Men Seeking Men for Sissy Play

Sissy play is a feminization dynamic where one man steps into a sissy role through clothing, behavior and protocol, guided by a dominant partner. For men seeking men, a big part of the appeal is finding someone who can take charge of that.

On FET, it’s all out in the open. Members share which side they’re on and how far they like the feminization to go. They’ll also tell you whether they want a single scene or a training arrangement that lasts for months.

What Does Sissy Play Involve?

It can include lingerie and dresses, makeup, posture and etiquette, a sissy name, house rules, chastity, service and consequences when a rule gets broken.

Some dynamics are sweet and playful. Others are strict, with a penalty for every slip. Those two experiences feel very different, so matching on intensity matters most.

It’s also worth keeping this separate from gender identity. For many men, sissy play is simply a kink role. Others are exploring something bigger. Everyone’s welcome, and it helps to share where you’re at so the right people find you.

What Are Sissies and Doms Looking For?

Look for someone who matches your intensity. Most of these dynamics fall apart when two people want very different levels of commitment.

- Your role: sissy, Dom, trainer, switch

- How far it goes: private only, public, or full-time

- Whether you want protocol and discipline or just the play

- Limits around chastity, orgasm control and being seen

- A scene, a regular arrangement, or something live-in

Why Does Sissy Play Work Better When It's Stated Openly?

Because sissification can come with a lot of baggage, and that first message is often the hardest part. On FET, it’s a listed interest you can search for, so there’s nothing to confess.

That makes a big difference in men seeking men dynamics. A sissy is usually looking for a particular kind of masculine authority and would rather find it straight away than go through a string of auditions. You can both lay out the dynamic upfront and use that first conversation to see if you click.

How Do You Find a Sissy Dynamic on FET?

Say your role, your intensity and your limits. Vague profiles here attract a great deal of attention from people who want something else entirely.

- Name your role, your style and your hard limits in your profile

- Post a free Kinky Ad describing the training or dynamic you want

- Send a Spank to anyone whose profile fits

- Take it to Chat and negotiate before anything is arranged

- Join the Forum, where sissies and trainers compare approaches

How Does Sissy Training Usually Start?

Slowly, and with everything written down. Most dynamics start with a few simple rules, an agreed name and a routine that grows over a few weeks. There’s no rush to do the whole transformation on day one.

Checking in matters as much as the rules themselves. A good trainer pays attention to how things are going, adjusts the pace and makes it easy for his sissy to speak up when something isn’t working anymore. Without those conversations, the discipline tends to lose its way.

Sissy Dating FAQ

Is this the same as being transgender?

No. Sissy play is a kink role built on feminization inside a power dynamic, and many men who enjoy it identify firmly as men. Some members do use it while working out something about their gender, which is their business. Say what's true for you and find a partner who respects it.

Do I have to be submissive?

Almost always, since the role is defined by being directed. How deep that goes is entirely negotiable, from light guidance in a scene to full protocol.

Can training work long distance?

It can. Rules, tasks, photo check-ins, chastity arrangements and scheduled calls all travel. Agree the check-in schedule and what happens when one gets missed.

What if I only want to dress?

That's a complete interest on its own. Plenty of members want the clothing and the transformation with no discipline attached. Say so and you'll match with men after exactly that.

How do I find a Dom who takes training seriously?

Look for profiles describing structure: how he sets rules, how he reviews them, what he does with a sissy who's struggling. Men who've run real dynamics write about the method.

Ready to Find Your Trainer, or Your Sissy?

This works best with someone who understands both halves of it, the transformation and the authority behind it. Those men are already here and already clear about what they want.

Browse profiles, post an ad, and start the conversation properly.

Keep it kinky. Find your match on FET today.

