Black Male Dominant seeking Submissive Female for eventual Long Term Relationship / living together as a D/S couple.

I have a high sex drive and stamina, and am seeking a genuine female who is similarly highly sexed and kinky. Your colour is irrelevant to me.

One-night-stands and No-strings encounters are great and I'm more than happy to partake, however, I find that the sex and the kink always get much better the longer you get to know and crucially, LEARN about them. Hence the interest in getting into a long-term relationship.

I'm stockily built and weigh in at approx 14st 7lbs.

Although I'm 59, I do not look it - no wrinkles - this is both a blessing and a curse depending on the scenario I happen to be in. Like the saying goes, "Black Don't Crack" LOL.

I do not switch, and I have no interest in doing things with other men apart from sharing a woman who has agreed to CONSENSUAL (CNC) of herself - MFM.

I can travel or accommodate.

I do not have a face profile, but happy to send my face pictures to anyone I engage with.

I'm also happy to converse over video mediums such as WhatsApp, Skype, Zoom, etc, etc. This way, YOU can see that I'm real and I can see that YOU are too.

After a couple of virtual meets though, I would prefer to meet in real life, obviously, once the female feels comfortable to do so after our video conversations. It is only then, after we've physically met a few times, that we can really determine if there will be any long term future, or whether for us, it's just short term fun.

I will not participate in endless
s and chats, as the goal is to actually meet, and if I feel that's the route our fledgling relationship is taking, I will terminate it.

Unfortunately, there are too many fantasists, fakers and pros masquerading as real kinksters, and it takes time to weed out other genuine souls like myself.


There is more to being a Dom than just whack-and-go!

Genuine females, please feel free to ask any questions.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 62 years ● 100km around UK Wolverhampton

HI asm a Master/Dominate my name is John they call me Rave.
I have been in the lifestyle 20+ years I first was a submissive under a great mistress who tought me a lot and I spend 5 great years learning.
I am seeking a Submissive or Slave or DDLG or Pet or Primal relationship or NSA depending on what your looking for I belive in Mutual respect and respect the right of Consent. I am open to NSA or Polly type relationship I am into impact play Degrading and CNC play I enjoy Bondage Shabari and Orgasam Denile Love to nipples clit thys inner and outter frount and back butt and sholders I can be hardcore if you request it Caining Spanking pussy lips I will punish the slut in you and make you beg for forgivness. I am also into hypno erotica Orgasams squirting and Oral enjoyment. I have wild fetishes with toys like leg spreaders and masks and Wax and Anal training for her. I enjoy gagballs for her and d Orgasams
Chastity Belts I am open to a lot of fun and take on new and experinced submissives and Slaves DDLG and Pets I do not allow Subbing from the bottom up I am always in control of my emotions mental end emotional and physical Urges. Its not about me its about pleaseing you I am strict as a Daddy and have Structure nightly sessions and am very sexual in nature. I enjoy some one who wants to get naked not a Nune or Priest who has morals about there religion I am a bad boy and know how to please you Message me and find out. The more freaky the better if your looking for a mongamus relationship i would like to know you spend time with you and have sessions with you before any comitment of LTR I always have options so your Pussy does not have a Golden Parashute. I can be very strict love to punish and spank enjoy making you push your limits and bringing you out of your comfort zone Submission is not ***d it is given I do not have time to play games message me and lets have a conversation let me know what type of dynamic your looking for and what you expect I am not a pay PIG I am a Master/Dominate I will ban you if you ask me to be your Sugar DADDY Have respect I am not here for that so move along. I require you talk on voice and video confrenceing if you would like to have a Internet incounter with me. Pictures and sexy text alone is not enough media files that are not you Faking orgasams and play will get you banned I am not here to play games. On your knees and calling me on video is fine on here At least let me understand what it is your looking for the type of play you want to expernice your limits and hard limits if any what you want to consent to and what you do not want to consent to message me or give me a call.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 55 years ● 500km around USA Redfield

My different forms of pussy play or maybe it is pussy worship.

I'll put it into six bullet points:

  1. DEZ or deep erogenous zones starts with a colposcope or my camera on a dildo to show you your 4 DEZ and how each one feels and discover which you like the best and the best order to massage them. One you start orgasming, I will keep giving vaginal orgasms but will add clitoris orgasms and the combination orgasms are my true goal.
  2. Orgasm Research is where I give multiple orgasms in a ***d way, where like a mild form of CNC you can't stop me from giving you more orgasms and training you to have longer orgasms called Status Orgasmus. I have had to stop due to hyperventilating and will lookout for safety or medical issues.
  3. Medical play is where I will vacuum pump your clit, then pump inner labia and then outer lips to be puffy and swollen. At this point, I will give your swollen, sensitive pussy multiple orgasms. Then inserting a speculum and give more orgasms with a full sensation. This is in stirrups and not bondage.
  4. My Yoni massage has 30 steps and takes about an hour. These are the important things to understand before the massage. You have no need to feel rushed, or act (fake an orgasm) or feel any pressure. Just feel my hands making you feel good. Get out of your head. Solf music, no lyrics, red or blue lighting for soothing, and relaxing experience.
  5. Orgasm Control, making sub ask for every Orgasm. 75% of the time is Yes. 10% is is count to 5 or 10 then ask again for a yes. 10% it is ask nicely, and you must say "Mr Sting, my i please Orgasm". 5% or less I will ruin an orgasm. Edging falls under this category. I'm not really into making a sub not masterbate when not with me. I think female masterbation is very healthy and should be encouraged to a point. I have a clicker counter, subs have a hard time counting above five with me.
  6. Teaching to Squirt, not all women can squirt but but I have a lot of successful subs squirt for the first time with my training. I do not to this in a *d gimmick way but with, building trust and some time and my pelvic floor muscle coaching and a bit of specific squirt training. This isn't a single scene but a longer D/s training.

    My favorite munches:**

    • Peach Munch - in Peachtree Corners, my munch I started & run.

    • SAM or Sugarloaf Area Munch meets monthly in Duluth

    • Kennesaw Kinskters meets monthly near Maietta Square

    • HOT Hothouse Slosh meets monthly at a Brewery in Lawrenceville

    • Trivia Munch meets weekly in Sugar Hill

    • AASS or Atlanta Area Spanking Society, meets monthly in Dunwoody

    • Cobb Munch meets monthly in Kennesaw


      Sometimes I go to these:

    • Alpharetta Munch meets monthly

    • DAM or Decatur Area Munch meets monthly

    • N.A.K.E.D. educational Munch meets monthly in Woodstock

    • Alternative Woodstock Area Munch meets monthly

    • Hiram Munch meets monthly

    • Gwinnett Munch meets in Duluth bi-weekly or twice monthly.

      There are more in the Greater Atlanta Area, out further. Just ask me.

      I'm putting 500km, but remember you must travel to these munches.
      If you ask nicely, I can also help you find munches in your area.

Kinky Date19 to 70 years ● 100km around USA Atlanta

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