ABOUT ME:

Warning: I don't reply to low energy chats/messages.

I don't suffer fools gladly. So, if you're going to come at me, have personality, character, rapier wit, a sense of humour and thick skin. If you don’t have all five you'll be lucky to last a minute with me. I'll eat you alive.

Impress me.

Extra points if you're crazy. By crazy I mean Harley Quinn or Drusilla ("Buffy the Vampire Slayer";) crazy.

Crazy is linked to genuine and creativity, which is why I naturally gravitate towards it.

Normal is boring. I'm not normal so I'm certainly not looking for normal.

If you're a pretty face with nothing under the hood I won't be interested.

About me: (Vanilla)

I'm a writer and future (hopefully) author.

I define myself as a sapiosexual, demisexual as well as a romantic, in the same vain as the romantic poets (Shelley, Byron, Burns).

I'd even credit Edgar Allan Poe as a romantic. Yes, he's gothic and dark and wistful and bleak, etc, but he's also ethereal and morbidly erotic.

Poe has always had an intrinsic way of quickening my heart and warming my , much in the same way as any of the aforementioned romantic poets.

Words are erotic to me. It doesn't even have to be sexual. It's more about the emotion behind those words.

It's the notion that every passing second of our time is a second that's gone, never to be relived

The idea that someone has spent their precious time, and spent unknown amount of firing neurons in order to communicate with you, and only you, in a private and an intimate manner.... it's highly, highly erotic.

Especially the written word.

It's why I snub instant messaging and exclusively patronise
.

In terms of the sapiosexual and demisexual go. Intelligence is erotic to me. And so is forming a spiritual as well as a mental bond, as rare as it is.

There are many types of intelligence: linguistic, logical-mathematical, spatial, musical, bodily-kinesthetic, interpersonal, intrsonal, naturalistic, existential, creative, collaborative, practical intelligence, humour, etc

One of my main passions is cooking. I have a natural love and a flair for
cooking. I spend a large portion of my life in the kitchen.

I briefly trained as a chef. Then I didn't.

Cooking has always been intuitive and really natural to me. I can't bake worth a damn, though.

Baking is too much like chemistry to me. You require exact measurements, etc. With cooking you can riff, you can get creative and
t outside the lines.

I'm a deep thinker. I'm spiritual (NOT religious) and believe in the power
of Chi. I believe in Ghosts, Vampires and Werewolves (what's life without whimsy), dimensions, multiverses, etc.

I'm interested in meditation and general self-improvement and self analysis.

Making mistakes, and owning them, is the quickest road to self-improvement.

A person who thinks that they're infallible and always right, will never grow, and they don’t think they have to.

I'm a free-thinker and tend to think independently from the masses. I naturally deviate from convention and tread the path less trodden.

"To thine ownself be true." - Shakespeare

I'm not a people person. I'm misanthropic.

I'm an introvert. I'm private. I don't like being the centre of attention. In fact, I like to keep as far back from people and the spotlight as
possible.

"The darkness is my friend." - Me.

I'm a geek. Always have been, always will be. Back in the 80s and 90s there was more chance of me being in the company of my Amiga, Spectrum, Master System, Mega Drive and Super Nintendo than a human being.

Not much has changed. Well, replace computer technology with books.

People talk about a "misspent youth." I spent my youth with celebrities such
as Sonic the Hedgehog, Mario Brothers, Donkey Kong, Link and Zelda, Ken, Ryu, Guile, etc.

I consider my youth to be spent wonderfully. I am privileged.

I'm deep, introspective, sardonic. pensive, and morose. I feel more at ease and happiest when I'm alone. I barely tolerate people.

As far as relationships go. I'm open to long distance. I'm seeking a forever TPE dynamic.

I don't really care about distance. I mean, let's be honest, the chance
of meeting a compatible soul is improbable as it is, if you use geography and location as obstacles, the "improbable" becomes the
"impossible".

Besides, it's 2025, not 1725. Distances can be bridged with the aid of heavy machinery with wings.

