Desi on Fetish.com

Hello,

Switch here. I play both roles, and I play them well. How well? Message me and find out! 😉

I absolutely ADORE a woman’s feet and would say that foot fetish is my main/biggest fetish. Aside from that, I have quite the list of fetishes and kinks that I’ve either done or would be willing to try.

I have 17 years on and off in the lifestyle. I’m mostly Dom, but over the past three years I’ve recently discovered submissive desires, though I have yet to find the right woman to act on them.

What am I looking for? A loyal and obedient sub girl who will actually take the time to get to know each other and not leave after the first message, and a powerful, dominant Mistress who will show me my place as a sub and make me into Her perfect little bitch boy.

So if you like what you read, let’s chat! By the way, race, body type, and age don’t matter, but all I ask is that you’re clean, sane, REAL, honest, and have some idea of the lifestyle. Thanks!

I am just a cross dresser and I absolutely love it. Keeping myself completely smooth wearing lingerie chasity cage and heels is my favorite. New belly button jewelry and trying different makeup is very entertaining. I've been infatuated with the idea of finding the perfect woman who is excited and supportive about my crossdressing and fantasy of being a sissy slave ( I love anal)... Having a partner that enjoys my fantasy and wants to be apart of it would be a dream come true along with the biggest turn on and most emotions I have experienced. Emotional because of how *** I have to be to trust in you. You'll always have my complete attention and desire to be everything you need and deserve....... Wow that took some serious though hope it was worth it.

So… I am writing this because a lot of people seem to be confused with…let’s call it “The inner workings” of
B.D.S.M. ( not here of course, just in general)...
Bdsm and M/s are separate things, M/s may or may not contain elements of bdsm.
The bdsm community outnumber the True M/s people by a huge amount.
True M/s couples (or groups) are not that common.
They appear common because bdsm people mostly believe that M/s is a part of bdsm.
And bdsm people often, in fact usually blur the distinction between M/s and Dom/sub.
They throw around terms such as slave and Master like candy but those words are like the word love to me and should never just be thrown around.
Mostly, they do not understand (or accept) slave, as property.
In the bdsm world most activities revolve around “scenes”
This is where the term slave gets *d, people always used to use the term submissive which is the correct term, but the word slave seems to be in fashion. Something that people don’t understand the totality of the word slave.
Now in True M/s lives, the slave gives permission and consent to her/his Master when the slave is collared.
Therefor the Master never needs consent again.
However, many in the bdsm world won’t understand or appreciate this.
They also mostly won’t appreciate that the slave is Master’s property and He can do anything He so wishes, so ** and **** are largely mute points.
Because for it to be real, there cannot be any limits.
Sex, massage, dancing, seduction etc.
She always looks and smells divine.
A true slave weaves the essence of love, honor, high ideals, and strong desire to grow spiritually in these areas…as well as all aspects in life. It is well to see how the Master describes this subject. To Honor…To Love…High Ideals…And a strong Desire to grow Spiritually…Are not only how the Master describes this subject…But is the reason why Master…is…Master…
But everyone must take responsibility for their own reality. It is an art, and as such requires not only study and practice but also the inspiration and the love-hate relationship all artists have with their craft.
Through experience of Master’s…They can tell you what the two trademarks are of all True women are:

• The ability to laugh, even at the worst horrors…And…

• The ability to throw jargon out the door and discern the heart of every matter while never taking any matter too seriously.
The simple reason for these abilities is that by actually doing Your own reality and actually experiencing the magickal universe instead of merely reading about it, these abilities are automatically developed.
T/they should be overjoyed with T/their common connection…W/we all recognize the potential that results in the formation of this union…it is merely the beginning of something new…
T/they should be empowered by T/their sexual Magick…and though it transforming into the beginning of who T/they should be…The Beauty of the connection that is so Strong…no Limits…total Trust…above all Loyalty… Did You all read that?? Above All Loyalty… If Master and slave can not be loyal then it is Not a true M/s relationship, it is Dom/sub relationship. A M/s relationship is stronger than Any Marriage anywhere on Earth and should be treated as such! It is a lifetime commitment! That is why there are only a handful of “True” M\s relationships in the world!
Everything in balance.
A True slave should trust in her intuition and nurture her environment of deep devotion, patience, and intense passion…sometimes in silence…
Master and slave together set the standards for which direction they want their life to go.
The slaves’ opinion is always listened to by Master; but in the end the slave knows that His decision is Final.
Every Master strives for “the slave that comes willingly on bended knee” that His slave learns to just pick up on these things over time and doesn’t have to be told or punished anymore.
Its understanding more than just sex, its learning about each other

Are you a mistress into rubber fetishes, high heels and corsets, looking for a sub to humiliate and bound in any way you desire for your own pleasure ? Then you should probably not let this add pass away ! I am a young and handsome man, ready to explore with you the BDSM you like, and share with you my own fantaisies ! I am looking for a regular game partner for spending kinky evenings together, or even more ! No *** required, just win-win relationship. Do not hesitate to text me and view my +18 photos on my account !

