobs before penetration ,

dirty talk that leads into territories of weight

tickling

"permanent " things like hair cuts, piercings, tattoos etc.

Other things I would also enjoy from this arrangement:

someone who is patient and compassionate,

someone who doesnt let me be lazy too much, but will make me take a break when I need it

someone who can help me with some health issues, or beginning things like exercises, stretches, diets, etc.

someone who can listen to me ramble but also know when to cut me off and hold me and tell me things are going to be okay,

someone who will check in on me on a regular basis even if Im unable to come over,

a few other things about me in general:
I enjoy anime, rom coms, musicals, scifi/ fantasy, comedy, some video games and arts and hope to have more vanilla experiences someday too!

I know this is kinda lengthy but Thank you to those that have made it this far, as for the play list, it doesnt have to be all, I know most people only have a few of these interests or experiences, but at the same time I would like to experience them in general in life, even if I have to find another partner for those others specifically.

BDSM Play Partner30 to 50 years ● 50km around USA Fort Smith

I think about the people that interest me all day and I feel like if they don't contact me once a day that I should do so at the end of the day. I don't like to think I'm needy but I'm actually interested in the person. What do you think?


I’m not as active as I used to be or would love to be after so many health challenges, coming out better and healthier but age has it scars. I still love to go fishing and golfing sometimes walks and traveling but not much. I’d rather stay indoors, cook good meal and have my neighbors, old friend or family around. I do read and love to watch movies although not as much as before.

I am sincere, loyal, honest, and affectionate. Integrity is important. I don't like to wear shoes. If you don't keep an eye on me, I will sleep all night. Chocolate is my best friend. I love Sheridan’s coffee layered Wine makes me silly. I love public affection I believe every relationship is fragile and will wither away if left unattended.

I went to college but was distracted by fun. I had ADHD and didn't realize it for over 60 years. I am past my 'mid-life crisis. Ambitious, career and agenda-oriented people are boring. Don't let marriage destroy your love. If I were to win the lottery, I would head up the largest Bull Terrier Rescue in the world. I believe in God! I don't believe you have to go to church to be a follower. I believe you can graduate from as many colleges as you choose, and you will never learn 'common sense'. A person with no 'common sense is handicap. I don't want to blindly follow a President or anyone. I think anyone that hated their childhood needs a hug. I am the 2nd of two ***, often called the 'baby' of the family. I believe it is expected of one to love and take care of yourself first. I got a 'D' in math in high school, yet I spent my adult life working in the accounting and logistics industry . I love driving from one coastal town to another. I love that I live in one of the most beautiful places inside the US. I brush my teeth after I have my morning coffee & breakfast. That's part of getting dressed to embrace the coming day. I don't have any cavities, but I do have implants. (Gives me that enduring smile.) I used to have brown hair. I think futons are funny. I don't like disco. I've just discovered time alone and I embrace it. Skydiving is for birds. My hair is more like silver. When I love there are no boundaries. I need special attention. I like to be spoiled. We're all equals(but everyone has their role). We're all special. Dogs are my passion.


I am usually on the quiet side, but I could also be a big ball of energy. On weekends I enjoy visiting different state parks, antique shopping, just being outdoors(although not as much as I would love to). You can usually catch me in a friends backyard waiting for something good to come off the grill.

Kinky Date55 to 79 years ● 200km around USA Secaucus

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