It takes a while to forge a strong relationship: It requires pillars of: respect, trust, honesty, compatibility, and communication. None of those things come easily or without dedication, conviction, and
time.

I'm a sapiosexual as well as a demisexual. I find intelligence very, very hot! Saying that, I'm not necessarily looking for a woman who is in MENSA. Intelligence comes in all shapes and sizes with many gradations and nuances.

There are many types of intelligence: linguistic, logical-mathematical, spatial, musical, bodily-kinesthetic, interpersonal, intrsonal, naturalistic, existential, creative, collaborative, practical intelligence, humour, etc

I require a mental, emotional, and spiritual bond before I can enter a physical relationship.

I'm not a social media person. The only social media platform I'm on is
Twitter (I'm not calling it X). I'm solely on there to contact customer
services of various companies.

I'm antisocial socially and antisocial social-medially.

My communication method of choice is
s.

With s, you're able to convey mass amounts of information and details
without interruption, therefore making the "getting to know you" process quicker than short burst of texts on IM.

With
s you can write chapter upon chapter.

With IM it's all immediate. IM gives you an obligation to reply instantly.

Sorry. Not for me.

I'm not saying that I'm unable to banter. Oh. I banter with the best of the. My banter skills are off the charts.

Movies: Fright Night 1 & 2, The Lost Boys, Nosferatu (1922), Interview with the Vampire, Dracula (1931), Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Shadow of the Vampire? Barefoot in the park, Breakfast at Tiffany's, My Fair Lady, Casablanca, Jerry Maguire, Serendipity, Say Anything, Almost Famous,
Breakfast Club, Ferris Bueller's day off, Weird Science, Elvira: Mistress of the dark, Elvira: Haunted Hills, Dirty Dancing, The Big
Sick, Star Wars (The original trilogy), Firefly.

Television: Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Angel, Crazy Ex-Girlfriend, It's Always sunny in Philadelphia, Wednesday, Seinfeld, Curb Your Enthusiasm, Sex and the City, The Simpsons, Scrubs. South Park.

Author/Writer: Jane Austen, Edgar Allen Poe, Bram Stoker, The Bronte ***s, Emily Dickinson.

Music: The Smiths, The Cure, AC/DC, Classical music.


ABOUT ME: (Kink)

(Before I begin, I feel it incumbent upon to me to make a PSA:

If you're a new submissive (or even if you're experienced), of even a new Dominant, I want you to realize that there are a lot of men who use the pretense of being a "Dominant" in order to justify and legitimise their abusive tendencies.

Also, a submissive has as much power as a Dominant. More so, in fact, so don't be bullied and coerced into entering a toxic relationship.

A BDSM dynamic has to be built on mutual respect)

Red flag list:

  1. Moving things too fast, lack of patience e.g wanting to collar you or wanting you to address them as "Master", etc, immediately after meeting them and/or being in contact with them.

  2. Willing to collar you even if there's a lack of compatibility.

  3. Lack of communication. A relationship ought to be based on communication and you can only learn about a person through it.

  4. Someone who doesnt want to hear about hard limits.

  5. Lack of respect e.g someone calling you derogatory names and/or expecting you to submit on their initial contact. Respect has to be earned, and so does disrespect.

  6. Someone who isn't interested in you as a human being.

  7. Someone who isn't willing or interested in connecting in an emotional level.

  8. Easy to anger. Actually, any inclination towards anger is a red flag.

  9. Lack of compatibility)

    I want a dynamic that is 24/7.

    I'm not into "keeping it in the bedroom/behind closed doors", as that's too much like roleplay with an on and off switch and it's way too low energy for me.

    No matter where you are or what you're doing, I want our dynamic to be swimming in your veins. I want the mere thought of me to increase your flow. I want the thought of me to warm your so that there's red lava flowing to and from your heart, a heart that quickens at the thought of me. The thought that I will own you forever. The thought of me being mentor, your guide, your teacher, your protector, your Dominant.

    My form of Dominance is one of psychology.

