Graduate on Fetish.com

Hi, lovely to meet you.

I always find introductions a bit awkward, but here we go. I’ve been a submissive for nearly six years now—honestly it’s a little terrifying to write that out loud, and I’ll save the existential crisis that comes with it for another time. What it does mean is that I’ve had enough experience to know myself, what I want, and the kind of connection I’m hoping to build with someone.

Ideally, I’m looking for a female-led relationship—something built on trust, communication, and the kind of dynamic where power exchange enriches rather than replaces the relationship. That said, I’m completely open to exploring one-off play sessions if that’s more what you’re looking for going in. At this point, I’ll be honest: I’m a bit tired of the search. Dating in general can feel exhausting, and trying to find something meaningful as a submissive guy adds an extra layer of difficulty that can be pretty discouraging at times.

I won’t go too deep into kinks right here since that’s definitely a conversation better had in DMs, but my top five are bondage, ***d orgasms, face sitting, marking, and nipple play. These are the areas I naturally gravitate toward and where I feel most at home. I’m also curious about exploring more—like eventually losing my anal virginity at some point, though that’s definitely a discussion for later and not something I’m rushing into. I’m also very interested in trying hypnosis as a kink, particularly the kind that blends relaxation, surrender, and trust. At the end of the day, what I really want is the experience of losing control in a way that feels safe and cared for.

As far as preferences go, I don’t have a huge checklist of requirements. The most important things to me are that the person I’m talking to enjoys the kinds of dynamics and kinks I’m into and is roughly around my age. Chemistry is a two-way street, and it’s nice to know if we tick each other’s boxes.

Outside of kink, I’ve been told I have that “hyperactive golden retriever” energy. I’m passionate—sometimes overwhelmingly so—about the things I love. I recently finished my degree in game design, which has been a huge part of my life for the past few years. I play guitar, and I’m currently bartending while looking for a graduate job. I’m always drawn to people who have creative or nerdy interests of their own. In terms of music, I’m pretty flexible—anything from classic rock like The Beatles to heavier bands like Avenged Sevenfold sits firmly in my library.

At the end of the day, I’m looking for someone who cares, someone confident and commanding, someone who’s excited to take the lead. I’ve been in a few relationships where the dynamic expectations didn’t match, often with partners who were also submissive, and it just didn’t work. I’m hoping to finally find something that fits.

I’ve done plenty of online dynamic work, and I’ve had a couple of professional sessions, so if you’re wondering whether I know how to serve—yes, I do.

Thank you for reading. Please feel free to reach out in dms. I'll try to reply asap.
Have a wonderful day.

Hi all, new to this site and have never thought about reaching out to other's that might share similar interests.

Local Cal Poly graduate, living in Santa Maria, and would love to chat, coffee, online communicate with you.

I’m 22 recently graduated With my GED going into I.T, live in Monroe, MI, USA, currently don’t drive but learning, can be picked up or dropped off whenever but can’t hang at my place, love to drink, smoke, play games(cards, board/dice games, outside games, video games) go for walks, listen to music n sing, loveee to ride ur face if u let me, and then u can have me however u want however long u want whenever u want for however long u get me😜 On birth control in my arm which I have to tested for every other month so we goood, let’s do anything you want! HMU! (I’m pretty wild I like most stuff and even couples of any kind)

Hi, I'm a 22 year old college student in Boston looking to, hopefully, find a monogamous long-term relationship with a caring woman. Let's take a walk through the common, grab some lunch, or do your favorite activity.

About me:

5'10" Blond hair and blue eyes with a bit of a dad-bod (185 lbs). From the South End.

I'm really a big nerd and a homebody. I bring teddy-bear energy everywhere I go: incredibly huggable/snuggleable, calming and grounding, playful, amiable, very go with the flow. I enjoy a playful, affectionate dynamic.

I love Marvel, video games, and I recently joined a ttrpg group that I'm enjoying. My current read is the 4th book in the ACOTAR series, though I'm not very far in so no spoilers. I like to play video games; primarily Destiny 2, Borderlands, and Pokemon. Trying new restaurants is one of my fav activities. Hear me out, beach vacations >> exercise or tour-intensive vacations. I'm also an engineering major going into my final year of college, hoping to work at a medical device company when I graduate (fingers crossed); ask me which companies I'm looking at because they're really cool. I have two older s, two older brothers, two brother's in law, one in law, and three niblings; so family holidays are big, noisy, and amazing. I don’t have a car.

I would love to serve my woman for that sweet reward of the smile on her face and getting to know that I'm hers. I want to be the one who helps you decompress after a long day. Let me bring your morning coffee, do your laundry, keep you company while running errands, and be your excuse for an Irish goodbye.

STD-free. Occasional drinker. I've never smoked cigarettes and I stopped smoking weed this year.

About you:

Preferably 20-32 years old. No particular type with regard to appearance. I'm looking for someone more date-oriented, as I'm wanting to pursue a long-term relationship.

I'm especially attracted to nerds, gamers, introverts, and other homebodies. While I enjoy exploring, I love retreating back home together and enjoying each other's company. Having similar hobbies and/or hobbies that you enjoy bringing other people into is definitely a big plus. I tend to text a lot throughout the day, so it would be great to find somebody who likes frequent communication.

What I'm looking for in a relationship:

Take initiative and make first moves. Ask me out, take my hand, and kiss me first. I would love to feel pursued, but I'll be putting in an equal effort as well. Take me to a nice dinner and flirt with me until I'm flustered. I love cuddling together on the couch and letting you be the big spoon as you run your hands through my hair. Spoiling me would definitely be a bonus, but not required.