Looking for someone open to open marriage to meet and potentially play with, who shares many of same interests and desires

Looking for LTR with like minded woman. With an unquenchable zet for Life and sex, I have learned that giving is more pleasurable than self interest. I like to explore the roles in sub and dom liaisons. I am experienced in sexual matters and been complimented on my oral technique often. I treat people with respect and consideration with out exception, recognising that we are all woderful, lovable, ***, frail and fallible.

I am an honest, respectful and open-minded guy looking for friendship, deep connections and on-going fun with someone who wants to take the time to build a relationship. Must desire wanting to grow and explore mentally, sexually and spiritually (not religious).

I have a number of hobbies/interests including movies, tv, cars, motorcyles, gardening, travel, and geeky tech stuff like home automation, home theater, 3D printing, airbrushing and hand-***ting.

Feel free to reach out to me and let's start a conversation!

Mature sin menLooking for a male submissive for a committed, monogamous dynamic. Must be between the ages of 40 and 60. Any messages from anyone requesting play outside of these parameters will be ignored/blocked. NO SMOKERS OR VAPERS

Please note I'm currently unable to host and not willing to have a purely online relationship or travel more than 20 miles from the Maidstone area.

The ability to communicate effectively is extremely important to me. Whilst experience isnt a necessity, please be honest about your desires, wants and needs. I will respect and honour your limitations, and build the trust needed to build a special connection.

I absolutely love to peg and make an arse nice and red with a good paddle. I also have soft spot for watching a sub drink my . , ***, sissification and being caged are also some of my favourite things. I will never participate in catheterisation. Likewise needles whilst im mentioning hard limits.

Despite being on the hunt for a sub, I would really like to would to chat with likeminded individuals looking for friendship.
One question, one chance, one honest answer. You can ask me one question (TO MY INBOX ONLY!). Any question, anything, no matter how crazy, dirty or wrong it is. No catch. But I dare you to post this on your about me and see what people ask you.

Second type of relationship I am looking for is a woman submissive/bottom. The kinkier and dirtier the better. Open to all your desires, kinks, fetishes, even taboo. Nothing illegal though. I am very flexible and accommodating. We'll create a partnership around your interests, ***s, limits. I love to please and respect your wishes and boundaries. Safe, discreet, humor, passionate.

Within 75 miles or so from North Denver/Thornton Co.

If you're reading there is at least a part of you that wants to find peace. You want the ability to trust your dominant enough that you can just let go. You can just exist and experience. Deep down you want that.

The question is whether or not you have the desire to learn. Can you learn to obey? Can you learn to anticipate need? When you aren't perfect can you learn to accept that punishment is needed? Can you learn from punishment? Do you want to be perfect for a demanding but magnanimous dominant? These are all questions you should ask.

Do you truly want to be a good girl? Do you want to learn how to be my good girl? My hope is there is at least one of you who has the will to match your desire.

Looking for a new sub. My new sub will be "baby diaper girl" and wear a diaper and onesie while with me if she is allowed to be clothed. She will be completely taken care of and not need to or be allowed to make any decisions or do anything without my say so. No water sports, no one is ing on you, playing with any poop etc. Not into that, no branding no no marks bruises only safe play with safe word but with the baby diaper girl twist. I'm a formally trained Dom have been for 20 years. I enjoy teaching about the lifestyle as much as living it and really enjoy pushing subs to their limits so they can learn about themselves and come out as better stronger people. I'm a respectful Master but a non tolerant one. I don't like disobedience and it's not my choice but a fact that punishment follows disobedience. Will never cross the prearranged limits ever and always have safety at the top of my priority list before the fun comes into play. If you don't understand what the lifestyle is about and that sex is very low on the priority list in a Master/slave Dom/sub relationship then we're not a fit from the start. It's all about power control pushing limits exploring your wants desires likes you never new you had but having fun and getting close to someone you trust along the way. Don't get me wrong I love sex very much so as a matter of fact but thats not why I want a sub/slave if I wanted just sex there are much easier ways- buy a couple drinks at a local bar for a cutie impress her with my sense of humor then later with everything else 😁😁 just kidding. Baby Diaper Girl where are you? Your daddy needs to find you he is worried about you and is bored with no one to take care of.

