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IntelligentDom
Be a good girl and say ‘Hi Sir’ first

Dominant guy with strong hands and a darker sense of humor looking for a cute, open-minded girl who craves being pinned down, teased mercilessly, and told exactly what to do. I love brats until they’re breathless and blushing.

If you secretly get wet just thinking about surrendering control, say hi… and call me Sir in your first message if you’re brave

Kinky Date ● 18 to 40 years ● 200km around Canada Hamilton
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DreamHolder
Hi there

It’s my first here and I plan to leave Australia next month so I want to create some beautiful memories before I leave, enjoy yourself☺️

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 40km around Australia Molendinar
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Shadeslayer
Seduction check DC 20: A curse only love can mend

Cold winds blow mid november, as you find an advertisement from a man who was once a paladin of the morning lord, but is recovering from hard times and afflicted with lycanthrope.

The advertisement states that he ***s the only cure to his ailment is true love, sensual, trascendent and divine as prophecied by a young gypsy woman at a hallow's eve palm reading when the man was, but a boy.

While open to meeting various ghouls, ghosts, witches and otherwise, the advertisement states that he shows a particular distrust of goblins, tricksy fey folk and states particularly that he has no time for wailing banshees.

Included in a first meeting is a free meal at the local Tommyfield tavern in Seton, Calgary, Alberta, Canada.

The final words of the call for aid read,

"Shadows embrace me as I depart, on my journey through the dark. Though my words may end up missing the mark, surely this is just the start, of a love so radiant it's stark. For when we meet, from my curse I will finally be, free. Blessed be."

Will you respond to this fallen knight of the morning lord sticken with lycanthrope?

Kinky Date ● 25 to 35 years ● 5km around Canada Calgary
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lovebirds906
First time bbc

Looking for some local fun with a bbc,female or couple. Must be discreet. Please reach out

Kinky Date ● 21 to 40 years ● 205km around USA Escanaba
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BoneZaddy
Finding winter companions?

Looking for others looking to socialize and make new friends or otherwise this winter. Seasonal mental health always seems to creep up this time of the year and work + the cold makes it harder to get out and socialize being from where there's not been snow in over 3 decades at least. Looking to meet new people make friends or more if things work out and we vibe together! Between work and the freezing winter (to me at least idk how anyone lives in the snow 😂😂) it makes it harder to find time or motivation to go out and try to be more social when I have time off how I'd normally socialize with people and not many friends live in the same state (most of em are states away) so heres to hopefully finding some cool people and maybe even more if things work out. Open to just friends or more than that, will require to meet publicly at first to get through introductions and everything when meeting in person at first.



Am accepting cuddle buddy applications also! It's cold out there and I've been told I'm a space heater sometimes 😅😅

NSA ● 18 to 41 years ● 120km around USA Urbana
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dan_gingerboss
Get to know me

I want to meet new people and have new experiences. Let’s chat and see if we connect first. Don’t just judge a book by its cover after all!

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around UK Crawley
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babygirl2040
Looking for an out going female

Im looking for a women for my first time new at this

Club Buddy ● 18 to 40 years ● 40km around USA Asu
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mermaidkat1990
Just looking for a one time thing

Just looking for a non judgmental one time thing. I’m a cougar so ages 21-32 is ideal. If you are blonde and clean shaven you will be picked first! That’s my weakness. No more than 45 miles away.

NSA ● 21 to 32 years ● 80km around USA Waynesboro
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leonammorena
Looking to rim Santa early this year. CNC.

Don’t read too deep into this ad.
Either you like holding good deeds/ chivalry against someone or you like greedy whores who know exactly what you’re missing— and will do it even if they don’t like it. I enjoy both roleplay scenarios. Regarding the first CNC idea, we can go on a date or meet for drinks & have things take a dark turn. Whether you want to be baited & rejected or guilt trip me into giving you head, I’m ok with that. Homewrecking/ cucking mentions are also ok. I’m pretty casual irl. An arrangement with heavy kink/ taboo tropes would be ideal.

25+ preferred. Manhattan only please. Good hygiene & body positivity are nonnegotiable.

BDSM Play Partner ● 25 to 80 years ● 35km around USA New York
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chiprincess101
Flirty Switch Looking for Slow-Burn Chemistry

I’m a demisexual switch in Michigan who loves deep conversations, fashion, dancing, and a little flirty tension. I connect through mind + vibe first, then explore kink when trust naturally builds.

Looking for someone 25–36, preferably local (but open to global), emotionally intelligent, playful, and patient with pacing. Someone who enjoys banter, curiosity, and slow-burn chemistry.

I enjoy power dynamics and sensation play — but only after we genuinely click.

As a switch, chemistry decides everything; the vibe tells me whether I want to tease, obey, challenge, or melt.

Not looking for NSA or rushed scenes. Also still learning kink.