Caring and affectionate vibes are what I'm looking for.

If I sound like someone you'd be interested in then send me a message, we can exchange photos, and see if meeting each other is in the cards for us.

I graduated from HS in 03 then joined the Corp. Ask me anything you want to.

Ladies...... Are u a deviant like me? Been accused of perversity in the past? Do u have secret fantasies of a forbidden , taboo nature? Are your panties currently soaking wet with lustful aroma? No? Yes? IDK? Well then let me help! Professor perv here from the U of P, ( the University of Perversity). Graduated au cum laude, aka ( large cum load ). I'm currently seeking a new good time girl for my own free use. A hot lil fuck toy for daddy to love! A devoted, deviant, obedient lil subby slut to keep daddy happy. Does this sound like you? Would u b a good fit for this special sub role? I'm taking applications currently and interviewing right away. Interested? Then please, contact me (professor perv) for an experience u can't forget!
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Hi I just wanna be in love, but I'm really a sub and it's hard to date monogamously within that sphere. I love to play guitar, and I'm entering graduate school to become a nurse practitioner.
Feel free to dm me on
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snap - joshrao11
Or ***m - vanhailin

Hello! I am new to this app and I am not sure how seriously people take this app.
I am not looking for any casual hook-ups.

I am looking to enter into a dom/sun dynamic. I am in a school currently and working a ton so for the next year I have time on weekends and through phone. Looking to build with someone during that time until I graduate and hopefully could turn into a 24/7 dynamic.

I am a lesbian, no men

I am looking for a dom who is decisive, caring, confident, and who is also searching for an emotional bond.

I am in to

Impact play
Cnc
Cnc breeding
Ownership
Praise
Ddlg
Sucking strap
Discipline

Being pinned down

I think about the people that interest me all day and I feel like if they don't contact me once a day that I should do so at the end of the day. I don't like to think I'm needy but I'm actually interested in the person. What do you think?


I’m not as active as I used to be or would love to be after so many health challenges, coming out better and healthier but age has it scars. I still love to go fishing and golfing sometimes walks and traveling but not much. I’d rather stay indoors, cook good meal and have my neighbors, old friend or family around. I do read and love to watch movies although not as much as before.

I am sincere, loyal, honest, and affectionate. Integrity is important. I don't like to wear shoes. If you don't keep an eye on me, I will sleep all night. Chocolate is my best friend. I love Sheridan’s coffee layered Wine makes me silly. I love public affection I believe every relationship is fragile and will wither away if left unattended.

I went to college but was distracted by fun. I had ADHD and didn't realize it for over 60 years. I am past my 'mid-life crisis. Ambitious, career and agenda-oriented people are boring. Don't let marriage destroy your love. If I were to win the lottery, I would head up the largest Bull Terrier Rescue in the world. I believe in God! I don't believe you have to go to church to be a follower. I believe you can graduate from as many colleges as you choose, and you will never learn 'common sense'. A person with no 'common sense is handicap. I don't want to blindly follow a President or anyone. I think anyone that hated their childhood needs a hug. I am the 2nd of two ***, often called the 'baby' of the family. I believe it is expected of one to love and take care of yourself first. I got a 'D' in math in high school, yet I spent my adult life working in the accounting and logistics industry . I love driving from one coastal town to another. I love that I live in one of the most beautiful places inside the US. I brush my teeth after I have my morning coffee & breakfast. That's part of getting dressed to embrace the coming day. I don't have any cavities, but I do have implants. (Gives me that enduring smile.) I used to have brown hair. I think futons are funny. I don't like disco. I've just discovered time alone and I embrace it. Skydiving is for birds. My hair is more like silver. When I love there are no boundaries. I need special attention. I like to be spoiled. We're all equals(but everyone has their role). We're all special. Dogs are my passion.


I am usually on the quiet side, but I could also be a big ball of energy. On weekends I enjoy visiting different state parks, antique shopping, just being outdoors(although not as much as I would love to). You can usually catch me in a friends backyard waiting for something good to come off the grill.

Hi I’m a 21 year old student (about to graduate though 🫠)

I am looking too meet new likeminded people

I can drive and I am willing to travel after building a connection

I am open to a LTR however more short term is okay too

I have experience as a dom, a daddy dom, and as a caregiver. I have some experience with petplay, and have switched in the past.


Kinks can be discussed after getting to know each other a little.


My hard limits are:

Incest

There will probably be more limits that I don’t know yet of course

If you’re interested and want to know more pm me

I am a sincere gentleman—partly trained in submission—seeking a sophisticated Goddess to cherish, worship, and (perhaps) help him finish his practical education.

I have completed Undergraduate Studies in Male Submission with prior partners and am applying for Graduate Training. I hope those studies (assuming a mutual fit with Goddess/Teacher) may yield a Residency in Female-Led Relationships.

In the ideal situation, this would lead to a lifetime of Loving Dominance through service, adoration, and submission (with often naughty encouragement and correction).

Specific kinks, curiosities, broader interests, skills, and education are available upon request.

I give humble thanks for Your attention to this announcement😘.

Howdy! My name is Rick, recently graduated from A&M and diving into that 9-5 life. Hope you are all doing well and if my profile interests you please send me a message, I'd love to chat more and maybe meeting some of you in the future! Appreciate your time reading my message/profile and hope you have a wonderful day!