NSA18 to 80 years ● 550km around Spain Murcia

Hi! My life partner in both life and kink recently passed away after 30 years together. As such, I am hoping to expand my horizons and circumstances by reconnecting with the greater kink community. While I am considering exploring a LTR, I am at present in no hurry to commit to anything permanent as I am still adjusting to this.

I am primarily seeking a situation involving a sub or slave female that might lead to a LTR. I can host for mild to wild BDSM play; prefer subsemphasized text with masochistic tendencies and desires. SORRY NO MALES!

Me? I'm a 63 y/o widowed Dom WM with a dry but dark sense of humor; 6'3" 195 HWP, professional, pierced nipples. I'm presently recovering from some health issues but am moving along very well and am very much a fighter; not a quitter! College educated and although mature, very in touch with my inner child. I can transition from NPR to Bob’s Burgers without flinching nor being embarrassed about doing so. Music is a vital part of who I am as is humor. The ability to maintain a sense of humor without arrogance when it comes to BDSM play is, in my eyes, vitally important.

I am not looking for someone squeamish but someone adventurous, who is intrigued by spankings/paddles, restraints and nipple clamps, wax play, blindfolds, latex, leather, tight restraints, watching/ voyeurism, large objects and. . .?

I switch on occasion if the chemistry is right and am open to CBT, pegging, sounding, and pretty much many of the other interests I’ve already outlined. In other words, I can take in what I dish out...

I have a wide variety of gear to add to the total ambience… Anything from mild to wild, as I do have a bit of a sadistic streak…

You? ...are sane and secure, clean and discrete. Enjoy some curves, but sorry- no extreme overweight. Prefer mature but will consider any age or race with a willingness to test your limits and maintain creativity with a certain degree of humor and humility. LOVE tats, piercings, ebony, goth and...

Limits will be respected but tested; also receptive to sexting. Because of scam efforts and ulterior motives of some responses I have received, I actually prefer meeting at a neutral location first in the general Milwaukee area although, yes, I can host...

Desires and Fantasies
My partner and I have explored plenty of things in the past including play dungeons, pet play, role playing etc. I've already explored plenty of fantasies, so just let me know what yours might be...

If you are looking for pay for play or if you’re a “” seeking s, move on… I have better things to spend my on including partners that are actually interested in something more LT and stable, and who actually play instead of yanking chains (rhetorically rather than literally)... If you’re looking for someone to send you or ***s sight unseen, well… while I appreciate you’re thinking that I was born yesterday, I wasn’t…

BDSM Play Partner30 to 70 years ● 50km around USA Milwaukee

Attached is my resume for your perusal.

Name: Shockr
Role application: Daddy

Age: 41
Height: 168cm ( 5'6" )
Length: 20cm ( 8" )
Width: 84cm (slim)
Depth: 'Like, totally deep, man.'
IQ: 137
BMI: 20
IPD: 6.3

Education:
College
School of life
Google

Key Skills:
Writing
Organising
Being silly
Making tea
Reading stories
Cleaning
Remembering names of stuffies
Cooking
Tech support
Being a perv
Opening jars
Grocery shopping
Praising good girls
Vacuuming
Fluffing kitties

Hobbies & Interests:
Sex
Camping
Videogames
We*D (420)
Music
Movies (including Pornhub)
All of the above + sex

Personal Description:

I should start by saying I am in a poly relationship with Sassy13. I'll chat with anyone, but ideally you would enjoy both our company.

I'm the type to ask you if I can make you tea or bring you something. I like cwtches ('cuddles' for non-Welsh folks), and kisses in the morning, all through the day, and saying 'Goodnight' is important. I like the little displays of affection and very much appreciate bedtime rituals etc
I have been told I have a very calm and soothing voice.
I like the DDlg dynamic because I'm a very caring person and get a lot out of rushing to your aid. I also get quite a kick out of being called 'Daddy' ;) (Not right off the bat, there needs to be chemistry)
With that said I'm probably not going to change a soiled nappy ('diaper' for the US folks). Likely more suited to a slightly bratty middle who likes to banter :P
I'm king of cheesy lines, dad jokes and gutter humor; I apologise in advance :D
I am very easy to talk to; I will literally talk to anyone. I'm cheeky, sarcastic, flirtatious and mischievous in reasonably equal measure. If I connect with you, I'll probably talk all night.
I'll want to get into your head. I love to have mementos; words, sounds, physical artifacts. Something that keeps me in your memory even when I'm not physically there. I need your mind to submit before your body ;)
I have an insane sex drive - someone once referred to me as 'hypersexual', which I took as a compliment :D I'd probably say sex is on my mind 75% of the time, with the other 25% being dedicated to trying not to think about sex. Keep up! Haha
Personally, I think foreplay and intimate contact throughout the day is very important, I'm an extremely tactile person. I love to build the tension until we snap and can't hold back.
"Sex at 10pm Wednesdays and Saturdays" does not work for me
Speaking of which, I am also a bit of a nightowl. At 2am I am probably at my PC gaming or smoking a blunt (420-friendly).

