As an amateur gynecologist with a knack for DEZ orgasms. I could help others find these DEZs, as well as the anatomy of where to find them and what to do when you do find DEZs.

DEZ amniotomy
The G-spot is located. 2-3 inches up the front (anterior) vaginal wall. This is where the female squirt is triggered and the easiest DEZ to find. With just some stimulation, the G-spot will swell to have 4 or 5 horizontal lines or ridges that can be felt. With a locked arm and two middle fingers in and up with a minute or two of hard vigorous jerks, squirt can be taught. This is not the first place I would start; squirt is wet but not slippery. Once learned it is almost a cheat code.

I recommend first the clit, and then the A-spot, the A-spot is located past the G-spot on the anterior fornix erogenous zone or AFE zone is located between the front vaginal wall four to six inches in and past the G-spot and around the cervix, Again about four to six inches inside the vagina. 15% of women can have an A-spot orgasm. The A-spot is pink area and looks and feels like cotton candy. I do a windshield wiper move, which produces a lot of natural lubrication. In fact, I changed my Yoni massage to move this stimulation and increased the length of this step in my Yoni massage because 5-10 minutes of A-spot massage might lead to a deep orgasm, but all the following orgasms will be deeper and more fulfilling.

The Cervix is the third deep erogenous zone or DEZ. The cervix can become very pleasurable after the A-spot has started the excitement. Cervix Orgasms are deeply felt and strong, but all DEZ orgasms are better in conjunction with clitoral orgasms. I found either tapping or circling the cervix works best. A vibrator is not needed on either of the A-spot or Cervix. Some ladies do like a vibrator on one or the other or both or neither and this is subject to change. Speaking of change, all DEZ locations can shift around slightly. When a DEZ orgasm happens, the pelvic floor will try to push everything out. Usually, the first orgasm is so intense that my fingers and toys are pushed out. Expect a 10-15 second reset with practice. Subsiquential orgasms, fingers, and toys can fight for prolonged orgasms.

The back side of the cervix or posterior (the rectum can be felt through the wall) area is also called the A-spot, but it only feels good or great after the anterior side of the A-spot and Cervix are stimulated to orgasm. If you can reach all the way around the cervix in a broader and deeper circle and this is well received, go ahead. Otherwise, move back to the G-spot, A-spot, and Cervix but always with the Clitorial stimulation. Many times I religate the sub to hit her clit with my pin vibrator that is very focused. She can blindly hit her clit without looking, so of course, that is better.

Last is the K-spot. It is 2-3 inches in the vagina but on the anal side (posterior). It can be stimulated from either the vagina or anus and, of course, both. I think this area might be equivalent to the male prostate because of the location. I would not spend a lot of time on the K-spot from the vagina side.

Outside around the urethra is the U-spot. I have a pinpoint vibrator, and when I give it to my subs to hit their clit while I'm stimulating the DEZ. Then they are hitting multiple orgasms they all move from the clit to the U-spot.

Squirt and Different Female Cum
The squirt that is seen in porno is often fake, but sometimes a vigorous squirt is real. I have been shot in the face like a water blaster. The G-spot stimulation will trigger a feeling like needing to . Even though you just d. If you relax and feel comfortable, let the orgasm happen with vigorous g-spot stimulation. A squirt will often occur. This fluid is clear, has testosterone and PSA (prostate-specific antigen), and comes out of the urethra. This squirt is not slippery, it feels slippery like water. I prefer the slippery white cum. Post menopause, ladies who had certain types of hysterectomy sometimes can no longer squirt but can still produce the white cum. I think most can with time, trust, and losing that bashfulness that comes with the feeling of .

Pussy liquids other than squirt I have seen. The white cum is my favorite, it comes from the skene's glands, and I like it because this is very slippery. It is more likely to ooze and come out of the two holes or Skens's glans on each side of the urethra. Actually, seeing white cum come out of the Skens's glans is rare. Usually, it just appears on my fingers and is better seen on blue or green gloves or a black dildo. I'm reasonably sure this milky white fluid is similar in compound to a man's cum. The A-spot stimulation helps produce this lubricant. Some subs produce more white cum when something is new and exciting. I have also seen real Grool happen when something new happens and feels good. Grool is a clear liquid that I have witnessed to hang or drip out of the pussy for longer than 12 inches. Grool is the rarest of all pussy lubricants. Fake Grool comes from a gel, I assume Nuru gel. I once flogged a sub for her first time, and she started to drip an inch; as I flogged her, the Grool length increased to three inches, six inches, and more flogging, it hung to 12 plus inches. Eventually, it finally swung over and hit her thigh.