If you love yapping about all sorts of topics, are respectful, and into connection-first kink, message me with your age, city, and a little about your style or interests. Let’s vibe and see where the chemistry goes. 💋

Kinky Date ● 25 to 36 years ● 125km around USA Ypsilanti
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Phoenix2030
Lucky woman

Will send pictures once we match . Wife/mom.needing a 🦄! Woman only🤪 Not our first rodeo- don’t swipe to not talk👅.We do not play alone until we know you.

Kinky Date ● 18 to 50 years ● 65km around USA Liberty
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SeleneNola
Tired of being alone😞

Really just looking for my first boyfriend, I’ve never dated, had truly satisfying sex, or even been asked out on a date before. I’m creative and fun, just really lonely and incredibly starved for attention and affection.
Not interested in hook-ups, friends with benefits, swinging/polyamory, I want to experience an actual relationship.

Kinky Date ● 35 to 45 years ● 25km around USA New Orleans
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FemmeOnFyre
Free in Philly... Any Ladies Want to Play

I'm free this weekend and I'm not looking for a slow build — I want that hit-you-hard, no-hesitation energy. I'm a soft femme with a dark streak, switchy, 420-friendly, and in a very “don’t waste my time” kind of mood.

I’m looking for a soft masc or aggressive femme pretty face, thick waist, strong presence. someone who moves with confidence, keeps it real, and knows exactly what she wants. locs? that’s damn near a cheat code. 😉

I like fast chemistry, sharp tension, playful control, brat energy, and that heat that shows up the moment the door closes. no slow burn, no warm-up — just two grown women who know exactly why they’re meeting.

women only, 420 friendly, you host

I'm not here for forever — I'm here for fire.
if you can match it, message me with your vibe and location.

I’ll know in the first line if it’s a yes.

NSA ● 32 to 52 years ● 95km around USA Lafayette Hill
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richmond103849
(M4F) Looking for a submissive partner

Looking for someone who is new and interested in roleplaying. I like to chat first and meet in person before we start. I can’t host and rather go to a hotel for a day to do it. Hope you find this well and hope to chat with you.

Kinky Date ● 18 to 35 years ● 35km around Canada Richmond
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Archi
Looking for goddess

I am novice and shy person I wonder to have privilege devoted myself to experienced mistress, feel safe, being lead through my first session in a sensual and empathic way☺️

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Monrovia
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THREESOMEee
3SOME OR 4SOME

looking for good looking women interested in 3some, group chat on snap to get to know eachother a bit first:) White tall male very in shape

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Fort Worth
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VexSub
Looks for Dom(s)

Hey I’m looking for a LTR with a dom(s), I would love to talk first and hopefully see if we’re a vibe. I’m new to the scene and kinda shy lmao

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 40 years ● 250km around Canada North York
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L8GND
Single 33 yr old Hispanic male

I’m looking for future potential partners, may consider poly but usually in monogamy relationships so this would be my first. Second, I am a vers, but I don’t date men, and very picky about who I would consider being intimate with. I’m 420 friendly, drink socially but only to a buzz point and sober up, I drink energy drinks and have a fucked up sense of humor, I’m blunt and honest. And if you want to smoke and chill as friends too that’s fine with me.

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Galion
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KallieTGirl
Need Tops 4 Gangbang pornshoots

Looking for Tops who wanna join in with gangbang sessions that I would like to host. ONLY LOOKING FOR TOPS. Also want to film these gagbangs. Masks will be provided to all who wish to come . No faces other than mine will be captured. There will be mini games and challenges with rewards for people who are up for it and wanna join in some games.

Consent forms will have to be filled in with a pornhub e-signature and ID scan to prove they your all of age consenting adults. Refusal to complete this will result in being asked to leave .
If you make pornhub model accounts and get verified before coming it is a lot easier and Inca add you as collaborator and I believe you can earn off video too. Co-performers(non pornhub account members won’t)

No tolerance for Any bottoms who try gatecrash and join or anyone who even has the idea they want something up their bum will be kicked out swiftly (stuff thrown outside and kicked out naked to get changed on street). The idea isim the only bottom being ***d. Message 07424446351 and say GBTop and I’ll add you to a whatsapp group/broadcast and will let you know when we have enough peopke for ghe first event.

BDSM/Fetish Family ● 18 to 80 years ● 125km around UK Stoke-on-Trent
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stirling450545
Bored need chats

So bored need regular chats hit my monthly quota so out of icebreakers will need to be messaged first can see spanks either if I like something of yours it means I want to chat

NSA ● UK Fife
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london695272
🤘🏽

Looking for a girl to join in with me and my boyfriend, ideally meet just with myself first time

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 100km around UK London
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BigDaddyJayy
Show me some fun tonight

First time , let’s do some erotic and hot.

Into most fetishes so send me a message and let’s have some fun 😗

Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 140km around Canada Hamilton
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