HI asm a Master/Dominate my name is John they call me Rave.
I have been in the lifestyle 20+ years I first was a submissive under a great mistress who thought me a lot and I spend 5 great years learning.

I am looking for a LTR NSA or POLLY whatever your flavor. One with mutual respect respect for consent and a Dominate / Submissive With great communication so there is no arguments fighting or disrespect where we remain Respectful at all times of course you would have a say in everything and transparency would assure that there is no ghosting lying or problems Transparency and Communication . I would have the final say and I base it on a fair judgement of whats best for the relationship and I would not let things happen giving you to others unless in a Polly or NSA agreement and safety and safe sex is needed to have there way just to dangerous now days with STD and HIV Be Safe! Love care and mental emotional and physical support always in the relationship and I am a romantic at heart so I am not abusive mental emotionally or physically I am looking for some one that is ready to explore new things who enjoys impact play and bondage and Sabari and is ready to give them self to me fully after a year fully and is collared in 6 months that is a lot like marriage then the CNC contract after one year where she is ready to fully give her self to me for our needs. It is because of scammers I have made it where you must verify your pictures on this site to message me. I'm not a Sugar DADDY I am a Master/Dominate have respect when you message me I am not here to play games. I am willing to take time to get to know you as friends first if that's what you need. I have a very high sex drive so i am not looking for someone who has to take 6 months to make up there mind while they scout other men online If your out of the United States I could be interested in Internet relationship but video and voice is required. I can message you for the first 30 days after that you must be able to call me on the phone or video call me daily. I am not a perv I am a Master and have control over my sexual needs and I do not require nudes unless you want to send them to me or your taking part in our Nightly Ritual I am very kinky but I understand fully about the rights of consent and respect for my Submissive DDLG Slave Brat I take care of you menially emotionally and physically After care and Safe Words and make sure you have a safe space to grow. If you are interested you can message me here be happy to speak with you and answer any questions you may have and even fly you here by paying half the airfares if you need help but we must be well established for some time befor we do that so and you must be able to travel and relocate when the time comes. I love Brats I am a Sadist and Infor not into hardcore that's ok you don't have to be as long as you enjoy Impact play and Bondage you need to be Tamed message me. I am working on my Projects now Hanging the spanking rings on the wall and adding the tiedowns to my refurbished bed and have plans to build a beam in the back yard so you can do some Sabari Safety always first when it comes to suspension so if your a Rope bunny that's a pulse nothing more sexy then a bunny tied up in her submission and zone until then I am learning new things and will keep it to partial suspensions and practice is needed so hours of being tied up off and on trying new stuff "I am not a expert when it comes to Ropes but I enjoy Hemp Ropes they are my rope of choice to use in Sabari also like wax nipple and clit *** Thys and breast and butt impact play and others is a lot of fun all within safe limits "Hope to here from you soon Master/Dominate Rave.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 55 years ● 500km around USA Redfield

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Looking for an obedient female slave to train into hopefully a 24/7 slutty free-use fuck toy, one who’d give me full control over her body and even lifestyle if willing. At the same time, also looking for a connection, a magical one that exists only between a Master and his slave. I'm attracted to passion, desire and drive, and usually I'm drawn to women my age or older than me, and the look on their faces as they find themselves at my mercy, the way they blush, moan so desperately. I know there’s a lot of pride in being older than someone, and having that flipped, kneeling naked, bound, filled with toys ravaging your body, whimpering and moaning at my mercy - it's humiliating, degrading, objectifying (in a good way), it feels taboo yet exciting... and I like having that effect on someone. That you’d be a toy, an owned object, a plaything of someone younger - and when you realize that it cements you as one.

How would you feel if you were locked in a metal chastity belt or tied spreadeagled, naked exposed, your perky tits facing the ceiling, with remote controlled vibrators shoved deep in your dripping wet pussy and sexy ass, so I could control them whenever I wanted, wherever I wanted, however I wanted. So I could deny you an orgasm, or you to cum again and again … How would you like it if I rubbed your nipples roughly, pinching them, pulling on them, rolling them in my fingertips, then slowly moved my hand down to between your spread legs, over your pussy mound, sliding two fingers along your moistening slit, tracing them up and down between your pussy lips sensually. Feel your pussy, your fingers resting at the entrance to your leaking wet hole, how does it feel? Does it feel moist, dripping? If it is, I bet you feel like a pathetic, slutty whore right now, but at the same time -- you belong. Slide a finger in, slowly, in and out. Tell me how you feel…

How would you like to be my slave, owned fully, tied up, made to be naked while alone at home, trained into a
obedient fuck-toy whore. Played with, aroused… I’d train you to be a proper slave, to beg for permission to cum, to be aroused and horny wanting me to play with you. I’d develop rules for you to follow, you’d be denied permission to wear panties, I’d keep you naked often, filled with toys as often as possible. In person, you’d be fully free use, I’d love it if you let me take the lead and explore your body however I’d liked. And if you’re brave and interested, and you chose willingly, freely to give yourself fully, giving full control over not just your sexual life, but all aspects of your life, total power exchange in a way that I’ve found truly magical… in a way that’s freeing, that weight and stress of decisions being lifted off your shoulders, leaning into me… and at my mercy, yet safe, an ultimate form of submission and trust, that would mean the world to me. Knowing you do so freely, giving yourself fully, not because you feel d or pressured, or that you need that to heal from past trauma, or that you need to do so to be mine, but because it’s truly what you want, who you are deep inside, who you always were, that hidden desire that is yet to be unlocked, I’ll treasure that, and I’d want to guide you, in a way that’s structured, meaningful and truly amazing. I want to make you always feel like you belong, that you’re owned fully and completely - that you’re not alone or lost anymore. Being and naked, so that even when you’re wearing clothes, you still feel fully undressed, because you know that you’re known and understood. Your secrets, your s, your past. And despite that - you feel comfortable, safe. And if a spark blossoms within that dynamic, maybe we’d find love that’s passionate and beautiful, in a way that your submission brings you both pride and happiness- that you smile, to me, making someone smile and blush is intoxicating.