Orgasm Research
Back in 1965, Masters and Johnson's research found multiple orgasmic women. But they also found orgasms that last longer. These long orgasms they named or called Status Orgasmus. Women can all be trained to have multiple orgasms and also longer Status Orgasmus orgasms. In hours of online reading, I found a PhD and MD in Turkey with some papers on the subject. He reported one lady had 134 orgasms in one hour. I have play partners, and some can count and remember her orgasms when I tell her to. She can achieve close to 20 orgasms in 3-4 multiple orgasms back-to-back sessions with short 15-30 second breaks. I see first hand these multiple orgasms morph into extended Status Orgasmus orgasms, and one orgasm extends to 2-3 minutes. Another play partner is much more of a wet squirter in her orgasms, but she gets lost and can't count them. I do not have an assistant, and both hands are busy. Counting orgasms is not the goal, but I do like the research side of things, and counting orgasms is a reliable benchmark to track progress.

Clicker Counter: it is hard for a sub to count orgasms while having pleasure. Not that numbers matter, but numbers do matter when I'm doing Orgasm research. Amazon has 2 for $8. – Sting-ATL
I gave the squirter a mechanical clicker counter to keep up with her tally, with me reminding her to click; she can also hit 20 orgasms in one session and also hit Status Orgasmus and hold it for minutes. I don't see how the Turkish researcher hit 134 orgasms in one hour. It seems a bit cruel and exhausting. With practice, I like hitting 5-6 orgasms and waiting for a reset and 5-6 more, and this is usually ten max per hour and twenty max per day. Here is my diagram of different types of orgasms as I understand things today.

Tools
I use the BDSM version of a colposcope, which is a dildo with a camera and 6 LED lights to explore your DEZ areas here.

Very affordable Colposcope with a vibrator with five vibration modes. The camera is available in 3-megapixel choices; this was the largest, and all three models have six lights. The app store's Bluetooth software is called GoslingQQ. The Colposcope, vibrator, and software were easy to use and work. I think this product is only available on eBay. Shipping was slow. Next time i will do some medical play and use a speculum to open things up more for this. I included a look at the back of my mouth and my uvula. Again, all pink inside. Medical grade digital Colposcopes start at $400, and full stand-mounted optical Colposcopes are $3000 to $5000. This was $89 but start at $59 for cameras with fewer megapixels. – Sting-ATL
To truly appreciate the different DEZ areas in a journey of exploration, you can see and feel the G-spot's ridges. See the A-spot, which looks like cotton candy and just pink everywhere, but you will feel that isolated area. I will show you the beautiful cervix's round mound and the little hole in the middle. With the colposcope, we will go in and out and hit different DEZ orgasms.

12 Colposcope Photos, I have videos of the Colposcope exploring a pretty pink pussy, but I noticed I did not have any photos. I will add another close-up of the G-spot and another close-up picture of the cervix. The rest is primarily pink with a few creases and folds and is hard to differentiate. I think I have a movie with a speculum and the colposcope that might show more. – Sting-ATL

I also have the Loiness Smart Dildo with AI; this can automatically turn on when a temperature of 97F or higher is detected, and it measures the pelvic floor contractions and maps the frequency (I think) of intensity. I can highlight orgasms after a session and can then anonymously send our session video (no voice is recorded) to Lioness for a more significant study with 1000s of users where AI can find trends and different types and detect other types of orgasms.

The details page of the Lioness Smart Vibrator session is attached. You can see pelvic floor stringth, hot spots and vibrator s
d. But add notes as soon as possible while the memory is fresh. Tags come in handy. I've only had it for a short time. 110gF is the highest recorded so far. It can also be used live, which might be a better coaching tool. – Sting-ATL

Here are three sessions with the Lioness Smart Vibrator. This is the summary page. There is a more detailed page that shows pelvic floor strength, hot spots, and vibrator s***d. – Sting-ATL
If you search Amazon for "Pen Vibrator," you will see a dental-looking tool with three tips for clitoral pleasure. These are "high frequency," but not like the Tesla electric wand. This vibrates at 15,000 per minute. I highly recommend these pen vibrators.
I just got the Erosslitor2 and will give you my findings when I have more data.

