Why give her a Yoni Massage?

Yoni massage or yonic massage, derived from the word Yoni, a representation of the vulva, which comes from the Shakti word that means sacred place. The Yoni massage is a type of Tantric full-. It primarily focuses on the breasts, thighs, and stomach and then focuses on the labia, perineum, clitoris, G-spot, cervix or C-spot, A-spot, which is behind the G-spot, and other erogenous zones. When done right, this is a healing, theutic massage.


Women's bodies are so used to being understimulated, overstimulated, disregarded, shamed, and penetrated too quickly.

You get to give her the gift of bringing conscious intimacy to this beautiful part of her body and give her the opportunity to fully relax and receive intimate touch without needing to worry about judgment, performing, giving someone an orgasm, having an orgasm, or faking an orgasm...the gift of pussy massage is allowing her body to feel safe to be held, seen, surrendered, and to feel whatever she feels and to have whatever experience she needs to have.

Regular pussy massage can:

  • Help her get out of a performative mode in sex
  • Help her get out of her head and become relaxed and present with her sensations
  • (necessary for most women to have an orgasm)
  • Help to heal "I'm taking too long" syndrome
  • Open her up to new/unexplored sensations
  • Increase intimacy between partners
  • Help to release expectations of her body
  • Help to release any need for external validation
  • Help to heal a habit of faking orgasms
  • Release shame around the appearance of her vulva
  • Increase *** flow and circulation (important for natural wetness)
  • Increase sensitivity
  • Relax tight pelvic floor muscles, release tension and can help alleviate ***
  • Intensify orgasm
  • Reduce stress

    Sharing the purpose and/or benefits of Yoni pussy massage with your partner can help you both to ground into why you'd like to have this experience together. Kindly remind her that this massage does not require her body to have any response. She is not expected to appear aroused, to be wet, or to have an orgasm. It is for pure relaxation for her body to fully surrender and receive and feel whatever she needs to feel. Invite her to be present with her body and sensations and to communicate if she wants any changes to the pressure, sd, or touch type. Your role is to honor her body's every request without question or judgment. Lovingly inform her that you will ask permission before penetrating her with your finger(s) and that she is free to say no. Penetration is not a necessary part of this message.

    Set your intentions for the massage and the energy you're bringing with you. (ex. Total mental and physical relaxation; a chance to experience new kinds of sensual touch and sensations with no-pressure-to-perform [it is not about her having an orgasm]; creating a space for her to feel safe and surrendered in your loving hands, etc.)

    Not many women have had a Yoni massage. I have a massage table. I have four sensual messages:

    The Yoni massage which is focused on the front and builds up to the pussy massage. It is great for healing and making your pussy feel wanted and appreciated and even healing past sexual trauma. Also great, if you have issues reaching an orgasm, the Yoni can help; if you can't have multiple orgasms, the Yoni can help with that too.

    The Tantric massage starts with the back and a bigger total massage and ends with a shorter version of the Yoni, but I use a vibrator for g-spot orgasms. This has a lot of edging before I give the multiple orgasms, and if you feel comfortable, you can squirt. I have special absorbent flat pads.

    Chinese cupping massage I use vacuum cups on the back, and it leaves two rows of bruises from
    being pulled into the cups. I used to do fire cupping but my ex got the fire cups in our divorce. I now use vacuum cups which are more accurate and consistent. I also have cups for making nipples stand proud and a pussy pump cup that will fatten up your pussy, and swells with more liquid, and this makes your pussy more sensitive for sex toy play.

    The Velvet Wand massage, which is an electric device invented 100+ years ago, this tool and its attachments are fun, but a body mode where my hands become electric or your body becomes electrified. There are many metal tools in the Velvet Wand kit for teasing your tits and pussy with electricity, it sounds ***ful, but the power is fully adjustable and is incredibly erotic.