Hi, I am seeking something real and realistic. A relationship, preferably LTR, with a dominant woman where we can share all kink and vanilla interests. In person, face to face. Old school. I am a bit old fashioned, very monogamous, still believe in chivalry.
I am notlookingforsomeonetodospecificthingsto me. I am looking for someone who shares similar interests. I am not interested in changing myself
or who I am, and I am not interested in someone changing who they are, or compromising, for me. I am, however, open minded and am open to exploring and growing. But I won't compromise my hard limits and boundaries, just as I would never expect or ask you to compromise yours. if I haven't mentioned a specific interest of yours, feel free to ask. I am open and honest, feel free to ask me anything.
I am a sub. Not a slave. I am very comfortable with who I am. While I am happy to learn, adapt, and grow. I will not change who I am or what I am looking for.
As already mentioned, I am seeking realistic. I have interests outside of kink. I have dogs. I have a serious soft spot for rescues. If you share this interest, that would be fantastic. Living as a gimp in a cage until needed, is entirely unrealistic.
I am not desperate. I will not chase you if you are not interested, or we are not compatible. I'm looking for a mutually beneficial relationship where we both want the same things, reasonably. I will not try to something that was never going to work.
I am more than happy to answer questions, clarify, or even just exchange ideas. Feel free to contact me, and if it wasn't meant to be, then it wasn't meant to be. But at least we'll know.

I am a masculine and muscular sub male with a special interest in chastity. I don't have any interest in feminization or being a sissy. Not judging others, just being honest. If that is what you seek, I wouldn't be a good match for you. I seek someone who enjoys the control chastity gives as them much as I enjoy being controlled.
I am emotionally and physically strong. I am not submissive because I am weak, I choose submission because I have been drawn to dominant women since as long as I can remember. I am not a beta anything. I am not a sub because I am weak. I choose submission. I do not choose the submissive role with just anyone. I choose submission when I am with a dominant woman who inspires my submission. One who I am comfortable enough with to offer my submission to. Those who know me, but not this side of me would be shocked that I am submissive. So that leads to the next submissive cliche. I am not worthless, useless or have a weak character. Why anyone would want someone who is worthless is beyond me. I'm not a worthless sub, I seek to be a valued sub. My words may say this, but my actions will prove it.
I pursue a healthy lifestyle, am active, am at the gym at least 3 days a week. No , no smoke at all, rarely drink. I make an effort to keep healthy, but am not fanatical at all.
I am intelligent, creative, witty, and have a great sense of humor.
I am very functional and very sexual, my interest in chastity is control. I do not use chastity to mask any physical issues. I enjoy pleasing my partner and I enjoy long term arousal. And a woman who truly enjoys that control is incredibly exciting.
And being someone who believes in actions over words, chastity is proof that I am 9nly interested in one woman when you have been given my keys. I always hated the infidelity questions if I worked late, of was at the gym longer that normal. Steel chastity, pa piercing, says devoted to one as strongly and confidently as possible.
I am experienced in short term denial as well as long term denial and am ready for whatever you decide or desire. I do really enjoy a sexually selfish dominant woman. The control is very addictive, especially if she enjoys it as much as I do. I feed off of the energy of the one I'm with. If you feel guilty, I feel guilty. If you are excited, I am excited. I want you to be comfortable with your control and enjoy it. So that you find as much fulfillment as I do.

I have several stainless steel devices and am secured with a pa piercing. You hold complete control when you hold the key. And as this is completely consensual, you are free to enjoy and explore your control. And enjoy it. My pleasure is derived from your pleasure. The more you enjoy things, the more I do.
I am a moderate masochist. I have many years of experience in bdsm, and I love bondage and (moderate, but eager to explore) ***. Again, it's the control. But chastity a way to feel bondage and control day and night. Without being a burden on you. Everyday, all day control. It is fun when I forget about it, but am reminded by the unforgiving steel. All day long, at different times, I am reminded of my keyholder. I love that snap back to reality that the control is very real.
With masochism, like chastity, I feed off the energy of the one I'm with. The more you enjoy it, the more I do, and the more my tolerance goes up.
I want to be well rounded. If you feel light and sensual, if you feel hard and heavy, light tease, intense tease, or are not in the mood. My wish is to be available for whatever you need. I seek to improve your life, not complicate it.

I am in Southern California, I have houses in Palm Springs and Big Bear Lake. I can escape the heat and the cold as needed. While I love splitting my time between the desert and the mountains, and would love even more to find someone to share all this with. I would be open to relocation to the right location. Hit me up if you want to know more.

