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looking, preferably for a female dominant who can give me the structure discipline, correction, and good boy praise and rewards. i’m by curious so I’m open to men and transgender females I live in Sacramento California.
Hey all! This is my first time on FET. Although I’ve been curious for years, I’ve been doing a lot of self work and personal growth to help me isolate what I’m hoping to find. I’d love to meet more dominant types to explore my sub self. Kind, antiracist, anti patriarchal, radical, consent aware, communicative types. I’m open to bondage, discipline, flogging, shibari and learning more.
Are I am a , grounded Dominant seeking a female submissive trainee (30–50) who is genuinely interested in structured training, personal growth, and a meaningful Dom/Sub dynamic. About You: • Perth metro based • Athletic build • Shoulder-length hair or longer • Non-smoker • Open to tattoos and piercings • Female, any nationality • Comfortable with discretion & clear communication • Able to travel domestically and internationally as my consort About the Dynamic: You will be trained in the ways of submission in a safe, ethical, and intentional manner, with an emphasis on trust, mutual respect, and consent. This is not about rushing or fantasy-only play, but about developing confidence, discipline, and depth within a Dom/Sub framework. I value intelligence, curiosity, emotional awareness, and a willingness to learn. In return, I offer guidance, structure, protection, and a calm, experienced hand. This is best suited to someone seeking a long-term connection rather than a casual encounter. If this resonates with you, introduce yourself thoughtfully and tell me what draws you to submission and what you hope to gain from training. Are you good enough?
I'm looking for an experienced Mistress who knows how to, or want to try, assert dominance using her mouth, teeth, throat and tongue to reward and punish me while I am kept entirely inside her mouth, where I am ***, sensible to any movement, at mercy of her commands. She would be using what is hers, soothing while she is doing something else - falling asleep, pleasuring herself, watching others, reading, browsing the phone… - with me trapped in her mouth. I wouldn't dare pull out: she'd never let me until she is satisfied. I want to, and I need to, be disciplined rigorously in that way, learning to crave the control she have over me when I'm deep inside her. If you believe you are able to control me this way I am ready to surrender and submit to you.
I’m drawn to submissives who crave being physically restrained, guided, and controlled with intention. I enjoy taking my time—building desire, holding you on the edge, and deciding when (and how much) pleasure you’re allowed to have. This is about discipline, surrender, and giving yourself over to someone who knows how to push your limits in all the right ways. If the idea of losing control while I keep it firmly in my hands excites you, you know what to do.
I am looking for a dominant woman to worship. I would rather find a real female led relationship rather than a professional dominatrix although I am open to new experiences
Hello everyone. I am posting to see if there is anyone out there who is looking to be spanked. Maybe you need to be disciplined. Maybe you are after the catharsis that comes with an intense spanking session. Maybe the feeling of ***ness and submission is what does it for you. Maybe you just get off on the feeling of being bent over while a confident and experienced guy turns your ass red. Maybe all of the above. Looking forward to hearing from you
She is a confident woman in her own skin, knows what she wants, and is capable of discussing this openly. You will have an experimental nature regarding your Rope Bunny kinks. Predicaments Punishments Pleasures Rewards I understand how my age might get in the way of your thoughts of enjoying what I'm capable of creating. Age is purely a number. A measure of years I've been alive and enjoying the journey. Never settling for the basic non-vanilla or the extraordinary rush sharing and creating erotic sensually mind-blowing kink together. In my case, my age is about knowledge and experience. BTW. I also grew up at a time when respect and good manners were beaten into me. Talking back or asking questions when told to do something was not allowed. Needless to say, I'm not into aggressive punishment. My punishment is more aligned with knowing what gives you the maximum amount of pleasure and taking advantage of controlling how I use that knowledge just enough to keep you on the wave of pleasure. I'm not all talk. I have a passion for creating and delivering the kinkiest sensual pleasure you may have in mind. I'm a creative rigger who enjoys a request or a challenge on the style of ropes you want to explore. Shibari isn't the only kink passion I have. However, it's definitely something that is a part of me, and not just a gimmick. I'm continually studying shibari. Following some of the best shibari artists and masters on insta and YouTube is one of my favourite ways to relax from time to time. I'm not a hardcore Dom. I'm sensual. Above all else, I'm sensible with the ropes, the discipline of shibari, and using the ropes correctly. Safe. Sane and Sensual. Is the rule I have when I'm using my Pick & Mix collection of Crops and Suede Floggers. The reference to Pick & Mix. It is exactly as it suggests. Ensuring you won't be able to predict what's coming during that time when you are bending over and wanting to be spanked in kinky ways. Have I got your attention? If you find older kinky fit BWC gents who treat you right, a turn on, and want to apply to be my Rope Bunny. Don't hold back. X
I’m a Dom drawn to order, authority, and deliberate imbalance. Mid-century domestic aesthetics (house dresses, aprons) paired with negotiated discipline and clear expectations. I explore consensual gender-role and *** fantasies as roleplay only. This is about power, ritual, and control within agreed boundaries… not real-world beliefs. I’m interested in a submissive partner who understands layered dynamics: submissive with me, dominant with women, capable of confidence, discretion, and clear communication. Everyone involved is informed, consenting, and adult. I value patience, vetting, and negotiation. I’m not impulsive. I’m intentional. If you understand the difference between fantasy and reality, and you’re drawn to structured power done thoughtfully, we may align.
