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Thanks for checking me out! I’m late 30s, 6'1" and cuddly/chubby, based in North East ireland and looking to date a submissive lady with a thing for spanking/impact play

I'm looking to meet someone affectionate and fun, to see if we would get along. My profile is pretty comprehensive. I'm no kink expert but am moderately experienced and open minded. Any questions just ask.


I’d describe my kinky nature as ‘nurturing Dominant ’ (I hesitate to say a DD but it’s probably semi-accurate )

Time spent just snuggling with a kitten on my lap is just as important as the freakier stuff too (sometimes!)
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I enjoy exercising power over my sub, it makes me feel amazing, which in turn drives me to make her feel even more amazing! Kink-wise I’m not a newbie but I don’t claim to be some super experienced ‘Domly-Dom’ either– I feel that one should always be learning & it’s more fun to learn and try new things with someone else ;-)


Finally I like the fetish aesthetic (lingerie, heels, fishnets, latex etc) but it's not a kink just man-ogre-brain.


Vanilla life: Scientist, bit of a nerd, enjoy a bit of ***ting, doing crafty things & boardgames. I cycle a little bit too and probably know more about Pokémon than any adult year old should!

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100% Exhibitionist
100% Brat tamer
100% Brat
100% Switch
100% Degradee
100% Voyeur
100% Rigger
100% Rope bunny
100% Boy/Girl
99% Vanilla
97% Ageplayer
92% Sadist
90% Submissive
90% Primal (Hunter)
83% Daddy/Mommy
80% Primal (Prey)
77% Slave
77% Dominant
75% Pet
74% Masochist
71% Non-monogamist
66% Experimentalist
66% Degrader
59% Master/Mistress
44% Owner

Male submissive living in far end of Cornwall looking for strong minded ladies who want a slave for short or long time use.
Willing to anything for his mistress .
Very god at most tasks domestic especially cooking etc I need instruction on what you want .
I love being used for oral duties

Submissive male looking for new sexual thrills.
I am looking for virtual mistress or master who want to train me and help me explore my own sexuality. Nothing is taboo for me so use your imagination and experiences.

Hi there I’m brian a submissive
I enjoy the thought of being used as a toy in what ever way You wish for Your pleasures in what ever way You wish within my limits
enjoy a wide range of fetish
If You wish to drop me a line to chat and see what happens that would be lovely
My pleasure is knowing You have been pleased in what ever way You desire

I do have a desire to submit and be ordered what to do occasionally. I would like to do this more. I want someone to take control and be dominant to me as i submit to you as you take me with your big strap on im willing to learn. Im from sheffield willing relocate be a 24/7 sub for you

Dom seeking sub

Moderately experienced dom seeking submissive for fun an possibly a relationship...

Seeking open minded person of all experience levels

Personal experiences, kinks and interests include but are not exclusive to:

Latex
Rubber
Pvc
High heels
Fetish wear
Corsets / basques

Toys
Vibrators
Magic wand
Anal beads and plugs
Dildos
Penis extenders/enhancers
Nipple clamps
Rope play
Tie and tease
Ball gag
Blindfolds
Sensory deprivation
Breath play

Spanking
Whips
Canes
Paddles
and pleasure

Hair pulling
Blindfolds
Light spanking
Scarf or tie bondage
Roleplaying

Electro stim
Task and reward play
Pushing/testing limits
Wax play
Public remote bullet play
d orgasm
Ruined orgasm
Chastity
Edge play
Fisting
Sounding

Open to trying most things with someone who's got an interest in something new


I'm not necessarily looking for a romantic relationship although this is not off the table I would also consider a purely sexual sub & master relationship.

So when I say special, I don't mean "The One" or anything like that (wouldn't say no though). I mean someone to connect with. I crave feeling emotionally and mentally submissive, not just physically. I need to feel like they dominate my mind, not to the extent they control me (though again, wouldn't say no) but that I'd happily drop to my knees if it'd make you smile.

Heavy Sub for Mistress

HI I am a heavy guy 33 living in Kent. I'm submissive and like Women that are mature and controling. I am me shy at first but don't mind being pushe'd..........................

I am a sub who occasionally switches depending on the energy o fthe partner. If she or he comes across dominant I will submit and expect to be fucked in the ass. If she is submissive, without even saying a word I will be looking for ropes, blindfolds, clamps, hands restraints, and so on.

Hi to everyone,
I have been amicably divorced for around 26 years with a couple of significant relationships between then and now. I'm living in NW Leeds . Yorkshire, and I'm a single, experienced, nurturing disciplinarian / Dominant as well as a successful Mentor Dom and sometime daddy dominant.
I'd like to meet a woman., either just to be friends ,or initially as friends, but open to letting things evolve if there is a real rapport between us. I am not afraid of commitment, if there is a good chemistry and we share similar values. Equally, I am capable of respecting limits in a simple friendship and a committed relationship.I'm looking for a woman who wants to explore and develop her submissive, little girl or masochistic side further. I am patient and I respect your choice to be someone who is loosely called a submissive. I have been told I am authoritative and have presence. Please know that you are my equal in all respects except for those areas we have mutually discussed and agreed that I take the lead. Whether you are a novice or experienced is not an issue for me. The woman I’d like to meet would enjoy spending time together in both vanilla and our shared and complementary kinks. I have always found it mutually beneficial if the first couple of meetings are purely social in order to learn about each other and to build that vital rapport; say in a pleasant cafe or restaurant which is safe and convivial. She may be straight, bisexual, sapiosexual, gender fluid or any variation. I hope that isn't too much to ask?
On a more casual NSA basis, whilst I remain single, I am happy to be an occasional or one time disciplinarian to a younger man , non binary or trans , say up to his forties if he is no taller than 5’ 10". I am 5’8”.
Looking forward to hearing from anyone who feels there may be a connection.

