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UntrainedSlave
Looking for top

Hello, inexperienced bi-curious submissive here. I am looking to step inti the world of bdsm for the first time. Would love to find someone who can take control and use me. I can't host but can travel depending on distance.

BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 45 years ● 5km around USA New York
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wwwwwwwwwk
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women couple trans,just talk first,maybe in a conversation group with my girlfriend

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 145km around Japan 荒川区
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Wicked_Devil
The Pleasure You Didn't Know You Needed!

You’ve done the same thing a hundred times. Now it’s time for a genuine upgrade in your pleasure portfolio. I'm reaching out to straight and bi-curious men who appreciate a high-quality, memorable connection and are ready to explore a different kind of intensity.
I know exactly how to guide the interaction, ensuring you feel completely in control and thoroughly satisfied. I'm discreet, clean, and prioritize mutual excitement. If you’re new to this territory, I welcome you—I'm happy to keep it casual and focused on the basics, making your first time exciting and unforgettable.
Forget the labels and the worry. Let's focus on chemistry and fun. If you’re clean, respectful, and ready for a genuinely thrilling experience that stays entirely between us, drop me a line. Tell me what makes you curious.

NSA ● 18 to 45 years ● 80km around USA Little Falls
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TeeJ4fun
Looking for fun gal to match my crazy

Single for first time in forever. Only thing I’ve been missing lately is some physicality. So hopefully find a woman who needs the release as much as I do. And if they want to be dominated a bit, sure wouldn’t hurt.

NSA ● 18 to 45 years ● 130km around USA Mesa
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rhondda44779
Who makes the first move?

If you meet for a hookup who goes for it first?

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around UK Bridge
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Jorgegona
Looking for an in person or online Dom to have fun

First time Sub in search of dom either in person or online, just sent a message

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 72 years ● 500km around USA Metairie
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demand19
Just got back on looking for an adventure

Seeking a Submissive Masochist for Deep Connection
Are you a woman who craves intensity, surrender, and the thrill of pushing boundaries? I’m a confident, experienced dominant seeking a like-minded submissive masochist for a meaningful, consensual connection. You embrace your desires, find beauty in trust, and are eager to explore the dynamic of power exchange with respect and care.
I’m looking for someone open, communicative, and passionate about their submissive side. Whether you’re experienced or curious, let’s connect to discuss limits, desires, and the potential for something extraordinary. Respect, trust, and mutual understanding are non-negotiable.
If this resonates with you, send me a message—let’s start a conversation and see where our chemistry takes us.
Serious inquiries only. Consent and safety first.

BDSM Play Partner ● 30 to 57 years ● 25km around USA Memphis
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live_vinyl
ISO: Masochist and more

Strong-handed sadist looking for a submissive female that derives her pleasure from *** 💥 Would like to find a consistent partner so our dynamics can really develop. Consent and safety come first, everyone cums later 😉

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 45 years ● 115km around USA Anchorage
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VeeTheGangbangGirl
22f in queens NY

Hey I’m Vee. I’m looking for someone to come to my hotel and a b u s e me and my holes. Huge bonus if you’re into cnc or getting a girl super fucked up before using her. But please be willing to talk and hangout first when you get here.

Kinky Date ● 5km around USA Flushing
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Kinkywife1970
Naughty Wife Looking for Fun

Very attractive classy wife, mid 50’s with great body, unshaven, seeking attractive open minded professional gentleman with thick girth, any age, for regular kinky fun in presence of encouraging husband. Loves being spanked, watersports, and will wear a collar / be submissive for the right partner. Loves talking dirty. First time advert so please be patient. Looking to connect on a personal level before having fun as chemistry needs to be right

BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 65 years ● 50km around UK Rugby
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LookingfoFemDomme
Male sub in need of Fem Domme

Hello I’m a 25y/o slim/fit male in search of a fem domme in the Tacoma/Seattle area. I have no experience but I’m a fast learner. Who is willing to be my first?

Kinky Date ● 18 to 40 years ● 80km around USA Puyallup
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johnny1995955
Message me ☺️

bored and can’t message first because I don’t pay for app

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 135km around USA Granada Hills
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goodgurl13
Looking to be a third

I would love to experience my first threesome, I’m very new to all of this so I’m quite shy and would want to feel comfortable. Please go easy on me🙈

Kinky Date ● 28 to 36 years ● 25km around USA Philadelphia
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PattyandDarius
Me and daddy want to play

We are new to this. We are a straight couple interested in trans woman who is interested in both of us. This will be our first time and we are extremely excited and nervous any this new adventure.

NSA ● 31 to 46 years ● 25km around USA Watertown
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intrepidexplorer
Fist time attempting Locktober

Would be great to find witnesses to this first attempt. Ideally I do dream of exploring my sub side with others. I was heavily in the scene in the past mostly as a dom now I enjoy both roles depending on chemistry and the atmosphere. After a few years away I’m now looking to make new connections.

NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around UK Eastbourne
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powderwheel87
Here for a good time not a long time

I’m looking for someone or someone’s that is wanting to go out for dinner and laugh and then head home to bend and moan, I am very open to starting conversations and getting to know each other first

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA El Paso
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city-ranch31131
Looking for fun

Looking for an fwb who wants to take my first time. I'm available on the weekends. Limits can be discussed. I can host at my place since I live alone. Looking to go through a box of condoms since I'm not ready to have kids.

NSA ● 18 to 39 years ● 35km around USA Lancaster
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sirsmokalot
Make me your slave

Looking for someone who knows how to control the situation and get from me exactly what you want
This will be my first time, but I've wanted it all my life

Kinky Date ● 18 to 71 years ● 25km around USA San Francisco
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Cascades2025
Looking for a FWB that’s kinky

Hello, i’m a switch leaning dom and Imm looking for 2 things on this app. The first one is finding a kinky gf. The second one is finding a kinky fwb while I’m single. If your interested hit me, hit me up! (I’m bilingual)

I cannot host btw! :)

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