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PB20
Looking to have my first IRL BDSM experience

Hello I’m a 20 year old male, I would love to have my first IRL experience with someone, unfortunately I can’t host but im down to meet up somewhere preferably after we chat a little
Kinks: orgasm control, orgasm denial, latex, breathplay, hypnosis, pegging, cuck holding, feminization, sissification, Chasity, and really anything as long as it doesn’t violate my limits.
Limits: ***, bathroom stuff, blackmail

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 99 years ● 5km around USA Dallas
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xthemilkyway
25/Female To Male Trans/ Bay city Michigan

In Search of VERY submissive men,
Someone who will allow me to fully take charge of their cock for some blindfold/edging sessions. If you have any toys, I'll gladly use them on you as well. Down to top if you provide the "Cock" (Toy) 😂 Gen men get first priority! Can't Host, Can travel, Open to even car play at a mutually agreed upon place.

BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Bay City
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UrbanPhilosopher
Wetting, messing, mudding, and/or casual date

Looking for a partner in or just beyond the Rochester, NY area who's interested in wetting, messing, playing in the mud with shoes or boots on, and having vanilla sex. I'd rather not have sex on the first date. We don't have to do anything at all, but rather talk and get to know each other to see if we're compatible. See my profile for full details on who and what I'm into.
Not really sure if I'm doing this right lol.

Kinky Date ● 19 to 24 years ● 50km around USA Henrietta
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sweetbabygurl1995
Brand New Little

I am looking for a mommy or daddy that is older than I am. Who will be gentle and d sweet as I haven’t even worn or wet my first diaper. I am really looking for someone who can help me on this journey.

BDSM/Fetish Family ● 25 to 55 years ● 450km around USA San Antonio
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PussyOnMouthFan
In need of a friendly nymph to play. Hopefully wi

Hi all. I'm 47yr and single. Looking for a girl (20+) that likes to spend an evening role playing (with agreed limits). Consentual meets and open minds. I thought you might like to discuss a scene as a first date 😳?

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 245km around UK Sheffield
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Superdinky
Will you cage me

First timer in need of dominance..
Would like to be someone’s little toy

BDSM/Fetish Family ● 25 to 50 years ● 100km around UK London
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youngfemboyy
Femboy looking for femdom

Femboy looking for my first dom, msg me if interested

Kinky Date ● 18 to 40 years ● 165km around Finland Paippinen
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PrettyPopular
First timer

Just exploring

NSA ● 25 to 80 years ● Coco de Mer London in UK London
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felkey
Subby guy looking for the right woman...

Hello there. I like to get to know someone a bit rather than jumping right into it. Get to know someone first, spend some time together and see how we are together. Open to either being friends or something more if it feels right. Maybe it'll turn out we have something special? I do have a wide range of interests, both kinky and vanilla. I'd could say more here but I'd rather go into more details in private so please feel free to ask there. 😊

Kinky Date ● 25 to 36 years ● 210km around USA Lakeville
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zombie91
She wants another guys attention

Nothing sexual (at first ) she wants to make a friend and have some more attention when I'm at work and can't talk
No guys can message her without messaging me first obviously hit me up and tell me why I should give you her snap

NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Belle Plaine
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Angelbaby
Looking for a Daddy Dom

Please read the entire description! Looking for a Dom. I am a sub that is in need of rules and discipline. If you are the Dom looking for a little to make rules and strictly en*** them discreetly then I’m your Sub. I have been trained but may need additional training depending on what you would like to do. I’m pretty open minded but do have some hard limits.

I am looking for a contract with someone as I’m currently in an unhappy relationship seeking someone to fulfill that side of me with NSA but with an open mind and discreetely .

I am looking for someone I can learn to trust first, that will treat me like a lady and make me feel safe and ease me into the DOM/SUB role. Then when the time comes after several meetings, have him bare me in front of him mind, body and soul completely naked and venerable. I’d like loving punishments. As in sitting me on his lap, explaining, reassuring and petting before hand, him undressing me completely for a punishment and being able to talk me through things especially when he breaks me and the punishment must continue.

I WILL NOT have any kind of relations on the first couple of meetings. We have to establish friendship and trust first. I will not exchange phone numbers but you can ask me for my Snapchat and I’d be happy to give it to you. Please be able to host. I cannot host at my place.

BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 50 years ● 150km around USA La Fayette
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sarahlmbt
Core Knoxville

Going to Core Knoxville this Saturday night (May 11). Anyone want to join? I'm shy at first, I'm just an awkward nerd, but I wanna have some fun this weekend!

Club Buddy ● 21 to 42 years ● 165km around USA Newport
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luca_john
women(cis or trans), femboys anyone fem

18-21 years old, dominant, i like bondage, degration, and feet so you have to be ok with all of that, please be reasonably local. I would like to hang first to get to know you before we do anything

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 21 years ● 50km around UK Neath Port Talbot
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WavytheLeo
*** or *** play??

Anyone interested in. Would be my first time tryin this

Munch Buddy ● 18 to 80 years ● Bar Sinister Los Angeles in USA Hollywood
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2for1of
F23/m28 looking for a girl for our first FFM

Looking to explore a little bit with threesomes and I am wanting to start off with a FFM who knows what else it’ll open up but we are both clean ddf don’t be shy ❤️

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 120km around USA Phoenix
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elmore557499
Play freind

We are looking for a female freind to possible join us in expand our adventure in to this ls new to this friend's first then possible more

NSA ● 24 to 45 years ● 500km around USA Montgomery
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babybear95
Doms in Brighton for ftm subs? 🏳️‍⚧️

Looking to explore things with a local dom who’s into trans masc subs! Would prefer to meet to get to know each other first then see where it goes. Not into one night stands but fun buddies or kinky relationships are ideal!

Everyone I seem to find on here is into women, so I can’t find people 😅

Check out my pageeee if you’re interested! ❤️🏳️‍⚧️

BDSM Play Partner ● 28 to 50 years ● 25km around UK Brighton and Hove
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fort-wayne383919
1st attempt

First timers. Im more interested in trying than she is, but she said she wants to try it atleast once!
Looking for a couple/ woman to flirt with my wife at the bar.

Couples: Looking to start as vanilla as possible. We were thinking we could watch you guys, before we share a bed.
She's open to being eaten out by a woman.
Don't plan on swapping but if she's feeling the vibes she's in.

Single ladies: she doesn't plan to return The favor. But she would like you to lay on the bed with us while you play with yourself

Single men: must be gay/bi. Don't plan on me returning the favor. Jerk and watch on the cuck chair in the room

NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 45km around USA Fort Wayne
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Corso
Looking for like minded kinky people

Hey I’m 39 years old and I’m still a virgin and I’m looking to lose it I’m bi male and I am looking for a man or woman who is open minded and interested in sharing my fetishes with me I can’t host due to living with family i don’t drive and I will need a ride I am broke most of the time I do smoke cigarettes and I am 420 friendly and my fetishes are having a man or woman wrap Swiss cheese slices around my dick and jack me off with it until I cum and then suck me off with it wrapped around my dick I am also in some taboo stuff and I am interested in sharing a large intact male dog with them and I do have a dog knot sex toy and it’s a cum shooter I can get someone to help me with playing with it I’m really open minded and I’m open to try almost anything I need to lose my virginity bad I am not very attractive and pretty shy at first lol but I’m a fun and freindly and freaky man just hit me up if you are down for any of it lol

Kinky Date ● 18 to 51 years ● 10km around USA Nottingham
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Tony0308
Don’t be afraid t message first! ;)

I do bite, but that’s besides the point.

BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Middletown
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J_500
Online sub

To all experienced and aspiring mistresses I would love to serve you long distance. I have experience with foot worship, orgasm denial, ruined orgasms, cei and filling myself. Would love to be put in Chasity for the first time although it scares me 🔐

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Boston
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miradarkrose
Looking for a third

My partner and I are looking for a woman or a man or maybe a kinky couple for a night of fun and kink. Help me fulfil one of my fantasies. I'm looking for a couple, a man, or a female who is open minded and understanding that this will be my first time.

Kinky Date ● 26 to 44 years ● 60km around USA Auburn
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Chastac
Ffm virgin

Looking for our first FFM and to have a fun, flirty and ultimately naughty day/night date.
Both very friendly, chilled and generally naughty minded, hugely into squirting/gush and all things female orgasm related. Happy to experiment and experience new things along the way. Happy to hear from both experienced and new ‘extra’ females.

NSA ● 5km around UK Leeds
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FlCoupleneedsUNI
Couple looking for unicorn in central FL

Couple of 19 years looking for a no strings attached unicorn to be our first. Single encounter or could be a regular occurrence if we vibe

NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 145km around USA Polk City
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