Thank You for looking..
i’m not looking for one offs, i don’t meet straight away, i’m looking to get to know You and what You expect from me so i can fully submit to You..
i’m g, i’m submissive, extremely submissive, i have been for over twenty years.. i’m looking to be entirely committed to You, but in return i’m looking for a reciprocal arrangement. i need to feel wanted and loved as a submissive and to entirely trust You. i’m not looking for players, i’m not looking for one offs. i need to have things to look forward too, i need to know when i’ll be seeing and serving You again. i need consistency.
i’m not a swinger, i’m not looking to sleep my way through the site…i obviously enjoy vanilla sex like everyone else but kink is always my preference. it would be nice to meet one special person, or one special couple who appreciate my submissive needs. Ideally i’d like You to be Dominant, not necessarily all of the time but definitely when it counts.
i’m looking to be entirely devoted to You, to establish a connection and an understanding. i’d love to form a relationship which to all intents and purposes looks vanilla to those on the outside although we obviously know differently.
Now the shit stuff… i’ve been hurt, hurt too many times now and i’m not sure i can keep going through that. Yes i’d love to be owned again in the future… but i’m not looking to be owned one day and then disowned the next. i’m looking for someone who appreciates the complexities of ownership and the need for communication, i have emotions like everyone else and they’ve been destroyed in recent years.
i’m genuine, honest and trustworthy. i’m single and have nothing to hide and i’m happy to meet for a social too see if we might be on the same wavelength.
Some important things…
TRUST.. i think trust is THE most important thing. i need to trust someone fully in order to submit fully. It really is that simple. i’m willing to put myself in some compromising situations which totally depend on a bond between us.
HONESTY.. Close to and alongside trust is honesty. Please be honest, i’m open and honest about everything and if You can’t afford me the same courtesy i really do not want to know. i’ve nothing to hide, i really hope You don’t too. Please don’t lie to me, i cannot abide liars.
i will NOT accept a friend invite without chatting first and establishing some friendly banter… asking to be a friend without talking is likely to get You blocked..
i’m verified, i’m a paid up member and i have face photos which i keep private. This is a very private thing to me and certainly not something everyone would understand, i’m not looking to be “outed”.. my submission doesn’t happen overnight, it requires time. i’m unlikely to meet You right now or at the drop of a hat, even less so now. i’m submissive, i’m not stupid or a doormat. Firstly please talk to me like You’d talk to anyone else, everything else comes over time.
i work, like a lot.. but i’m looking to change this and i do have free time in the evenings and at weekends.. i rarely have any weekdays off unfortunately.. hopefully this will change over the next year.. i have my own place, it’s pretty small and the walls are thin, ha.. but i can accommodate.. i can also travel, i drive and i’m happy to come to You, or meet at a hotel.. (i know somewhere that’s ideal)..
i have been submissive for a long time and i’ve been fortunate to experience a lot over the years. i’ve served Dominant Ladies and Dominant Couples… i’ve experienced everything from mild to severe Domination and i enjoy the differences that people bring. i’m well versed in submitting and i’d like to think nothing shocks me anymore. i imagine i am too extreme for most people but please don’t let that put You off.
Please do not hesitate to get in touch whether You are experienced or just interested in kink and bdsm, i am always willing to answer any questions openly and truthfully.
i enjoy all aspects of bdsm, serving, being controlled, doing as i’m told, rules, protocol, , punishment and . i am yet to use my safeword and have never said “no” to anything sane. i do and always will remain polite, respectful, courteous and thankful whilst serving. Although i am happiest serving whilst made to dress like a slut i am also happy to serve whilst naked and . i’m clean and always shaved for meets..
Interests include but are not limited to..
.. i am a bit of a slut, i like being made to endure for Your amusement. i like to be pushed hard, i’d like to be made to wear Your marks… i’ve a particular interest in cbt, i hope You might too..
.. i’m an odd thing, i enjoy being humiliated, i think it’s the lack of control.. i find being made to dress slutty humiliating, and i enjoy how that makes me feel.. i also quite like the cnc and f***d bi bring, it’s hard to explain and not everyone will get it but for me it’s about doing as i’m told or doing things i’m made to..
Closeness.. i love to be touched, stroked, to have my hair played with.. it doesn’t always need to be about the extreme.. The After care is really important too, i would like to feel loved as Your submissive, beat me but hold me afterwards. But After care is not just immediate, after care is also about when we are apart and involves communication and talking about feelings and insecurities that may crop up..
Finally i have a stoma, it saved my life, i’m not ashamed of it or embarrassed by it… but if it bothers You it might be best not to message thanks..
Anyway thank You for reading, if You got this far and might like to chat please put “sub slut” in the subject bar so i know You’ve not nodded off..
Thanks.. hi

BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 60 years ● 170km around UK Newcastle upon Tyne

Men Seeking Men for Sissy Play

Sissy play is a feminization dynamic where one man steps into a sissy role through clothing, behavior and protocol, guided by a dominant partner. For men seeking men, a big part of the appeal is finding someone who can take charge of that.