young fit bitch boi is looking for someone who likes to use, humiliate and . I am very submissive and I really wish to serve. Someone, who would strip me naked, slap me, spank, gag me, anally and orally me and many more.

I see myself as a submissive / slave.
Looking for someone to show me the way. Someone who is fun but firm.
I want to embrace this side of me. And explore new and exciting things, meet new people.
Kiss new feet
worship fine bodies
Serve and submit

23 year old Daddy Dom looking for a DDLG relationship. Looking for a sub/baby girl to look after. Looking for someone who is open minded and submissive who is into the DDLG scene and is up for giving things a go.

I am actively searching to develop a loving, caring long term relationship with a submissive female. Someone not necessarily into 24/7 BDSM (we would discuss your needs and wants) All hard limits would be highly respected, soft limits would be discussed and pushed. I am easy going, laid back and not into any form of drama. I love the outdoors !!
My Ideal Person Someone who also enjoys the outdoors, camping, 4 wheeling, fishing, days on the lake, road trips, poker runs and rallies, etc.
Enjoys spending some evenings, relaxing, cuddled up watching a movie, or laying back in the Jacuzzi.

Submissive man in Plymouth UK looking to meet a Dominant lady for fun and friendship.I would like to start online chatting pic exchange possible tasks etc see how we get on then hopefully meet then take it from there see what happens. Also happy do to cam meetings as well with cam2cam.

Professional guy with a kinky mind and a hair fetish looking for a submissive female . I’m into sensual play and literally anything that involves your hair. Kinky meets to start with. I’d love to be your kinky hairdresser and give you all those extras that you yearn for. Let’s have some fun. I’ll spank you, flog you with various toys and explore your body with sensual toys. Also like being a Daddy Dom. Can’t see spanks so pls message me!

Im a submissive guy looking for a dominatrix to make me their bitch and to become their slave. I love the idea of being a slave and worshipping a mistress and i am into feet , *** and chastity. Please contact meif your looking for a sub or slave especially if you want a foot slave.

Experienced Master/Dom looking for a kinky, open minded and submissive sub slut for regular use.I am an extremely perverted man with a high sex drive – a caring, nurturing daddy with a sadistic, controlling side – a fucktoy trainer who enjoys degrading, dirty games and many fantasies. All is welcome, advanced or beginners, for explore and fulfill ours fantasies and to final, to come back on earth....

Let me start by saying i'm not looking to be messed about, i'm looking for someone who wants to explore their submissive side in person be that through petplay, ddlg ect must be willing to meet in person, i'm rather new to this but have had much success in the sessions I've had so far and am eager to learn and teach

I do not see the spanks. So if you want to reach out, please send a message and I will definitely respond.**

I identify as a Pleasure sadist but also a dominant who has multiple facets. I am primal yet sensual, Sadistic yet nurturing like a Daddy .
I am straight.

I do not ee spanks so please send a message instead.
I am looking for a submissive.with whom I connect , whose needs, wants match mine .
It is the chemistry that will have a bearing on how we play and progress forward.
I have found out that communication , consent and respect are important in establishing any kind of rapport or dynamic.

My kinky experience and skills:

• Various forms of sensory experience to include either lighter forms of touch, or impact (stingy or thuddy, often complementary), with or without some forms of sensory deprivation such as blindfolds.
  

• Sensual encounters: massages for instance
  

• Restraint in various forms,
  

• Impact only sessions,
  

• Orgasm/squirt sessions,
  

• Teasing and edging to include a variety of depths/s***ds/angles,
  

• Yoni massage
  
  I am an adept of RACK, consent, respect and communication.
  
  I am also very comfortable in cuckold/Hotwife dynamic. I love to create an atmosphere, a setting where all are happy to be involved or not in case of the cuck.
  
  If any of the above resonates with you, please get in touch! Who knows, we may be a match.
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  Feel free to ask for more details if any of the above resonates with what you're looking for.
  
  In the vanilla world, I am educated, interested in movies, reading, current affairs, History, music, sports , cooking , Scandinavian TV Series or Nordic Noir.
  
  I am unable to see the pics of those who sent me a spank or a flirt. if interested just drop me aline and we will take it from there.
  I CAN NOT SEE WHO SEND ME A SPANK!
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Kinky cowboy looking for women with sexy feet an toes. Must be submissive all are welcome to message an send photos. I love to rub an play an suck on sexy feet an toes. Don't be shy. Thank you ladies

Interested in Kinky submissive to explore more and brake barriers.
I'm open mind, so if you have any quires or want to know more just ask.