Why give her a Yoni Massage?

Yoni massage or yonic massage, derived from the word Yoni, a representation of the vulva, which comes from the Shakti word that means sacred place. The Yoni massage is a type of Tantric full-. It primarily focuses on the breasts, thighs, and stomach and then focuses on the labia, perineum, clitoris, G-spot, cervix or C-spot, A-spot, which is behind the G-spot, and other erogenous zones. When done right, this is a healing, theutic massage.


Women's bodies are so used to being understimulated, overstimulated, disregarded, shamed, and penetrated too quickly.

You get to give her the gift of bringing conscious intimacy to this beautiful part of her body and give her the opportunity to fully relax and receive intimate touch without needing to worry about judgment, performing, giving someone an orgasm, having an orgasm, or faking an orgasm...the gift of pussy massage is allowing her body to feel safe to be held, seen, surrendered, and to feel whatever she feels and to have whatever experience she needs to have.

Regular pussy massage can:

  • Help her get out of a performative mode in sex
  • Help her get out of her head and become relaxed and present with her sensations
  • (necessary for most women to have an orgasm)
  • Help to heal "I'm taking too long" syndrome
  • Open her up to new/unexplored sensations
  • Increase intimacy between partners
  • Help to release expectations of her body
  • Help to release any need for external validation
  • Help to heal a habit of faking orgasms
  • Release shame around the appearance of her vulva
  • Increase *** flow and circulation (important for natural wetness)
  • Increase sensitivity
  • Relax tight pelvic floor muscles, release tension and can help alleviate ***
  • Intensify orgasm
  • Reduce stress

    Sharing the purpose and/or benefits of Yoni pussy massage with your partner can help you both to ground into why you'd like to have this experience together. Kindly remind her that this massage does not require her body to have any response. She is not expected to appear aroused, to be wet, or to have an orgasm. It is for pure relaxation for her body to fully surrender and receive and feel whatever she needs to feel. Invite her to be present with her body and sensations and to communicate if she wants any changes to the pressure, sd, or touch type. Your role is to honor her body's every request without question or judgment. Lovingly inform her that you will ask permission before penetrating her with your finger(s) and that she is free to say no. Penetration is not a necessary part of this message.

    Set your intentions for the massage and the energy you're bringing with you. (ex. Total mental and physical relaxation; a chance to experience new kinds of sensual touch and sensations with no-pressure-to-perform [it is not about her having an orgasm]; creating a space for her to feel safe and surrendered in your loving hands, etc.)

    Not many women have had a Yoni massage. I have a massage table. I have four sensual messages:

    The Yoni massage which is focused on the front and builds up to the pussy massage. It is great for healing and making your pussy feel wanted and appreciated and even healing past sexual trauma. Also great, if you have issues reaching an orgasm, the Yoni can help; if you can't have multiple orgasms, the Yoni can help with that too.

    The Tantric massage starts with the back and a bigger total massage and ends with a shorter version of the Yoni, but I use a vibrator for g-spot orgasms. This has a lot of edging before I give the multiple orgasms, and if you feel comfortable, you can squirt. I have special absorbent flat pads.

    Chinese cupping massage I use vacuum cups on the back, and it leaves two rows of bruises from
    being pulled into the cups. I used to do fire cupping but my ex got the fire cups in our divorce. I now use vacuum cups which are more accurate and consistent. I also have cups for making nipples stand proud and a pussy pump cup that will fatten up your pussy, and swells with more liquid, and this makes your pussy more sensitive for sex toy play.

    The Velvet Wand massage, which is an electric device invented 100+ years ago, this tool and its attachments are fun, but a body mode where my hands become electric or your body becomes electrified. There are many metal tools in the Velvet Wand kit for teasing your tits and pussy with electricity, it sounds ***ful, but the power is fully adjustable and is incredibly erotic.

    These are all sensual and relaxing, but the Yoni can heal some sex trauma issues. I'm experienced with couples classes but not certified; there is no Yoni certification in the USA. I have done all of these many times. The Yoni is my favorite. But you can pick whichever you want.

    Would you like to meet first in a public place or better a BDSM munch with other kinky people. Where in Atlanta do you live? I do not travel. Just a zip code is fine, then I can suggest a local munch or a good place to meet. I will travel to munches and a first meet.

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BDSM Play Partner20 to 70 years ● 100km around USA Atlanta

Hello, I am an intelligent, articulate late fifties British Male, living on the North London/ Hertfordshire border, looking for a curvy, busty woman with whom to indulge my love of big breast play.

I am - of course, happy to indulge your fantasies and kinks in return, and hopefully we will both obtain mutual gratification and fulfilment together.

My love for big breasts was forged in my ***s, thanks to one particular experience, and has stayed with me for over 40 years now.

I enjoy teasing, squeezing and groping a large pair of soft breasts through clothing, feeling your nipples stiffen in response. I love playing with nipples, pulling, and teasing them as they grow, and throb under my touch. I have given many Ladies nipple orgasms over the years, and firmly believe that anyone is capable of having one. Breast fucking, tit fucking, mammary intercourse, paizuri, tit wanking - all pretty much the same thing (well, except tit wanking - if you want to be pedantic…!) Do you enjoy having your breasts slapped ?, nipples clamped?, oiled, lubed toyed - and orgasmed over ?

If you’ve never tried these things, maybe it’s high time you did ?

I would very much like to chat with you about the possibilities - and have may (true) stories to tell about my own experiences, and of course, I would love to hear yours also !

So if you are just looking for mutual satisfaction- with no complications, or perhaps good wine, lunch, and naughty chat, which might lead on to something more, please feel free to drop me a line. I would love to hear from you.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 80 years ● 50km around UK Bushey Heath

My name is Skit, I'm 19 years old, and I'm planning to move to Melbourne next year with a friend for my studies. I'm mostly interested in non-sexual connections since I am a virgin and have experienced some sexual trauma, which means I need to build complete trust with someone before anything sexual can happen. I'm totally open to discussing our hopes for the future (including what sexual things we want in the future), but I want to clarify that I'm not into sexting or sharing sexual pictures.

I identify as aromantic, which means I don't experience romantic attraction, but that does not mean I can't love you. I am trans female-to-male pre-transition, and I am hoping to get top surgery soon. I value honesty and communication above all else, so if you have any questions, please feel free to ask and I'll do the same!

I'm searching for someone who desires a genuine connection with me. Ideally, I'd like someone close to my age to late 20's, but I can be flexible if you are the one.

I would love to eventually live as a 24/7 baby, although I understand that might not be feasible with my current life situation. I'm looking to gradually ease into this lifestyle and become less and less independent over time. I want to remain fully non-sexual until I feel completely comfortable with you in real life and have been fully introduced to the ABDL community. Once I trust you completely, I'd be open to slowly incorporating some sexual elements into our dynamic. I'm very open-minded, so please be honest if you are looking for something specific. I'd love to sit down and discuss everything before we take any sexual steps forward.

Im looking to have someone take complete control over pretty much anything, and slowly introduce me into this lifestyle and other kinks. I also love the thought of getting "groomed" so going from a friendly stranger to friends then slowly getting more and more intimate.

My limits include , intentional , impact play, any kind of calls, pretty much anything in my mouth (due to sensory issues), and likely more that I haven't realised yet. When you reach out to me please share a little about yourself, what you expect/are looking for and any questions you might have

BDSM Play Partner19 to 28 years ● 300km around Australia Melbourne

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