I crave a deep attachment.—one that erodes your boundaries and glimpses into your life. My core needs are to see and be seen, to choose and be chosen, to love and be loved. I offer you my full attention, and I need yours in return. I will only attempt this within a relationship rooted in friendship.

I don’t have any particularly kinky interests, so you’ll need to address those needs on your own—unless celibacy intrigues you.

As a switch, I need us to embrace the fluidity of power and love in our dynamic. I have high expectations for mutual understanding and synergy.

For my pets: When I take on the dom role, my only kink is Q&A. Being my pet means you must respond to every question of mine with sincere, detailed answers—letting me explore and understand every part of you. Beyond that, you must memorize and abide by the rules I set, come prepared with a translator for my Chinese expressions, and be ready to attend to my needs at all times. I don’t enjoy hitting or insulting others, but I also have no patience for coddling or comforting. What I do enjoy includes giving commands, being served, and being followed.

I only accept pets who are intelligent, obedient, and extremely attractive—someone I want to "read." We must share at least one common topic. Additionally, I’m into femboys and girls; if you’re neither, you need to be exceptionally good-looking.

Let’s start by getting to know each other. Building a relationship is a profound choice that can’t be rushed. Its longevity is nurtured, not found—we both need to invest time, love, and effort to earn each other’s trust.

Kinky Date18 to 80 years ● 500km around UK London

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