Who I’m dying to meet

One extraordinary woman, 40–55, who feels the exact same electric pull I do and understands that some fires only burn hotter when they’re hidden in absolute darkness.

You’re:

  • Married or single; doesn’t matter, as long as you’re capable of total, airtight discretion
  • Local to Middle Tennessee (Franklin, Brentwood, Nashville, Cool Springs, or within 30 quiet minutes)
  • Curvy, soft, responsive, with lips that beg to be suckled for hours and breasts that heave when you’re breathless
  • Patient enough to endure slow, ruthless worship and greedy enough to sob when you’re denied my manhood until I decide you’ve earned it
  • Addicted to the kind of deep, sloppy, spit-drenched kissing that leaves chins glistening and sheets ruined
  • Craving slow, bare, relentless thrusting that ends with you flooded and trembling, followed by long, skin-fused cuddling where every aftershock is milked by gentle rolls of hips and soft bites
  • Able to meet weekday afternoons in cash-paid hotel suites, then vanish like we never existed

    If you’ve ever locked your car in the Kroger parking lot and felt your thighs clench at the thought of a silver-haired stranger who will hold you so tight you forget your own name, while his wife sits home oblivious…

    Send me the words
    “I keep secrets too”
    and tell me what your lips taste like right now.

    I’ll handle everything else.
    She will never know.
    No one will ever know.
    Except us, every single time we disappear into that room. 💦

Kinky Date40 to 61 years ● 40km around USA Franklin

I’ve been scouring this site to see people’s views and perceptions of punishments and rewards. And of course, it’s a very subjective matter as there’s limits, preferences, and people’s opinions as well.
So let’s talk about what I consider punishments to be first:
Since I tend to like more extreme things, and have a higher tolerance, I’m going to need something that is more severe- especially since I have bratty tendencies, I’m looking to be corrected. And a punishment can be a NUMBER of things. Ex: infliction, control/restriction of outter communication (eg. family, friends); deprivation, being tied up in a stress position (minutes, hours, days), , water boarding. Quite frankly I could go on. I want that psyche involvement. Make me so scared of you that I don’t want to act out because I know the punishment will be severe. I feel like with a M/s dynamic or most BDSM dynamics, the person who is not in a position of power should feel a sense of *** toward to person in power as a result of respect being integrated into the person who is not in power within the dynamic.

Now for rewards! Yay!:
Rewards are generally subjective to the sub/slave/pet/etc. personally, I love being rewarded with praise, cuddles and direct attention, taking care of any bruises or cuts you inflicted on me, princess treatment, less time in a stress position, allowing me to see my friends or go do something special, etc.
rewards shouldn’t be over given - as this sets the scene for greed and a sense of being spoiled, then the brattiness will never be corrected. But rewards are necessary because I need to know when I’m doing good, and you approve of those certain actions or you’re pleased with how I am.

But i definitely want to hear other peoples opinions, and what type of rewards/punishments you give or receive.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 80 years ● 500km around Canada Calgary