    It's my belief that before you can control a body and before you have a right to expect to claim dominion over a body, you must first infiltrate the mind:

    I want to know how you think, what you love, what you like, what you
    hate, and what you dislike. I want to know about your formative years, your upbringing, your parents, your family, your hobbies, your skills, your triumphs, your failures and your dreams and aspirations.

    I want to know about your experience as well as your dream BDSM dynamic. I
    want to know what turns you on, what gets your engines roaring, what your limit are, what reviles and disgusts you. I want to know the dirty little secrets inside your locked closet. I want to know what kinky stuff you've done, what sordid activities you'd love to try and I want to know exactly what type of submissive/slave you see yourself as, as well as describing you as you want to be.

    I, as your Dominant will make it my responsibility as well as my life goal to mould and to encourage you to flourish into the very best version of yourself that you can possibly be.

    This dynamic will be a living, breathing organism. It'll grow and develop and mature. It will be 24/7. It'll be all consuming, and it will be a life choice. A life lived together. Forever.

    At work, you will be my submissive. At the supermarket and at the mall and out in public, with your family you will be owned by me. Your every breath will contain my whisper. Every thought will have my fingerprints. And you will live knowing that every facet of your mind, body, life and soul are owned by me.

    And you will give them willingly, as it's my responsibility to encourage you to grow and develop. I will nurture you and teach you.

    I will adore you.

    I'll listen. I'll be your coach. I'll be your teacher, your mentor, your confidant, your protector as well as your best friend.

    I can not stress this enough. For a D/s dynamic to work, it has to be built on friendship. There must be unbreakable trust and respect. This
    is framed with communication and honesty. Through this, trust and affection will grow.

    Every cylinder must be firing. Every molecule must be engaged.

    We will be a team. We will listen, talk, laugh, share and learn from the other. Our bond will be stronger than any metal or element known to God or to man.

    This isn't an easy connection to develop. It takes honesty, trust,
    communication, dedication,compability, faith and time. Come into this half-hearted, and it will not work.

    Edgar Allen Poe has always been my muse: A Raven, my spirit .

    I would enjoy a walk and a picnic in a cemetery (probably by candlelight)
    as much as normal people would would like a walk and picnic in a park.

    My kinks are, but not limited to:

    Watersports, Vampirism (Hematolagnia)
    psychological Dominance,
    , public , Goth, taboo, skull-fucking, , pukejobs, d puking, rough fucking, anal, free use, CNC, play, bimbofication, food
    control, body modification, behaviour modification, body writing, deepthroat, TPE, chains, leather, outfits, heels, DP (with dildos, etc), toys, edging, tasks, cages, collar and leash, CMNF, etc.

    Hard limits: Poly and ***.

    I am not a soft Dom. As you call tell from my kink list, I do like taboo and extreme kinks. Essentially, though, verything is up for negotiation and discussion.

    I will be as extreme as I'm allowed to be.

    Very little is off the table.

Pro-Dom/me Session18 to 80 years ● 500km around UK Hamilton

Relationships are always stronger when you are best friends first, and a couple second.
A relationship is really the last thing on my mind. Just be my friend. Be my peace Everything else will fall in place if meant to be.

Grow a friendship with the right connection chemistry aligning with courtship only seeing them over time in the right vibration.


Yet a mystery within syfy vintage to now in another place and time.

Life is a journey into the unknown…

Mountain or sea?
Both its more the adventure.



• Poetic • Intelligent minds • Empathic • Deep conversation•Forgotten languages •Endless places•Photography• Artistic brilliance •


Just here read art & share a thought.
I am fine with mature conversation so on but nothing that crosses the line.
If I share anything take as you feel find what works for you.
I like to get to know people before anything I am bit selective when comes to friendship I don't take random request not looking to collect people this just how I am will not change.I fine with small circle I have in real. Respect in return the favor.

