Chubby dates in your area - BDSM & Fetish dating

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I'm looking for someone who shares at least a few of my interests but is, more importantly, passionate about what they like and do. I really do love hearing people who care go off about things even if I'm not currently into it. I'm really good at taking interest in other people. I need someone willing to be proactive in relationship building; someone, who will start conversations with me as much as I do with them. I'm huge on affection that goes both ways. While the closer you are to North Carolina, the better. I'm happy with leaving things long distance as long as we can meet at some point. I would be more than happy to move out of my state for the right person.

For myself, I can be assertive when the situation calls for it and often find myself taking on leadership roles. When people get to know me more, I think they find someone sweet and sensitive.

I'm going to college for programming and will probably make a career out of that, but my biggest passion is writing and storytelling. My other interests include reading, playing video games, tabletop games, and video essays online, and probably a dozen other niche things that take up my time.

I'm happy to be your boy, your pet, or just your sub. I just need the dynamic to feel loving. I need the sense my happiness is on your mind even when you do things like hit or humilate me. I'm big into getting collared because I adore the feeling of someone wanting me if that makes sense.

I'm huge into praise and teasing and I'm willing to give most things a shot as long as it's not an extreme kink like permanent damage, scat, knifeplay and the obvious stuff. I like calling the dominant mommy but I dun need it. While this component of the relationship is important, we should get to know each other as people first.

Here's some important things about me and my needs that may be dealbreakers for you.

I don't believe in God but have great respect for religious people. While I'll never be a believer, I'd make some accommodations for a lover's beliefs.
You need to be left of center. We can disagree on a lot of things, but must fundamentally understand the world as a flawed place that needs to be improved.
I'm a chubby masc person right now. But I'm also nonbinary and will be taking moves to become more androgenous such as pursuing laser hair removal and eventually hrt.
I'm looking for someone between 20-37

Please do not message me just because you want any sub. I want to relate to you. If you consider yourself a creative person, we'll probably get along.

If all that sounds good to you please send me a chat on here and tell me about yourself! After that let's go somewhere else to talk ideally discord. I wont chat anywhere that does not allow me to use my keyboard.