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Looking for local-ish female subs/fwbs/silly geese 🪿
Spanking, ass worship, general fun times.
Vibe checks first please!

Looking for a woman or man to hang out with and explore fantasies with. If you’re a woman, I’m looking for mommy to dominate me. If you’re a guy, looking for my first time, starting slow with maybe some mutual hj and spanking

Submissive switch guy on Hayling Island. Pansexual, neurodivergent, and open minded. I love bondage, spanking, impact play, watersports, teasing, mind games, and being pushed into real surrender. I’m looking for real life play with Dominants and switch partners nearby who want to explore, take the lead, and have fun seeing how far we can go.

Looking for girls who want too do me with a strap on dildo cock balls *** spanking etc. Iam a submissive obedient sissy bitch slut slave fem boy.

Hi I’m looking to give a non sexual spanking message me if interested

It’s pretty bold of me to say this, as I’m very introverted, shy and brand spanking new to FetLife… But I’m looking for older figures to engage in safe consensual spankings.

Busco chicas que les guste ser castigadas con nalgadas o azotes

Looking for a spankee that wants a good spanking

I think it's time I dusted off my ropes and refreshed my knot tying.

It's been a while since I've been into the rougher side of BDSM but I can't get a thought out of my mind.

I remember being in shock and awe, totally blown away by how some "sweet and innocent" unassuming women can just absorb punishment and smile all the while. Despite pinching, twisting, tying, slapping, and spanking, some can still look up at me through teary eyes and bite their lips in anticipation for more.

Not gonna lie, it melts my heart. It makes the aftercare so much more rewarding when the first few minutes are spent catching our breath. Admiring the marks we left on one another as I cradle and coddle them.

And yes, I don't mind a few marks on myself. Don't worry, I doubt you can hurt me 😏 though it'd be fun to watch you try. To use a pet analogy, I'm not necessarily looking for a dog who will just roll over when told. More of an ally cat with claws who needs to be domesticated.

Hit me up and lets discuss. I'm open to alternate kinks and varying the intensity. On a scale from "😇🍼💦" to "👹🥃🔥", lemme know how you like your bedroom battle scars

Hello looking to give a non sexual spanking message if interested

I’m a strict but attentive Dominant with 30 years in the lifestyle, seeking a submissive female who desires to surrender fully. My play combines discipline and deep pleasure: spanking, bondage, restraints, teasing, blindfolds, sex toys, orgasm denial, and release.

I take control seriously—pushing limits with care, keeping your pleasure at the forefront, and drawing out multiple intense orgasms that leave you floating in subspace. Whether you’re bratty, obedient, or somewhere deliciously in between—I’ll know how to tame you.

ℂ𝕦𝕕𝕕𝕝𝕪 𝔾𝕦𝕪 & 𝕊𝕡𝕚𝕕𝕖𝕣 ℂ𝕒𝕥𝕔𝕙𝕖𝕣
I'm 6'4" (192 cm), built like a bear with a teddy heart. I'm an introvert who thrives on deep chats and dry humour. I like to cook, then curl up for a horror film or a good mystery -- Not a fan of F1 or footie. 😅
⠀I think the world's better when people feel safe being who they are; quirks, kinks, gender and geekiness included.

ℝ𝕠𝕞𝕒𝕟𝕥𝕚𝕔 𝕊𝕠𝕗𝕥 𝔻𝕠𝕞
I guide, praise and discipline. Into power-exchange, play and over-stimulation; bondage, blindfold, spanking, cunnilingus, wand vibrator, and aftercare.
⠀Daddy Dom vibes? Maybe. Plushies? Adorable. Diapers? Hard limit.

If I peak your interest, send a ♡ and I'll message you.

Someone who wants to give a spanking or take one someone who wants to be diapered or wants to diaper

Meet me right now and bending me over.
Spank my bare ass.
Use your hand or my Rabbit fur paddle.
Near Seattle

I’m looking for a girl that likes to be bullied, get wedgies and spankings. Please write back, if you think you might be interested

Attractive fit dominant older gentleman seeks younger playmate/thing to use as I will. Kinks include but not limited to. Spanking,slapping,degrading,spitting in your moth/face. All 3 places i can be inside.Dirty talk by both of us. Hair pulling light bitting (me bitting you) lots of sex in Public places (many of them filthy and semi disgusting. In return you’ll be praised and thanked for being a good girl for me and other perks tbd by your likes

Mistress

Looking for someone to help me break in a new riding crop and willow cane after I broke my last ones.

A Curvy Female, age not important who enjoys/craves a Prolonged Spanking session followed up with aftercare I can be discreet if needed 😉

Soft Dom looking for that special little lady with which to spend some of my precious time. I would savor the company of an alpha Sub, but brats and the inexperienced are encouraged to step forward. Shoot your shot.

I am seeking an IRL connection that embraces kink and power exchange, both in the bedroom and beyond. What I crave is a woman to shape into a work of art to match my taste and desires. Grace and elegance, line and curve. Passionate, but devoted to one another. Leadership meets obedience. Lust meets lust.

Kink is built on deep trust, vulnerability, and mutual respect. Yes, there will be all the fun things, spanking, kneeling, cockwarming, etc, but at its core, D/s is psychological, spiritual, mystical. the very heart of deepest intimacy. oh, and just a reminder, Dominance is leadership, not loudness.

Anyone wants to be dominated tonight? Edging, spanking and other -taking requests now 😁

So I had a perfect situation going: she was also married in an ENM relationship. Let’s call her “Jen”. Jen wanted a regular, recurring thing and so did I. She was cute af. Out of respect for her, I won’t go into any details, but we went on a couple of dates and played a couple of times, then I had to end it.

Why?

Jen and I were sexually incompatible: It turns out that through this “girlfriend” experiment, I realized that my own sexual identity is around how hot and erotic my relationship with my own wife is.

However, my beautiful, sweet, owned wife and sub’s actions may have ruined vanilla sex for me - at least in a 1:1 setting. When we play together with others, our dynamic is still active even if it’s invisible…

Back to my mini relationship: she wasn’t into BDSM, but she was a natural Dom. She loved to take control and keep it. The power struggle was sort of fun at first, but then it just became sort of…blah.

Of course, I asked my wife for advice since we’re communicating this whole time anyway, and she at least didn’t call me crazy when I said that I would strongly prefer a slightly kinkier relationship, and that I thought I would start to lead with that approach…

So here I am! Looking for someone that feels easy to hang out with, and can be real, and honest, and your *** true self - the Sub who needs to be praised when she’s a good girl, and gets delicious spankings if she’s being a brat.

In return, you’ll get a kind-hearted friend and Dominant play partner. I won’t be your Dom on principal, but I will act JUST like one - based on your boundaries, needs and desires - once a week or so 😈

Don’t be shy😘

Someone interested in some playtime tonight? I’m a big guy 5’11” 330 lbs. near Sulphur Springs, Greenville, Longview, Tyler. If interested hit me up and let’s figure something out. Looking for someone who needs a good spanking, nice and hard and whatever else comes to mind.