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horsham61639
Looking for man for mmf

Looking for a trim, confident man to join my gorgeous girlfriend and I for our first MMF. Ideally tattoos and a beard but not essential. Message me if you’re interested

NSA ● 40 to 55 years ● 120km around UK Horsham
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Arhanl123
First time bdsm

someone who wants to dominate

Kinky Date ● 18 to 22 years ● 25km around UK Birmingham
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Rezin420
Want fun

Want to play, but gentle at first

NSA ● 30 to 50 years ● 5km around USA Aberdeen
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Femme0nFyre
Philadelphia, PA | Black women 35+ | women only

I’m looking for a Black woman 35+ who wants girlfriend energy with structure — affection, devotion, and a dynamic where you like being guided. I want consistency. I want presence. I want a submissive who doesn’t disappear when it’s time to follow through.

Public first, always. We meet in a real place, talk like grown women, and I decide if your energy matches your words. If it does, we go private after. If it doesn’t, you go home and I keep my peace.

My dominance is warm and steady: low voice, deliberate pace, and clear direction. I like a submissive who relaxes when she’s guided, lights up when she’s praised, and understands that devotion is shown in follow-through.

Consent is mandatory. Communication is foreplay. Aftercare is non-negotiable.
Hard limits: , spit, , hardcore , .

If you're a submissive with protector energy—steady, loyal, and confident in her devotion...

Message me with: your age, where you’re located (Philly/nearby), what worship looks like to you, one soft + one hard limit, and one sentence that proves that you can follow directions.

BDSM Play Partner ● 35 to 53 years ● 10km around USA Philadelphia
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HannB31200
Want to worship a muscled man

I would really like to meet up with a toned guy, and kiss his abs/ lick them, feel him up etc worship. But I would need to go on a few dates first, just to get to know you.

Kinky Date ● 25 to 30 years ● 80km around UK Leeds
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CassandraLuv
First time sub really wanting into the space.

I would love for some Dom to treat me like a spoiled princess but punish me when I get too bratty and make me feel loved but also *** me when I act up... Is that so much to ask for?

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 55 years ● 315km around USA Amherst
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shelburn58029
Couple 1st 3 some

We are a couple 31m/40 f looking for a female to join us for our first 3some. Pics can be provided upon request.

NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 65km around USA Sullivan
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Mando22
I love everyone 😍

Cant Dm anymore
Dm me first babes love all shapes and sizes ;)

BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Houston
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Morg_20
Just for shits and giggles

Hi, if you’d like me to control your toy, just send me the code and tell me which app it’s connected to! Just ask first, I thought it would be fun!

BDSM Play Partner ● 20 to 30 years ● 500km around USA Greenville
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kinkster_x
Exploring

Hoping to meet someone in my area to help me explore my kinks… Something casual at first which could lead to something more serious like a long term relationship

BDSM Play Partner ● 35 to 45 years ● 15km around Greece Athens
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asu48900
Get to know me first

I wanna meet someone who clicks well with my dominant but fair personality and I am always up for meeting first and getting comfortable with the person first so it’s not a uncomfortable situation.

NSA ● 18 to 40 years ● 65km around USA Phoenix
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Londonchappy39
Looking for a Cruel Mistress

Based in SE London, able to host, but happy to travel too! Always starting with a vanilla drink/date first. Not into ONs, looking for something lasting and fun for all!
Excellent at serving, great p ain threshold, absolute sucker for hum
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BDSM Play Partner ● 21 to 39 years ● 25km around UK London
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Lokilooking
Happy to travel

Hi, I’m based in Essex. I’m looking for people to attend clubs with and attend munches. Also interested in a play partner, maybe more. I’m free to meet every day when arrangements are made. My first love is Femdom, but can also switch. I have more photos to share on request.

BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 59 years ● 252km around UK Tendring
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shananigan
First time

This looks like an amazing event

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 38 years ● KINK Providence! in USA Providence
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queerplaying
757 femme4femme

I want a clean, safe woman who's willing to meet first to see if the vibes are there. No boys allowed at all

Munch Buddy ● 25 to 40 years ● 80km around USA Virginia Beach
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TheLittleLolita
[F4A]Diaper Girl in Charlotte seeking DL in NC

This is for people local to me ONLY!

Hello, I am Princess. I am a 24/7 diaper girl (yes, it stays on during ***), and I am looking for someone to make sure that I stay that way.
Activities would include:

  • wearing in public
  • wearing in private
  • wearing to work
  • wearing at home
  • diaper checks
  • diaper changes
  • usage of said diaper
    And so on.

    If this is not your cup of "pea", why did you read this far? The caption is pretty straight forward.

    I am straight, bi, pan, all of the things. I just want a person to not look at me weird when I am staring off into space (I am focusing on something).

    Message me if your are actually interested.
    Do not try to sexualize me in text or the first time that we meet. It is just to know you first.

Kinky Date ● 21 to 99 years ● 100km around USA Charlotte
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SpicyWaffel
Looking for a dom to please/explore with

Hi👋 I’m Tommy I’ve known for a while I love to be dominated/humiliated but now’s the first time I want to properly explore it. Idk if this is the place to describe my specific kinks (I’m new to the app) but don’t hesitate to send me a message if ur looking for a new (very loyal) sub or u wanna know more info!

BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around UK Manchester
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domstallion
It’s either yes daddy or else

Looking for a little brat to put in her place. I’m going to make u cum but first ur going to have to behave urself or I’ll have to correct u.

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 45 years ● 145km around USA Ramona
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676767brat
Looking for a dom

First time on here was told to make this idk but sub looking for a dom

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 58 years ● 485km around USA Terre Haute
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NeuroUnidiverse
13,000 Leagues Under The Sub Sea

Hey all! This is my first time on FET. Although I’ve been curious for years, I’ve been doing a lot of self work and personal growth to help me isolate what I’m hoping to find. I’d love to meet more dominant types to explore my sub self. Kind, antiracist, anti patriarchal, radical, consent aware, communicative types. I’m open to bondage, discipline, flogging, shibari and learning more.

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Hades1267
Going to my first club tomorrow

Hit me up if your going to a club tomorrow in Bristol

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