The "Clit Sucker Clit Licker" can also be seen in some of my videos, I have been told it will suck a woman's soul out.

As you can see, I love to examine vaginas with blue or green latex gloves where the white cum is visible. So, if you are open to a gynecology visit with Dr Sting or maybe my ongoing orgasm research, which I hope is exciting and enjoyable with Professor Sting, so if you live close by, please reach out.

Kinky Date19 to 66 years ● 50km around USA Atlanta

He insisted we should meet his friends before we had our own quality time, because they'd "be back in Austria within days. I kinda hate meeting new folk, is it an introvert thing?
He'd bought my entire outfit.I mean down to the earrings and lingerie. I'd only been bought some clothes previously by my manager when i was 16.
I had on some magenta lace trim thongs with a little bow at the front and back. The gusset was silky on the outside. The bra cups were half silky then laced towards the cleavage, with a little silk bow to match the thongs. It was a fun colour I'd never have chosen for myself. The dress was simple; a solid black cap sleeved A line skater. The skirt was short, I'd have to be very delicate bending, I had black strapped satin stilletos on, he'd bought me the nail polish the colour of the lingerie. The guy was more thorough than me about his colour coordination preferences.

When we left the restaurant his 's fiancée said "Women's in the back" so I got in the backseat. We'd barely driven a minute before his opened her palm and announced she'd heard I liked sedatives. There were 2 small blue rhombus shaped pills. From the drivers seat I was told, "Go on baby girl let yourself relax.." while my knee was quickly squeezed twice as encouragement. He was looking at me in the mirror. He seemed calm&sincere, and Rhia was just smiling at me -palm out -offering a small bottle of water. I took a breath and scooped the pills up. Mosa piped up from the passenger seat taking a swig of a beer, "I take 1 too, just 1 as I'm drinking, you enjoy you don't drink." Blue is my favourite..I took them. "Thank you Rhia, appreciated" I told her ,sitting back.
"You're so welcome my darling", she replied, as she took my cheeks in her hands and kissed me hard, complete with 'MWOAH!' then patting my thigh. Within minutes I could feel this soothing gravitational wave wash down me. I glanced up to notice a beautiful, golden, crescent moon. I gazed at it a while, till I realised, Rhia's hand was not only still on my thigh, she was gently massaging it. She gently dragged her nails from my knee to halfway up my thighs and started massaging it further up,this time pushing my already short skirt up..
We're at some traffic lights. In my peripheral I catch him checking on me. "Daaadddyy.." (oh fffff..I've never called him that in public!) He just laughed and said, "What is it baby girl?"
"Your *'s touching my leg in a weird way." I said; in what felt like slow motion, was I slurring? "Mhmm" he replied, non chalantly. He's too busy to converse while he's driving, I resolve.
Rhia's hand moves again. She's trying to pull my panties aside wtf is going on?
"Daaadddy" I say again. "She's trying to touch me!" Did I say that loudly? Did I say it at all? I must not have. I quickly try to clasp my left hand over my pubic bone, but she's already there and won't budge her hand. "Get off me **
!" I say, then hear, "F*ck did you call me?", while receiving a backhanded fist which slams my top lip against my front teeth. She begins stripping her jeans off as the car pulls into a lay-by, she removes her panties and shoves them in her bra and puts her jeans back on. She goes back to my thighs. "Open your legs slut " she demands.
"I'll have to pass." I say, just as the door beside me opens and my hairs grabbed, he puts his fingers in my mouth. "Baby what day is it?"
"Balentinth"i say through his fingers.
"Yeah baby so just go with it and let Daddy enjoy his night too. Then he holds my nose closed. I gasp for air and Rhia smashes her panties from her lap into my mouth. "I'm not his *** you dumb bitch." she chides. "And you -lil chicken - are mine."
"Lean forward for Daddy" He takes off his tie and binds my wrists behind me. "Now move over, and behave." Rhia moves to the window seat and I wriggle over to the middle. Mosa gets out and comes to sit on my right side.
Rhia tells me to put one leg on either side. "Do it" Mosa commands more so physically by lifting my right leg under the knee and holding it. Rhia massages between my legs. I wriggle but there's nowhere to go. Mosa uses his other hand to pin my neck back as Rhia's fingers prod and poke, she sucks her fingers and slides her hand back up as Mosa holds my right leg with his left arm and puts more pressure on my throat with his right. As she plays with me she keeps nipping my skin and as she puts fingers inside me because she's wearing long nails and I'm not horny. Idk what's dryer rn; my cunt or my mouth with Rhia's panties semi suffocating me.
Mosa asks me if I'm going to be a good girl. I nod, in his hand. He puts my heel on the seat ,spits on his fingers and starts circling my clit as Rhia fingers me. It actually feels alright until Mosa let's go of my leg and takes his phone out to start filming. I try to say no and look away from the camera. Rhia pulls me back by the hair as she's just fingering me. She whispers in my ear "I have some toys for that tight little pussy, have you ever cum for a woman before?" She asked the latter more loudly. "No, actually I've only cum for a man once too." I reply, somewhat ashamed.
"You're gonna cum for me, here in the back seat" says Rhia, "Or we'll pull over again and you'll be fucked over the bonnet on camera. Have you ever been pegged? " I shake my head. "If you displease me I won't be gentle with you -Do you understand?" She asks. I nod. We hit more traffic lights. A familiar voice says "Look at Daddy", I can't. I'm awkwardly positioned, with a woman I only just met tonight's panties and fingers in me, and her partners filming it happening.
"You're being rude to Daddy's guests. Now you're going to need correction. I'm sure Rhia won't mind you across her lap, spanking your little ass raw while you take Daddy in your mouth. If you're a very good girl there's a surpise for you. Now let's go home and see how good you can be baby girl. You're gonna look so beautiful on film. Rhia's desperate to spank you now aren't you Rhia?" He asks.
"I'm going to make her my little pet." She replies. As the car pulled into our driveway I guessed I'd find out soon what that meant...

