Hi. I’m CJ.
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New to this game so just spinning about on here to see what's what.

I like people who are genuine & honest & those who know what they want.

Just like any other human being, I have my secret thoughts & fantasies about the type of person I’d like to be & the type of person I’d like to meet & share certain things with but also admit that I am quite new to this & was at one point worried that I would come across as ignorant & naïve as I have never really had the courage until recently to admit them or share them with others.

I’m not really 100% sure what I’m ‘in’ to or interested in but one of my favourite secret fantasies include chastity (specifically female chastity) & the idea that there is someone out there who wishes to be (or possibly already is) locked in chastity, not able to hold their own keys & willing to be denied & teased for an undetermined amount of time.

I could not & would NEVER ask anyone to do anything they are uncomfortable with & cannot ask anyone to trust me straight out, but just like the idea that there is someone out there in the world (hopefully near me) who would trust a complete random stranger with the keys to their……heart. LOL


Though I am perhaps a little inexperienced in certain aspects, I am willing to participate & learn from the experiences of others in order to better my own &, having never acted upon said fantasies, I am not entirely sure of my own limits let alone anyone else’s but am open minded enough to try new things.

Give me a ding if that's your thing

BDSM Play Partner20 to 40 years ● 5km around UK, West Dunbartonshire one year ago

I’m now in a relationship/dynamic and will only be making friends now. Please be respectful of this.
My name is Chastity_Pup_Gabbia. (I added Gabbia to give myself a last name. It means Cage in Italian. I checked many different translations of cage but settled on this as it sounds like a last name.) I've been into the fetish/kink scene for almost 3 years.
My interests are dollification, which is female masking and dressing up in a femsuit. It's not your average kink but has been around for quite a number of years and there are many maskers out there like myself. Many who have been doing it longer.
I also started out interested in pet (puppy) play and tried some chastity too. Which I still have some cages. Hence the name ChastityPup. Which has been shortened to Chastity, Chas or Pup.
However, I’m also into service sub as my male self without the doll or pet play, as I am constantly learning and evolving as not only a kinkster but as a person.
My main interests after these are impact play. Paddles, floggers, spankings etc.
I would like to start as a sub and learn the craft before maybe trying my hand as Domming either as Chastity or my regular self. I find it's very important to start from the bottom before I attempt to Dom/me. I would also be open to switching. If I do evolve to be a Dom I’d put safety and aftercare as a main priority. I would be a caring Dom who would indulge in some impact play but would also be a carer to a little.
I would like to meet a like-minded woman who is open is as open minded as I am (whether local or within driving distance, a few hours drive for play date don't hurt).
I have been to BBB in Birmingham and really enjoyed it. Meeting up with a great bunch of kink friends to share a fabulous weekend with. Exploring more about the kink world through the market and the night event.
I have been told I have a great sense of humour bordering on warped. LOL But I also know how to make a woman feel like a lady. Being a true gentleman (or lady in Chastity mode).
I am open and honest and if you wish to ask me anything I'll be as open and honest with my answers.
I have hobbies outside of kink too. I like movies (especially comic book/action/horror), anime (especially ones from the late 80's to the 90's) and listening to music (which range from Dean Martin to Slipknot) I know a wide variety but. the music has to have some heart and soul to it.
I also like sports and deep conversations with some warped humour.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 55 years ● 245km around UK, Caerphilly 6 months ago

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