I am a 50 year old chubby white male from the Nassau and Suffolk border area. I stand 5'11 and weigh around 290 pounds with short brown and gray hair, blue eyes, and a trimmed goatee. I am clean, discreet, and serious about finding a woman who values loyalty, service, and genuine submission.

I am new to this path but every part of me knows that my place is in service to a strong and confident woman. I want to be guided, corrected, and molded into someone who exists to make her life easier and more satisfying. My focus is not on my own pleasure but on hers in every form.

What drives me most is the act of giving, of knowing that my purpose is to bring her comfort, peace, and release. I find deep satisfaction in giving oral attention and taking my time to learn exactly what she likes. The sound of her breath and the way her body responds is all the reward I need. I do not seek sexual gratification for myself. Her pleasure, her calm, and her control are what I crave most.

Beyond the physical side, I want structure, rules, and direction. I take pride in being told what to do and in completing tasks exactly as instructed. Acts of service such as cleaning, organizing, assisting, or small daily rituals make me feel grounded and useful.

I can host or travel and always respect boundaries and privacy. I am clean, safe, and sincere. My limits are , , s, and anything that causes permanent harm. There is no interest in or games. I want a woman who wants to be worshiped and obeyed, and who understands what it means to truly be served.

If you are a bbw who enjoys control and expects complete attention, I would like the chance to serve you. Tell me what pleases you, what you expect, and how you want to be treated. I will listen closely, follow your lead, and give everything I have to your satisfaction.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 99 years ● 25km around USA Copiague

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