Pro-Dom/me Session18 to 80 years ● 25km around UK Glasgow

I am looking for a woman who is open minded and open and willing to try out my fetishes with me I’m a virgin and I am 38 years old and never had sex period and I am looking to lose my virginity I am desperate and I am looking to lose my virginity involving my two fetishes I am looking for someone who has one or more large intact male dog and involve him or them with me and my woman and I am also looking for a woman who is interested or open to jack me off with Swiss cheese slices or a block of Swiss cheese and then have her jack me off with the Swiss cheese until I cum on it and then have her wrap Swiss cheese slices around my cock and then suck my cock with the Swiss cheese slices still wrapped around my cock and I would love to have her eat the Swiss cheese that I came on and I also like it if she would jack me off with a Swiss cheese sub sandwich with Swiss cheese slices and miracle whip or mayonnaise and turkey or ham or salami with lettuce tomato onion pickles and oil and vinegar sub sandwich dressing and it’s gotta have to be a large sub sandwich biggest possible and not cut in half and have her jack me off with my cock in the sub sandwich and then have her eat it off my cock until I cum in the sub sandwich and then watch her eat it and then have her lick the miracle whip or mayonnaise off my cock thats left over from her jacking me off with the sub sandwich and also I am only wanting to have it done with Swiss cheese no other cheeses Swiss cheese only no white American cheese or anything like that real deli Swiss cheese only and sandwich has to have Swiss cheese slices on it I won’t do it with any cheese other than Swiss cheese men okay too if you want looking for male intact dog owners large dogs only please I know my fetishes are kinda weird and taboo but I’m hoping that I will find someone who wants to do it I can’t host and I don’t drive and I don’t any *** due to a very very low income I have food stamps but I’m going to need condoms provided to me I’m open minded myself and I will try whatever you can’t knock it until you try it is what I always say

Kinky Date18 to 45 years ● 10km around USA Nottingham

My different forms of pussy play or maybe it is pussy worship.

