I’m now in a relationship/dynamic and will only be making friends now. Please be respectful of this.
My name is Chastity_Pup_Gabbia. (I added Gabbia to give myself a last name. It means Cage in Italian. I checked many different translations of cage but settled on this as it sounds like a last name.) I've been into the fetish/kink scene for almost 3 years.
My interests are dollification, which is female masking and dressing up in a femsuit. It's not your average kink but has been around for quite a number of years and there are many maskers out there like myself. Many who have been doing it longer.
I also started out interested in pet (puppy) play and tried some chastity too. Which I still have some cages. Hence the name ChastityPup. Which has been shortened to Chastity, Chas or Pup.
However, I’m also into service sub as my male self without the doll or pet play, as I am constantly learning and evolving as not only a kinkster but as a person.
My main interests after these are impact play. Paddles, floggers, spankings etc.
I would like to start as a sub and learn the craft before maybe trying my hand as Domming either as Chastity or my regular self. I find it's very important to start from the bottom before I attempt to Dom/me. I would also be open to switching. If I do evolve to be a Dom I’d put safety and aftercare as a main priority. I would be a caring Dom who would indulge in some impact play but would also be a carer to a little.
I would like to meet a like-minded woman who is open is as open minded as I am (whether local or within driving distance, a few hours drive for play date don't hurt).
I have been to BBB in Birmingham and really enjoyed it. Meeting up with a great bunch of kink friends to share a fabulous weekend with. Exploring more about the kink world through the market and the night event.
I have been told I have a great sense of humour bordering on warped. LOL But I also know how to make a woman feel like a lady. Being a true gentleman (or lady in Chastity mode).
I am open and honest and if you wish to ask me anything I'll be as open and honest with my answers.
I have hobbies outside of kink too. I like movies (especially comic book/action/horror), anime (especially ones from the late 80's to the 90's) and listening to music (which range from Dean Martin to Slipknot) I know a wide variety but. the music has to have some heart and soul to it.
I also like sports and deep conversations with some warped humour.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 55 years ● 245km around UK, Caerphilly 6 months ago
BDSM Play Partner18 to 49 years ● 65km around Singapore, Raffles Place one year ago

To whom it may concern,

As an easy-going guy with marginal intelligence, a great sense of humour, arguably the perfect dad bod, and an abundance of modesty, I think you should strongly consider sending me a message.

I have a very diverse skillset, including but not limited to: being nearly 6 feet tall, proficient hand-holder, masterful Wordle player, fantasy book facts that you don’t care about, and my Grandma once told me that I’m handsome.

Below is my list of qualifications for your review:

Generic Self-description:

  • 5’11, 170ish lbs, blonde hair, blue eyes, slim/athletic
  • Quiet but not shy. Unless you start teasing, because then words don't work anymore.
  • I’m a simple guy. I like movies, video games, books and sports. Sue me.
  • Big fan of golfing in the summer (wow pick a more boring sport, doofus)
  • Reading is kind of my nerdy secret so promise not to tell anyone, okay? Love getting lost in a big fantasy series.
  • Tendency to create bad puns and then laugh at them even when you don’t.

    Kinky Characteristics:

  • Bondage - tie my hands up while we cuddle or leave me hogtied for hours - both sound fun.
  • Tease and Denial - Big fan of being teased. The denial part doesn't sound as nice, but I guess that isn't up to me.
  • Orgasm Control - Kind of goes with the teasing and denying.
  • Service/Tasks - A big part of kink for me is making my partner happy. I'd love to do things that make your life easier, or give you a laugh, or just because you said so.
  • Spanking/Impact - I think a bit of *** could be fun.
  • Collars sound great, would love to wear one someday.
  • Curious about pegging and chastity.
  • Open-minded about trying most kinks.
  • I am almost more interested in hearing YOUR fantasies. Part of the excitement for me is not knowing what you’re going to think of next. Not to say that I want you to do all the work – I understand that I need to communicate and contribute too. The thought of combining our interests to create a fun dynamic for both us sounds amazing to me

    Hard Limits:

  • Toilet/scat - just not for me
  • Extreme / - ouch
  • *d bi/cuckolding

    What I'm Looking For:**

  • Ideally, I want to find someone to connect with and start an IRL relationship. I want someone I can talk and laugh with everyday, to take on dates and watch movies, to hang out and go on adventures with. Honestly, I'd be happy to just talk and get to know some people and see where things go.
  • If you’re looking for something more on the casual side, I’d be happy to give it a try. I’m not really looking for online though, would need to be somewhat local.
  • I would like to swap pictures once we're both comfortable doing so. No rush, but I think it's important to know what each other looks like. Just need to confirm that you're not secretly some hairy dude.
  • Obviously the BDSM dynamic is partially what I’m looking for, otherwise I wouldn’t be posting here. More importantly though, is someone that I can really connect with on a personal level.
  • I would prefer someone between the ages of 20-32. This isn't a hard limit though. If you're slightly outside that, I could make an exception for the right person.
  • I cannot stress this enough, but you must be a 6ft tall Amazon Goddess whose only purpose is to fulfill my every fantasy. You need to make enough *** to support us both so that I don't have to work or do anything. My only job is to be submissive and that should be enough to satisfy you. On top of that, you should also be able to tell that I am joking.

    Thank you for reading, I look forward to conversing with you presently.

    Regards,

    Kellanved4

BDSM Play Partner18 to 32 years ● 75km around Canada, Toronto 2 years ago

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