I'm fine with starting off slow if you’re a beginner, and showing you the ropes (though I really like cuffs!). I wouldn’t want to overwhelm you, I’d want to find your limits and push at them if you’d like that, help you overcome them.

I also have a fantasy of owning two slaves together and not separate, where it’s like a permanent threesome, and passionate, and they like each other as much or even more than they like and want me, where they both belong to me and only me, and I’m theirs, and only theirs. It’s not something I need to be happy, it’s a fantasy and I’m monogamous at heart, but if you did want it, it would excite me and mean the world to me. If I liked you, then you would be all that I need, you’d be enough for me. But I wouldn’t want anyone to feel like a third, so if this is something you wanted, I’d want to train you at the same time as someone else, someone you were attracted to, liked. So if there’s someone you’re interested in being trained alongside, someone you are interested in, approach me together. I haven’t been looking for people, I’ve been going through a lot and my grad applications are due December 15th, so I haven’t been messaging people first, but when people message me and are interested in me, or if I am talking to someone and getting to know them and it’s still in that early stage, I can tell you who they are if you’re interested in this, and you can reach out to them. That way I’d start training you at the same time when I am ready, so it would be magical and safe for both of you, not hierarchical.

Tell me what you are into, your deepest fantasies, your hidden desires, I’m into a lot of things and I’d work with you to dominate you in the way that is personalized to you, tell me what you desire, as well as any limits you have.

I’m currently in the Boston, MA area, and hoping to find connections near there! I am still happy with dominating online those who are farther away, especially as I prefer dominating and getting to know each other online at first in general, though I’d eventually prefer something in person if possible eventually! Also open to this eventually leading to a live-in slave situation if you want that (and we really like each other ofc).

Also, if you are interested in latex, chastity belts (female), sex toys, or being tied up and naked like the slut you are, definitely message me. If you do end up wanting to message me, read my profile fully first, it’s long, I know, I’m working on shortening it, but it’s me. I’m also hoping to develop sex toys so if you’re interested in testing that out with me that’d be amazing! I have a few ideas 🤭

BDSM Play Partner22 to 50 years USA Boston

Hi! My life partner in both life and kink recently passed away after 30 years together. As such, I am hoping to expand my horizons and circumstances by reconnecting with the greater kink community. While I am considering exploring a LTR, I am at present in no hurry to commit to anything permanent as I am still adjusting to this.

I am primarily seeking a situation involving a sub or slave female that might lead to a LTR. I can host for mild to wild BDSM play; prefer subsemphasized text with masochistic tendencies and desires. SORRY NO MALES!

Me? I'm a 63 y/o widowed Dom WM with a dry but dark sense of humor; 6'3" 195 HWP, professional, pierced nipples. I'm presently recovering from some health issues but am moving along very well and am very much a fighter; not a quitter! College educated and although mature, very in touch with my inner child. I can transition from NPR to Bob’s Burgers without flinching nor being embarrassed about doing so. Music is a vital part of who I am as is humor. The ability to maintain a sense of humor without arrogance when it comes to BDSM play is, in my eyes, vitally important.

I am not looking for someone squeamish but someone adventurous, who is intrigued by spankings/paddles, restraints and nipple clamps, wax play, blindfolds, latex, leather, tight restraints, watching/ voyeurism, large objects and. . .?

I switch on occasion if the chemistry is right and am open to CBT, pegging, sounding, and pretty much many of the other interests I’ve already outlined. In other words, I can take in what I dish out...

I have a wide variety of gear to add to the total ambience… Anything from mild to wild, as I do have a bit of a sadistic streak…

You? ...are sane and secure, clean and discrete. Enjoy some curves, but sorry- no extreme overweight. Prefer mature but will consider any age or race with a willingness to test your limits and maintain creativity with a certain degree of humor and humility. LOVE tats, piercings, ebony, goth and...

Limits will be respected but tested; also receptive to sexting. Because of scam efforts and ulterior motives of some responses I have received, I actually prefer meeting at a neutral location first in the general Milwaukee area although, yes, I can host...

Desires and Fantasies
My partner and I have explored plenty of things in the past including play dungeons, pet play, role playing etc. I've already explored plenty of fantasies, so just let me know what yours might be...

If you are looking for pay for play or if you’re a “” seeking s, move on… I have better things to spend my on including partners that are actually interested in something more LT and stable, and who actually play instead of yanking chains (rhetorically rather than literally)... If you’re looking for someone to send you or gift cards sight unseen, well… while I appreciate you’re thinking that I was born yesterday, I wasn’t…

BDSM Play Partner30 to 70 years ● 50km around USA Milwaukee

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