I'll put it into six bullet points:

  1. DEZ or deep erogenous zones starts with a colposcope or my camera on a dildo to show you your 4 DEZ and how each one feels and discover which you like the best and the best order to massage them. One you start orgasming, I will keep giving vaginal orgasms but will add clitoris orgasms and the combination orgasms are my true goal.
  2. Orgasm Research is where I give multiple orgasms in a ***d way, where like a mild form of CNC you can't stop me from giving you more orgasms and training you to have longer orgasms called Status Orgasmus. I have had to stop due to hyperventilating and will lookout for safety or medical issues.
  3. Medical play is where I will vacuum pump your clit, then pump inner labia and then outer lips to be puffy and swollen. At this point, I will give your swollen, sensitive pussy multiple orgasms. Then inserting a speculum and give more orgasms with a full sensation. This is in stirrups and not bondage.
  4. My Yoni massage has 30 steps and takes about an hour. These are the important things to understand before the massage. You have no need to feel rushed, or act (fake an orgasm) or feel any pressure. Just feel my hands making you feel good. Get out of your head. Solf music, no lyrics, red or blue lighting for soothing, and relaxing experience.
  5. Orgasm Control, making sub ask for every Orgasm. 75% of the time is Yes. 10% is is count to 5 or 10 then ask again for a yes. 10% it is ask nicely, and you must say "Mr Sting, my i please Orgasm". 5% or less I will ruin an orgasm. Edging falls under this category. I'm not really into making a sub not masterbate when not with me. I think female masterbation is very healthy and should be encouraged to a point. I have a clicker counter, subs have a hard time counting above five with me.
  6. Teaching to Squirt, not all women can squirt but but I have a lot of successful subs squirt for the first time with my training. I do not to this in a *d gimmick way but with, building trust and some time and my pelvic floor muscle coaching and a bit of specific squirt training. This isn't a single scene but a longer D/s training.

    My favorite munches:**

    • Peach Munch - in Peachtree Corners, my munch I started & run.

    • SAM or Sugarloaf Area Munch meets monthly in Duluth

    • Kennesaw Kinskters meets monthly near Maietta Square

    • HOT Hothouse Slosh meets monthly at a Brewery in Lawrenceville

    • Trivia Munch meets weekly in Sugar Hill

    • AASS or Atlanta Area Spanking Society, meets monthly in Dunwoody

    • Cobb Munch meets monthly in Kennesaw


      Sometimes I go to these:

    • Alpharetta Munch meets monthly

    • DAM or Decatur Area Munch meets monthly

    • N.A.K.E.D. educational Munch meets monthly in Woodstock

    • Alternative Woodstock Area Munch meets monthly

    • Hiram Munch meets monthly

    • Gwinnett Munch meets in Duluth bi-weekly or twice monthly.

      There are more in the Greater Atlanta Area, out further. Just ask me.

      I'm putting 500km, but remember you must travel to these munches.
      If you ask nicely, I can also help you find munches in your area.

Kinky Date19 to 70 years ● 100km around USA Atlanta

Curious to both queens and kings thoughts 💭 on the subject

Like how it first came to topic .
Who brought it up ?

Mainstream propaganda projects bbc is superior white guys are just weak ?

For me the idea of watching or allowing my queen explore with others is hot !! Even if the guy is bigger etc 🤷‍♂️ I’m comfortable enough in my own skin not to feel inadequate!!!


For a while now this is something I would like to explore with my long term friends with benefits ( no idea I’m on here btw never mind cuckolding) )

I don’t know how to bring the subject up. Or how she would react 😅


The reason for the question and hopefully great advice and understanding of my inexperience in the subject. ( go easy on me please lol I haven’t intentionally Ment to come across as rude etc but won’t hide from my inexperience on how to approach the subject.


Like I have tried to say during my message above 👆

Main stream influence projecting just bbc as the dominant in the lifestyle white woman black men

Rarely in the reverse dynamic

Find it quite discriminating and harmful to younger white men
Especially Tbe Twitter scenes BNWO

(btw all entitled to there own preference. Just personally seeing slot of white gate and mainstream or social media administration etc not act or keeping things clean . I. E away from racism!

As a curious newbie to exploring such things BNWO has been a massive game changer for me in regards to cuckolding . I’m all for preference. Playing roles to fulfil each other’s goals etc

So I guess amongst the many questions I have asked or trying to ask what is your opinion .


Please no hate . I purely understand I may have came across as ignorant or even confusing.😅😂

First time trying to write it as I see it . Apologies lol

BDSM Play Partner18 to 77 years ● 335km around UK East Lothian

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