BDSM Play Partner45 to 95 years USA, Vienna 3 years ago

I want to talk/meet with someone kinky, preferably someone new and inexperienced, so that we might explore our fetishes together. I believe being open-minded is key, especially in the bdsm scene and thus i will likely be open to most things bdsm, as long as there is no permanent physical damage or change in appearence involved and it remains strictly between us. So no public or stuff like that.

I’m mostly a submissive from what i gather, but i do get turned on from the thought of controlling someone else. Tho mostly at the prospect of restraining somebody else, possibly in some kind of predicament. Like for example tying someone down so that they can’t quite sit down and also can’t stand with their legs straight, so they’re
d into this 90 degree position for their legs, which is a posture one cannot maintain for long, at which point they might pull on some nipple clamps, maybe a crotch rope tightens, or maybe they push a pole-mounted dildo deeper into themselves. That sort of thing.

As for my submissive fantasies, i have a lot of kinks, but the main ones are probably: bondage, chastity, pegging, edging, denial, cbt, electricity, doctor roleplaying, cunnulingus, sensory deprivation, generally just being i guess - power exchange. now i havent really experienced any of these with a partner so that list might change, but those are definitely up there in the top 10. and being ordered around and stuff like that doesn’t really get my rocks off at all, nor does verbal , but it doesn’t bother me if the dom is into it. I think generally i just get some enjoyment and sexual fulfillment from knowing that my partner does, so I’m probably down for mostly anything because of that. Maybe this also has something to do with the fact that i find the idea of being d into chastity and pleasing my partner with a strap-on to be extremely erotic. However, despite these fantasies about chastity and strapons and pegging, i would not say that i’m into sissy play. At all. Maybe i could learn to like that sort of thing, but at the moment the only way i get turned on thinking about sissy play is being d into it nonconsensually, which is more about the of being ***d to do something, than it is about that specifically.

Munch Buddy18 to 25 years ● 500km around Sweden, Stockholm 3 years ago
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A pet is a submissive who enjoys taking on aspects of a domesticated animal. Pets enjoy the freedom of being animal-like. They leave all adult responsibility behind to play like their chosen pet. There are many different levels of pet play. Some pets enjoy dressing up with masks and gloves so that the pet can’t speak or use their hands as humans would. Other’s just like to act like pets without any particular specialist gear. There can be a sexual element to pet play but quite often it is just simply about play and the power dynamic between the Owner and their dearly beloved pet.
An owner enjoys pet play but not by becoming pet-like at all. They are the responsible person who looks after the person playing as a cat, dog, pony or other animal. They are Dominant personalities with a kind, caring side. They take over complete control during pet play. Just as any owner would do with a pet. Owners pair up with pets. They may only ever pick one type of pet, being a dog person or a cat person for example, or they might like the variety of owning different pets. They will perform tasks such as grooming, feeding and putting down water for their pets. They may lock their pet in a cage if it’s appropriate. Dog and Cat Pet play owners will do lots of play and grooming activities with their pets. There may be elements of training, rewarding positive behaviour and punishing bad. An owner may choose to lead their pet around on a lead or have a special collar for them that looks just like that of an animal pet. Pony owners might not focus so much on play. Pony play can come in different forms but will include training the pony to do specific tricks and/or having them pull a carriage of some sort or carry a person on their back. Owners take pride in looking after and showing off their pets. They may own one or more. There is a strong bond between an owner and their pet, but that doesn’t necessarily mean it is a monogamous relationship. There can be a sexual element in an owner and pet’s play but often it is all about the dynamic between the pet and the owner. Owners enjoy taking on the responsibilities so that the pet can lose all human inhibitions and completely become a pet for a period of time.

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