Seeking a submissive female slut that’s ready to play and be in service in numerous ways!
Me: Gentleman Dom Sane, communicative, experienced, sensual, caring, into oral, anal, vaginal, massage, role play, sensory deprivation, bondage, suspension, spanking, ***d orgasm and more.
You: Mentally mature, healthy, attractive, submissive woman that loves to please and be pleased. Ready to let go and submit to her fantasies and desires whilst being in service in numerous ways.

I’m excited to talk and play while we are getting naughty flirty and naked hand on my dick and I bet it feels nutz with a bonner never ever will it leave your pussylips your BONNER

Looking for new friends and experiences - sights are set pretty low- new to this ap. Let’s talk and discuss!
I like giving pleasure and fulfilling desires more than having mine to meet

Submissive ENM little vixen seeking her Dominant Daddy Stag who'll allow her the freedom to explore her desires (and even help instigate them) without wanting/needing to have Sexual relations with others (unless with his vixen in a pre-agreed situation).
I'm aware this is unique, but if I don't ask for what I'd really like, I'll never have a chance of finding it.

Newcomer here,I had the pleasure of being fisted for the first time recently and now I'm dying for more! I'd be absolutely delighted to be as obedient as I'm told as you use me as your slave and get my tight asshole able to take multiple women taking turns and gaping me. Secondly, the thought of having my face and body covered in shit as my ass is being taught is utterly desired.

I'm very new here so please excuse if I've gone about this in a wrong way.

I'd just love to hear from any women who may be interested in taking me as a willing slut

I'm new to this scene and looking for female too or switch to explore my own desires in a safe container,interested in looking into my dominant side as well as enjoying surrender at times myself,interested in bondage,role play,light power play,role play,and giving and receiving pleasure but I get a lot from giving,so not sure what that makes me!:-) In based in London area and up for meeting or to learn of local clubs and munches as feel ready to explore physically with the right woman...

Looking to be used and ***d. To be led and guided to fulfill your desires.

looking for a beaytiful women to serve oraly idealy id love to find someone ro try either 1 of two fantasies id need a sub intreasted in being tie up and to restrained maybe blind folded while i take my time to explore your body and stimulaate your senses with a variety of new toys until your dripping wet almost ready to climax all so i just so i can taste tast your sweet cum as you orgasm and squirt for me. OR A DOM FEMALE INTO MAYBE USING ME AS HER OWN PERSONAL FUCKING TOY FOR HER ORAL PLEASURE HOW EVER AND WHAT EVER THAT MIGHT BE FOR YOU IF YOU WANT. I WILL BE A GOOD BOY AND DO AS YOU COMAND OR YOU CAN TIGHT ME UP, *** AND COMAND ME, IM YOURS TO DO AS YOU DESIRE WHAT EVER YOU MAY WANT ME TO DO TO YOU OR YOU TO DO TO ME so If these sounds like something you might be up for message me and lets set somehting up im open to this being an on going thing fir us or just one time with no strings attached

looking for a beaytiful women to serve oraly idealy id love to find someone ro try either 1 of two fantasies id need a sub intreasted in being tie up and to restrained maybe blind folded while i take my time to explore your body and stimulaate your senses with a variety of new toys until your dripping wet almost ready to climax all so i just so i can taste tast your sweet cum as you orgasm and squirt for me. OR A DOM FEMALE INTO MAYBE USING ME AS HER OWN PERSONAL FUCKING TOY FOR HER ORAL PLEASURE HOW EVER AND WHAT EVER THAT MIGHT BE FOR YOU IF YOU WANT. I WILL BE A GOOD BOY AND DO AS YOU COMAND OR YOU CAN TIGHT ME UP, *** AND COMAND ME, IM YOURS TO DO AS YOU DESIRE WHAT EVER YOU MAY WANT ME TO DO TO YOU OR YOU TO DO TO ME so If these sounds like something you might be up for message me and lets set somehting up im open to this being an on going thing fir us or just one time with no strings attached

We’re looking for a female partner to join us as friends and in the bedroom! I’m open to my husband doing solo play if he desires, but he’s not comfortable with that endeavor yet, so it will be the 3 of us for now. I don’t engage away from him as my personal preference.

Experienced Dom with an element of fun. Stimulating the mind is the way to find your desires and share them together. Looking for my fem-fetale to share the journey of domination and willingness to serve

Hi am a man, inexperienced as had lots of social anxiety in past. especially expressing my kinks and dominating side,love to give pleasure have mutual fun, and get into role play..but want to meet someone that either wants to talk about our sexual desires and come to an agreement something to start off in this road, excited but new to this world...much appreciate any reply,Marcus g...looking forward to the potentials that may unfold with time!!:-)