    These are all sensual and relaxing, but the Yoni can heal some sex trauma issues. I'm experienced with couples classes but not certified; there is no Yoni certification in the USA. I have done all of these many times. The Yoni is my favorite. But you can pick whichever you want.

    Would you like to meet first in a public place or better a BDSM munch with other kinky people. Where in Atlanta do you live? I do not travel. Just a zip code is fine, then I can suggest a local munch or a good place to meet. I will travel to munches and a first meet.

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BDSM Play Partner20 to 70 years ● 100km around USA Atlanta

I am Lynn well educated articulate secretary type like to take her hair down at night thoughtful we'll seek your best interests will tell you when you're wrong back you when you're right I seek strong minds and hands to Lead Me I am a blonde I like all sorts of activities I'm a student of life your interests are my interests from hanging out doing nothing to hiking biking travel I'm interested in any and all things from Kitchen quickies to midnight marathons I like to be tied up and controlled in the midst of Passions like sexual asphxia mostly I like people who know what they want and are not afraid to go out and do it I don't suffer fools gladly or wises sadly. i also speak gibberish and nonsense! Hey another thing I'm actually looking for a human being male female male female female male male male female couple odd straight even even space aliens will do I have a personality type that fits into any culture I took some personality tests and guess what my type of personality is like two to four percent in this nation for hyper creativity and by age four my kind they say was planning to write books poetry in particular and that's what I have published are we hardwired or not anyway have you got a good heart a good soul good manners and a lot of action and adventure or not action and blase Ness and I'm your girl actually the doc say I'm an androgen which means I have a nearly perfect left and right brain hemispheric activity going on in my Noggin so I am my own male I am my own female and I have my own saying which is the best of both worlds Without The either so I'm kind of like solitary as an oyster is Charles Dickens would say in A Christmas Carol but I get lonely I crave intellectual stimuli and fun and brain dead isms and all sorts of stuff so you're interested in my interests I like to learn I'm an educator everybody has a love language right so my love language is to share information and fellowship and hanging out doing nothing making peanut butter cookies writing midnight dervish dribble and whatnot so let's sit on the floor Friday night spread a blanket watch an old black and white movie and snuggle and I like to be controlled I make a good Lieutenant too yes I am a bit ditzy I'm spaced out and blonde so lead the way if you got the gumption if you're a willy-nilly no good if you're an idiot I won't have nothing to do with you because those type of people are energy suckers there are vampires that suck *** they are energy vampires to suck all sorts of energy out of you things thoughts Goods power space whatever so beware come rescue me I'm Marooned in a hick town out in the middle of Western Nebraska population 900 and the people here are thick and dense I I grew up near Chicago so I'm used to culture or the Kung Fu coach for 40 years trying to be an English professor so I'm a very literal and creative if you hang out with me I'll tell you my name you can look at my books on Amazon they'll scare you I use them for litmus tests and tell people to go look at a book and they never write back see people are shallow they're afraid of differentiation they like generic stuff that is just plain Dumb-o. I also discovered that being shy was just a stupid waste of time for the shy one and they miss out on life so I speak my mind I'm the fastest dumbass in the West actually the slowest I'm kind of slow-witted but I'm like a bulldog once I understand I hang on anyway feel free to ask me anything you would like I do a lot of editing so your questions will not surprise me I will bet you they're pretty standard because our educational system trains people to be skulls of numb you take care folks watch your souls there are soul vampires out there that'll steal you away who you are and what you have

BDSM Play Partner35 to 80 years ● 10km around USA Morrill
BDSM Play Partner150km around USA Dallas

I'm going to warn you now this might be quite a read.

Hello! My name is James and I am 30 years old and about six feet tall with brownish-black hair and brown eyes. I've been in love with the ABDL and DD/lg world for as long as I can remember. The most important aspect to me is taking care of someone precious, providing guidance and direction, and having fun with the "little" things in life.