Previous Experience:
Aug21-Sept21: Daddy role - Mostly remote temporary contract
Online interaction with fast service level agreement. Several positive face-to-face visits.
Left role due to no prospects of progression

Mar14-May21: Unofficial Daddy role - Permanent on-site
Carried out all duties of home maintenance and personal support.
Left role due to conflicting work-ethic

Character References:
LittlePinkPanda [fetlife/users/739227]
"He once put his arm out to make sure I was protected from moving cars"

Cariad [fetlife/users/13329345]
"His voice is very Daddy like when he's talking. Calm, soft, its nice to listen to."

(For anyone still wondering if this is serious. You're probably going to struggle with my terrible sense of humour :P )

BDSM Play Partner24 to 40 years ● 50km around UK Cardiff

Translated into English using «Google Translate»:

Hello beautiful Mistress.
I can, at my own expense, come to any Mistress living in any country of the world for permanent or temporary residence in her country, provided that she provides me with housing and renders me all possible assistance for my successful adaptation in her country of residence.
If You can provide me with accommodation for my residence in Your country and want to meet with me, write to me and I will come to You. The longer You allow me to live in the housing provided by You, the higher the probability of our meeting will be.
You can not provide me with housing, but simply arrange a job for me in the country of your residence. In this case, the company-employer will provide me with corporate housing, as well as pay for my travel to the city where you live.

Now I would like to tell You a little about myself:
I am an amateur athlete who has set several world sports records, the full list of which is indicated at the end of this questionnaire. I also very rarely get sick (in the last 8 years I got sick only once).
My work fits in my laptop, so I can move freely around the world and live in Your country of residence for as long as You want.
Despite the fact that I have the means to come to You, I am still very limited financially and will not refuse any possible assistance from You regarding my arrival to You. If You agree to help me in my visit to You, please let me know how You can help me. Also, please let me know for how long You can provide me with accommodation and whether You charge a fee for the accommodation You provide. If You plan to charge for my accommodation in the accommodation You provided me, I will not be able to come to You.
Perhaps in the future I will not need to provide any assistance for my arrival to You, but at the moment - it is necessary.


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If you live in the territory of the "Cayman Islands", then this will facilitate our meeting, since I would like to get a Caribbean passport.

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My sports achievements I have set many world records.
Among them there are world records in exercises:
"Squats with a barbell of 60 kg for the number of repetitions in one approach";
“Squats with a barbell of 61.25 kg for the number of repetitions in one approach”;
“Squats with a barbell of 62.50 kg for the number of repetitions in one approach”;
“Squats with a barbell of 63.75 kg for the number of repetitions in one approach”;
"Squats with a barbell of 65 kg for the number of repetitions in one approach";
“Squats with a barbell of 66.25 kg for the number of repetitions in one approach”;
"Squats with a barbell of 67.5 kg for the number of repetitions in one approach";
"Squats with a barbell of 68.75 kg for the number of repetitions in one approach";
"Squats with a 70 kg barbell for the number of repetitions in one set."

I have broken one world record in the Guinness Book of Records. For the rest of the exercises, only non-official records were set and broken by me, the videos of which were searched for on various video hosting sites.
Unfortunately, due to lack of time, I was not able to film my latest achievements in sports. In this regard, at the moment, only my sporting achievements, which have long been outdated, are posted on the Internet, which, nevertheless, in the world, in my opinion, no one has yet surpassed. At the moment, I can do the exercises that are now posted on the Internet with much better results. (I will send You links to videos with my sporting achievements if You want.).
I also have good results in the exercise “Push-ups from the floor in a shortened amplitude” (I never filmed this exercise at all and there is not a single video on the Internet that would have filmed this exercise in my performance). I am progressing regularly and will most likely be able to set a world record in this exercise too (unless it takes me a lot of time to complete, which I have very little).
In the future, I plan to continue setting world sports records.

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