  • The purpose of our lives is to be happy, learn from our mistakes and grow from our regret.
  • Rise above the storm, and you will find the sun.
  • In three words, I can sum up everything I've learned about life: it goes on


    Stay Soft , it looks beautiful on you. -Dior

    The most effective way to show compassion to another is to listen rather than talk. -Princess Diana

    To give life, we must enter the void, the silence between our thoughts. Here in the unbounded, the formless, the gap, is the source of all manifestation, all creation. This is the place where synchronicity begins to unfold and where the seemingly impossible takes place.
    Dr. Wayne W. Dyer

    I will not be"famous,"'"great" I will go on adventures, Changing , Opening my mind and my eyes , refusing to be stamped and stereotyped. The things is to free one's self: to let it find its dimensions , not be impeded.

  • Virginia Woolf




    23 years this rollarcoaster lifestyle
    BDSM and me
    Feed me with your mind . . .

    Slex/Relationship not really the first thing
    on my mind more be my peace don't be a headache just bit selective when comes to the right connection with the soul. Not just anyone that just enters with looking for a relationship, not the right taste of breakfast. The lifestyle in my eyes more of art not a fetish bit old school respect with dignity comes in favor. D/s has always been love and trust with bond. The best things come unexpectedly at the right time when you least expect it. You can't a connection to be in the right vibration at the right time. More of a feeling a soul spark, it's very rare. Only one for one not in sharing sorry to break it to you.Range 40-50 on the same page on the same level with the vibe and feeling. Not anti social just selective social as soul selective feeling connection. Just that age should show.

    Well Written as a bottom yet submissive with a beautiful mind with Art is more of a passion to be embraced as erotica but the soft classic core of it.
    with pleasure to be under a man Classic curvy 1950’s/Stepford Sensual bottom to be under a Head of Household know my place but in a fair manner. With love, romance & .Old Soul Fond of vintage and art with classical things but loves the universe with sci -fi , supernatural ethics of things. 23 years on this Ferris wheel lifestyle as a maso 1950s/Stepford. Take the right HoH, take the hand Lead the way one bit grown and secure can carry yourself well good to my eyes.

    Our souls do not speak a human language; they communicate to us through symbols , metaphors , visions , poetry , deep feeling , and everyday magic.

    There are those who say they love you.... And then there are those who lace your heels ,hearts are crossed.

    Your Naked body should only belong to those who fall in love with your naked soul.

    Just want good company, a guy to vibe with connection & conversation converse with laugh without in a rush. Start simple m and let the test find itself. Having someone to talk to and feeling comfortable around them is quite a beautiful thing and it's a good feeling.

    Trust chemistry , Chemistry that you don't have to question , at all. Where nothing feels
    d. it;s just natural. Everything just flows & it is so obvious. It's such a rare connection with another person.

    My favorite sex position is one where you are down to grow with you as a person and care about your mental health & well being.

    Arouse me mentally so I can feel you spiritually then when we touch physically we'll fall in sync soulfully.

    If you want to know mine , Study my soul . explore poets I read , listen to my favorite songs and learn about the stars , the oceans and beautifully wild things.

    Does have to be a Romantic relationship to be romantic just be conversation and laughter. Just genuine Bond

    Without attachments , without judgment , no ***d love , without jealousy , enjoy the moments , growing friendship , the company , be each other's peace , things grow and flow , Buddha level. If we let go of the old ways we just accept each other, be a bond, be each other peace see if we click the whole relationship thing comes later.Last thing but genuine friendship, partnership , if we click we vibe.

    Love is rare , But to love first love you first Master that so you can love another then go on with loving.

    I am bit selective carry myself take pride in appearance it goes both ways good to my eyes I take care myself I dress up but for myself someone should be happy to even be part of it.
    Limits
    Shared with one and only as should be as its a mystery. ; )

    Into: intelligent conversation, laced with wit, subtlety, humour and mutual satisfaction.

    Curious About: Being ravished by His gaze from across the room.

    thanks for the offer but I don't do online play.
    What's new
    Been here and back but busy at times.

Kinky Date40 to 50 years ● 100km around USA Pingree Grove