If I can make you smile on a daily basis I will consider that a great day. My friends would consider me kind, caring, open-minded, and honest. I am an avid gamer and love games like Minecraft, Fallout, and even some awesome Japanese role-playing games. I am a huge dork and love strategy games like Magic the Gathering and Dungeons and Dragons.

For all you Disney lovers out there I know this might come as a shock but I have not seen a lot of Disney movies. I plan to patiently wait, looking forward to watching these with my future little and seeing the joy on her face as she watches them.

Some things I'm looking for in my future little:

Kitchen Mischief, doing things like baking cookies or having you be my little helper. AKA stirring and eating out of the bowl when I'm not looking. Ill of course make sure you're safe throughout.

Adventure Seeker, going on magical adventures to the park, through nature, or even playing pretend.

Story Listener, Someone I can read stories to each night.

Artist, I want a little I can get drawn pictures from and even hang them on the fridge because I think all little artwork is fridge worthy.

Potty Monster, We know the potty can be scary. I won't always be able to scare the potty monster away in time. So we may need to look at another protection method. I must state that I am into ABDL (Adult Baby Diaper Lover) meaning I would love to put my little into diapers.

The best way to look at it, when she is little I would love to be relied on for everything. While ABDL and DD/lg are a big part of what I'm looking for in a relationship, it's not everything.

I want somebody I can text and even talk to daily. I want to hear about your day and what's going on in your life. I want someone with a kind heart who will talk about what's on their mind, to share passions with.

If you have made it this far thank you I hope to hear from you and please even if you're not sure or are too shy. Please keep in mind I will respond to every message I get. Meeting new people can be difficult, I'm open to whatever you'd like to do. If you'd like we could just play a game, or you could show me your stuffies, we don't even have to chat about anything.

TL/DR;

PLEASE BE 18 + AND BE WILLING TO VERIFY

Daddy Seeking Little - Preferably between 22-30

I know it's long but I'd appreciate it if you read the entire post.

Looking for a Long Term Relationship, not just quick Roleplay

Kinky Date18 to 30 years Canada Brampton

Hi! I have a very high sex drive and adore women. I love foreplay and pleasuring women. I am well endowed and have been complimented a lot on my sexual abilities.
I have had several long term partners in the past and prefer that to quick hookups. I am not looking for something deep and meaningful at the moment just someone to have long term fun with. But who knows where that will lead.
I like exploring someone sexually and find it mentally fulfilling as the more you know someone the more I can excite them and turn them on easier. I think sex and orgasms are more mental than physical so until you are in someones head you cannot get that fulfilment.
Once I know someone I love using that knowledge to orgasm them over and over. I get a kick out of finding out those buttons and spots that I can play with to excite someone. Its a lot more pleasurable for me to orgasm with someone who is already very excited. Feeling a tight wet pussy orgasming on my cock is such a turn on.
If you both haven't got wobbly legs by the time you have finished then something has gone wrong.
Dont get me wrong it doesn't have to be full on every time, the odd quicky or grope on the sofa is good, but also I like to make sure I press ALL the buttons quite frequently.
I do have quite a high sex drive and I hope I can can find someone to match. I think this has not helped in past relationships where I have more needs than my partner. I am not upset about having to sort myself out occasionally but some women feel like this is not acceptable. I love foreplay and especially giving erotic massages. I have very warm and healing hands and love rubbing soft warm naked skin.
I dont have many donts. I am very keen to try new things and love mixing up positions, but I always do come back to my favourite as doggy. I get so much pleasure from that. I get so much depth and control.
Anyway enough about me waffling on. I would love to hear from you. I am very open honest and easy going. Please drop me a line and I will reply. xx
PS. I have a goatee. Reading a few profiles I guess its a marmite thing. If it did come to it I can shave it off! I would sooner have a sex partner than a goatee! :-/
For reference. I have my own teeth, my own hair, I own a car and house, I shower at least once a day and like to dress and smell nice. I have a 7 inch cock that I find the perfect size to reach all those important places.

BDSM Play Partner40 to 60 years ● 10km around UK Nottingham

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