Dominant seeking a submissive for consensual BDSM play with communication, negotiation, and aftercare. I’m confident, firm, and focused on building trust and chemistry. Interested in: restraints, discipline, impact, training, protocol (all negotiable). Looking for someone emotionally mature and kink-positive. Message me with your experience, what you’re seeking, and your limits.
Widower ready to get back in the saddle. Do I need to get you to obey? Get your attention? Let's go on a pleasure adventure - Michael 713.376.5177
Looking for a fun femdom to go and have some fun. Looking to explore pet/own. And serving slave side of the life. I love to be humiliated and controlled and Disciplined and I also like spanking
I am the Dom who sees your deepest cravings and claims them as my own—with a firm voice, steady hands, and an unrelenting will that turns submission into pure bliss. Inked with a single powerful tattoo that marks my authority, I’m built strong and confident, ready to guide you through the intoxicating dance of power and surrender. I seek obedient slaves—whether you’re a curious young sub eager to learn every nuance of devotion, or a mature woman who knows exactly how good it feels to finally let go and be owned. Silk restraints, sharp commands, teasing edges, and the sweet sting of discipline… I’ll push your limits, reward your obedience, and leave you trembling with need. Discretion assured, intensity guaranteed. If you’re ready to kneel for a Dom who leads with control and rewards with ecstasy, message me now. Your place at my feet is waiting. 🔥⛓️
Experienced Dom seeking a genuine, open-minded sub who craves structure, trust, and deep connection. I value communication, consent, and mutual growth above all else — power exchange is meaningful only when built on respect. I’m drawn to partners who enjoy exploring both the mental and physical sides of submission. Whether it’s discipline, ritual, or control, I approach every dynamic with care, patience, and intensity. I know how to lead, when to listen, and how to challenge you safely past your limits. Outside the bedroom, I’m grounded, witty, and passionate about balance — power play doesn’t end at the door, but it lives in how we treat each other day to day. Let’s build something real, layered, and lasting. If you’re looking for a confident Dom who values connection and creativity as much as control, let’s talk. Tell me what submission means to you — I’ll tell you what dominance means to me.
I’m looking for a Total Power Exchange dynamic where I can fully surrender control and live in service. I crave structure, rules, discipline, and the security of belonging completely to a Dominant who wants ownership. My kinks include feminisation, ***, pet play, blackmail, slavery, bondage, chastity, and objectification, but I’m always eager to explore deeper forms of submission. If you’re looking for loyalty, obedience, and someone ready to give themselves over completely, I want to serve. and i own a chastity cage but i don’t wear it much, maybe you change that.
Looking to meet a young sluty submissive with bratty tendencies that is hard working and obedient and has the desire to be spoiled with love guidance discipline and gifts
Confident Dominant seeking a partner who craves structure, direction, and intentional control. I lead calmly, clearly, and with purpose. If you want discipline, edge, and real connection built on consent and trust—step forward and tell me what you’re ready to surrender.
Through this practice — through presence, discipline, and the depth of my dominance — I awaken what lies beneath your layers. Everything you do to control yourself and others — the strategies, the tension, the carefully managed behavior — I dissolve progressively and relentlessly, one layer at a time. Steadily and deliberately, I guide you into that space where you no longer need the roles that once protected you, where the pretending dissolves, and your true self steps forward — open, ***, unfiltered. And when your eyes meet mine in that moment, I see something rare: your essence calling to mine, your vulnerability reflecting my own. From that truth, I gather you with tenderness, hold you, and protect the part of you that is finally free to breathe. The submissive identity fades, and the princess emerges. Now I know who you are. And you know who I am. Our connection lives beyond dominance and submission. It lives in the recognition of two beings who meet without masks.