Hello and thank you for taking the time to read this somewhat long post. I am attempting to establish minimum compatibility prior to spending an extensive amount of time chatting. your honesty with yourself, who you are, and what you want is paramount.
My ultimate goal is to find a partner in life with whom I can be Myself without . My descriptions and requirements below are in many cases goals, though they need to be acceptable to you as anything said or written is considered an acknowledgement and soft-commitment; honesty and transparency are important to Me.
Obviously, there will be discussions surrounding basic life goals and desires as well as the items below, so don't get scared away thinking you and your feelings are not being considered. Part of being a Daddy is concern for My girl and her well being.
you will use My use of capitalization in written communications.
The lists below are in no particular order, hence bullets, not numbers, mostly just a stream of consciousness.
I very much look forward to starting a dialogue with you, so reach out soon.
About Me
I am an Owner/Daddy who has had one submissive 30 years ago and the same one again recently for a total of about 2 years. That relationship is completely over now.
The hiatus between was when I pushed the kinkier side of Me down and lived a vanilla life. I am at the point I no longer want to ignore my kinks and fetishes and I would like to have another sub/slave with a cervix to join Me.
β€’ I have a low body count and prefer you to have the same, if possible, though this is not a hard requirement. Corrupting you is one of my fetishes.
β€’ I want to create a relationship of trust and safety where we both can express our desires without judgement.
β€’ Assuming compatibility, marriage is possible/probable though regardless you will be collared.
β€’ I have an extensive list of kinks and fetishes, some of which may be considered extreme.
β€’ I have sadistic tendencies.
β€’ I am well educated.
β€’ I have a felony conviction for negligent homicide as part of a traffic collision. No
or alcohol were involved.
β€’ I am white.
β€’ I have a penis about 80% of average.
β€’ I am currently overweight (200 lb), though I am working to improve Myself. My goal is 150 to 160 lb.
β€’ My known limits are no or play.
About you
β€’ you may have from previous relationship(s).
β€’ you are open to being pregnant (once again) as I would like to have a child. This is not a hard requirement as long as you are accept another carrying the child.
β€’ your commitment to me will be unshakeable regardless of our activities.
β€’ you will put Me before yourself.
β€’ you will never lie or deceive Me in any way as this would erode and/or threaten the safe environment.
β€’ Preferably, you are similar in your experiences and lack thereof, and have my kinks and fetishes you have repressed and want to experience.
β€’ you understand that I will most likely be open to or already have any fetish or kink you desire.
β€’ your kinks/fetishes may concern or scare you because you
the repercussions (not a requirement) as getting you to do those things is part of my desire. The safe environment I am seeking to build should help assuage many of your concerns.
o you will perform My fetishes and kinks even when they are not fully your own.
o you will be having sex with women. Whether you enjoy it to start is not relevant, though you will be expected to obey and participate enthusiastically.
β€’ you will be expected to address Me as Sir at most times. Other pet names are acceptable as long as they are respectful.
β€’ you will be collared once compatibility and long-term commitment has been established.
β€’ you have masochistic tendencies.
β€’ you swallow.
β€’ you may be given an SLRN (this can be discussed).
β€’ you will keep a tidy house and provide healthy meals (similar to TradWife).
β€’ Preferably, you are similar in your experiences and lack thereof, and have many kinks/fetishes you have repressed and want to experience.
β€’ Preferably, you are similar to Me in your experiences and lack thereof, and have many kinks/fetishes you have repressed and want to experience.

BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 50 years ● 5km around USA Westmont

When reaching out to me if you do not include your age with your location city & state in the message it will be ignored.

I am seeking a male sub/switch who is between the ages of 28-60. Absolutely NO EXCEPTIONS to that age range, so don't even ask.

Looking for someone who can fully to commit to a minimum of 2+ sessions per month and medium online interaction between sessions such as kinky calls and messaging.

Where most people are only vetting for similar kinks and STI free, I'm vetting for compatibility, longevity, and overall satisfaction of the dynamic as well. This means I have an extremely thorough vetting process and do not do casual encounters. If you are looking for immediate play or one time interactions do not respond to this posting.

I’m seeking a cisgender male sub/switch between the age of 28-60 located in the Dallas/Fort Worth Texas area or Honolulu, Oahu, Hawaii. I would prefer someone who is into sensual domination, that also likes impact play and anal play. Must be drama and drug free and have a current full 10 test STI panel within 90 days or less. I’m not looking for a one time use sub/switch, but rather someone who is wanting regular sessions at least 2+ times per month or more. Weekly sessions is ideal. I am willing to take on subs/switches new to Femdom, but l have an extensive protocol regarding that type of interaction. I am open to all body types & ethnicities. Tattoos and body modifications are ok, and I like facial hair.

The expectations I have for my subs is pretty simple:

Transparency and honesty
Commitment to our dynamic
Consent
Respect my limits, consent, privacy, and boundaries

About me:

Kink since 2003. BDSM since 2012. Domme leaning switch since 2019. Currently I am engaging in M/s dynamics only as of late 2024.
What I offer my play partner is the opportunity to engage in a safe and consensual dynamic where their needs are met, their limits are respected, and their consent is required. I want to leave my partners better off than the way I found them.

I offer my partners:

Friendship
Emotional Support
Positive Guidance
Healthy Habits & Routines
Physical Intimacy
Safe Kink Exploration
Aftercare
Transparency & Honesty
Respect
Consent
Commitment
Respecting limits, consent, privacy, and boundaries

BDSM Play Partner ● 28 to 60 years ● 25km around USA Dallas

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