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san-francisco69988
Let's have fun first

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NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 10km around USA San Francisco
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Sckmedry69
First time meeting from internet

I can't wait to really meet up with someone and I will travel to them. I am a Dominant type.

Kinky Date ● 18 to 55 years ● 200km around USA Lowell
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Candix
Love dont cost a thing

I am looking for a man who is secure, independent, fun-loving and affectionate. I would prefer to develop a friendship first and see where it goes.I'm an outdoorsy person. I love to hike, bike, golf (just took lessons but I have hope) and take leisurely walks.I would enjoy finding someone who might want to go Cross-Country skiing, snowshoeing or maybe spend a day on the ice fishing.

Kinky Date ● 55 to 80 years ● 5km around USA Des Moines
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leeds244926
Looking for my first meetup

I’m really looking forward to finding someone for a meetup so I can express my kinky side with no concerns, reply to this ad😏

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 5km around UK Leeds
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crystal-lake311133
Your City. Your Rules. My Control.

Traveling Dominant| Professional Training & Conditioning
(Available for Hosted Sessions — Limited Stays)

You’ve fantasized about surrender. About structure. About a hand that corrects before you even realize you’ve stepped out of line. But play partners' flake, and local "Doms" disappoint.

That’s why we travel.

How It Works:

  • You host. We arrive. Your space becomes our classroom.
  • No warm-ups We assess, adapt, and own within the first hour.
  • Training tailored to your hunger. Brat taming? Protocol drilling? ** play? Your obedience is the syllabus.

    We don’t "scene." We rewire.

    Qualifications:
    ✔️ 10+ years in power exchange dynamics
    ✔️ Specialize in high-protocol service submission & psychological control
    ✔️ Clean, discreet, and
    ruthlessly effective*

    Next stop: Your city.(If you pass the screening.)

    DM with subject line: "READY FOR REVIEW"
    (Include your location, limits, and one sentence on why you think you’d survive us.)


    P.S: *This is edgeplay. You will not be the same after.

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Crystal Lake
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BabyBlob
Calling all daddy doms

I'm a little in seach of a daddy dom who is into abdl and ddlb dynamic that's 24/7 but all consent based. I'd like to get to know you a bit first before starting anything so um yeah.

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bbwqueen1985
Pigs

Hello, little wallets 🐷

I’m a confident, unapologetically spoiled Domme who takes pleasure in financial control—and I’m looking for the right submissive to serve through tribute.

If the idea of sending *** without question makes you squirm (in the best way), we might just get along. I don’t entertain games or empty promises—I reward loyalty, consistency, and devotion.

📍 No meetups
📍 No freebies
📍 This is Financial Domination—my pleasure, your purpose

You send. I smile. You stay useful.
Spoiling me is the only thing that gives your submission meaning. If that excites you, you’re exactly where you belong.

Tribute methods available upon request.
First message? Keep it short, polite, and come correct—a tribute speaks louder than words.

💋 Impress me.

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Wilmington
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CumWhatMayhem
New sub iso mentor

Yes, you would be my first Dom. I'm argumentative, inquisitive, clever, verbose, & ticklish wink A genuine brat all day with great tits. Would you please Teach me a lesson?

Pro-Dom/me Session ● 40 to 69 years ● 125km around USA Claremore
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read4fun48
Need help getting over the hump so to say

I'm looking to hook up with some good looking ladies that will help me get over my ex by letting me get under them. My ex keeps dangling that pink thing in front of me to keep me on the hook and I want off. I know it sounds dumb but I've tried everything else maybe this will work. I'm 48 not a bad looking guy, don't mind the white hair it came in when I was 14. My thoughts are that first I'll be able to move on with my life without her or two she will see that or hear about some good looking young ladies have visited me recently and then she will stop. Either way I win. I've been told by everyone I've ever slept with that I'm the best they have ever had and they were coming back still until my ex wife chased them off for good. Hit me isf your interested and down.

NSA ● 18 to 45 years ● 75km around USA Linda
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QTKatie
Looking to date and find friends 🎉

I’m looking for a guy or guys who are handsome, take care of themselves physically and emotionally, are Doms ( it’s a plus if they are into sharing). I’m looking for friends first and then a more serious relationship, whether it’s short or long or FWB.
I’m a little and a sub so any variation of that that matches up with my kinks and preferences for relationship dynamics work!
And im only looking for people who are local or willing to travel to me as I don’t have a car. Tho I don’t mind an online friend 🙃

Kinky Date ● 18 to 29 years ● 80km around UK York
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CouriousSeba5
FIRST HOOKUP 🍆💦

HI 👋🏾 I'm just straight man looking for TS,TV,CD,FB ! Want to taste my first 🍆😛 and can't wait when i feel you inside.

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around Netherlands Nederweert-Eind
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AlexH44
Pegging in Philly

Looking for a girl to peg me hit me up if you’re interested! We can grab coffee or drinks to get to know each other first and make sure we are both comfortable:)

Kinky Date ● 18 to 35 years ● 15km around USA Manayunk
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leohighlander
Middle-age guy wants first time with shemale

Manchester today looking for some party stuff and friends. anybody help me out

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 165km around UK Blackpool
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johnvan00
Going to GD2 foe the first time

Im planing on going to gd2 this thursday for my first time. I would love it if anyone would like to join a newcomer and perhaps do a scene with me.

Im a 32m bi and love being bound and edged

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 47 years ● 25km around USA Chicago
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pretty-praire80819
Let’s get one thing clear… I’m not here to enterta

This is a space for men who know their place — beneath me, serving me, spoiling me.
Tribute first. Talk later.
Prove your worth or stay silent.”
# #SpoilMe #GoddessEnergy #***Up

BDSM Play Partner ● 35 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Pretty Praire
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heelover12
Help me find my first crossdress outfit! 👠👠

Help me find my first crossdress outfit! Need
dresses and heels pics for ideas! Thank you for
being helpful in advance!

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thtbmchk25
BBC

Wanna stretch me and be my first?

Kinky Date ● 30 to 44 years ● 105km around USA Lee
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jjflah22snap
Any ladies into having their ass eaten

I’m looking for a lady who wants to have their ass eaten and she can even smother me after make sure I eat everything I’ll also lick her pussy for hrs first if she wants ;)

NSA ● 18 to 53 years ● 225km around USA Fort Fairfield
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Zeph0
Girls that message first deserve all the head in t

It's super sexy when you are the first one to message a guy trust me 🤤

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around UK Sefton
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kingston18503
Looking for a third for first threesome

Looking for a bi girl who would love to play with both of us, we are into lots of things and would love a dm

NSA ● 18 to 35 years ● 175km around Canada Wilmot Station
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harrisburg993387
Next Stop Harrisburg (PA)

Leaving DC for Harrisburg (PA) this afternoon. Always looking for dinner / drink company…and who knows….maybe discussion turns naughty if we vibe….but baby steps…first choosing a starter….

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centerton737995
Looking for potential owners :)

First time sub looking for a serious dom to take me in ❤️

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Centerton
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HUNGry4cougars
my very first sub

I'm looking to meet a mature woman plus sized and dark skinned the blacker the berry the sweeter the juice and all that but skin colour doesn't define anything that's just my preference but any woman that's up for teaching me a thing or 2 and can handle a wild Dom full of tricks and supprises don't be shy to message me I'm new to this and and am open to women of all ages 18+ size disability

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