On FET, it’s all out in the open. Members share which side they’re on and how far they like the feminization to go. They’ll also tell you whether they want a single scene or a training arrangement that lasts for months.

What Does Sissy Play Involve?

It can include lingerie and dresses, makeup, posture and etiquette, a sissy name, house rules, chastity, service and consequences when a rule gets broken.

Some dynamics are sweet and playful. Others are strict, with a penalty for every slip. Those two experiences feel very different, so matching on intensity matters most.

It’s also worth keeping this separate from gender identity. For many men, sissy play is simply a kink role. Others are exploring something bigger. Everyone’s welcome, and it helps to share where you’re at so the right people find you.

What Are Sissies and Doms Looking For?

Look for someone who matches your intensity. Most of these dynamics fall apart when two people want very different levels of commitment.

- Your role: sissy, Dom, trainer, switch

- How far it goes: private only, public, or full-time

- Whether you want protocol and discipline or just the play

- Limits around chastity, orgasm control and being seen

- A scene, a regular arrangement, or something live-in

Why Does Sissy Play Work Better When It's Stated Openly?

Because sissification can come with a lot of baggage, and that first message is often the hardest part. On FET, it’s a listed interest you can search for, so there’s nothing to confess.

That makes a big difference in men seeking men dynamics. A sissy is usually looking for a particular kind of masculine authority and would rather find it straight away than go through a string of auditions. You can both lay out the dynamic upfront and use that first conversation to see if you click.

How Do You Find a Sissy Dynamic on FET?

Say your role, your intensity and your limits. Vague profiles here attract a great deal of attention from people who want something else entirely.

- Name your role, your style and your hard limits in your profile

- Post a free Kinky Ad describing the training or dynamic you want

- Send a Spank to anyone whose profile fits

- Take it to Chat and negotiate before anything is arranged

- Join the Forum, where sissies and trainers compare approaches

How Does Sissy Training Usually Start?

Slowly, and with everything written down. Most dynamics start with a few simple rules, an agreed name and a routine that grows over a few weeks. There’s no rush to do the whole transformation on day one.

Checking in matters as much as the rules themselves. A good trainer pays attention to how things are going, adjusts the pace and makes it easy for his sissy to speak up when something isn’t working anymore. Without those conversations, the discipline tends to lose its way.

Sissy Dating FAQ

Is this the same as being transgender?

No. Sissy play is a kink role built on feminization inside a power dynamic, and many men who enjoy it identify firmly as men. Some members do use it while working out something about their gender, which is their business. Say what's true for you and find a partner who respects it.

Do I have to be submissive?

Almost always, since the role is defined by being directed. How deep that goes is entirely negotiable, from light guidance in a scene to full protocol.

Can training work long distance?

It can. Rules, tasks, photo check-ins, chastity arrangements and scheduled calls all travel. Agree the check-in schedule and what happens when one gets missed.

What if I only want to dress?

That's a complete interest on its own. Plenty of members want the clothing and the transformation with no discipline attached. Say so and you'll match with men after exactly that.

How do I find a Dom who takes training seriously?

Look for profiles describing structure: how he sets rules, how he reviews them, what he does with a sissy who's struggling. Men who've run real dynamics write about the method.

Ready to Find Your Trainer, or Your Sissy?

This works best with someone who understands both halves of it, the transformation and the authority behind it. Those men are already here and already clear about what they want.

Browse profiles, post an ad, and start the conversation properly.

Keep it kinky. Find your match on FET today.