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Hey all! This is my first time on FET. Although I’ve been curious for years, I’ve been doing a lot of self work and personal growth to help me isolate what I’m hoping to find. I’d love to meet more dominant types to explore my sub self. Kind, antiracist, anti patriarchal, radical, consent aware, communicative types. I’m open to bondage, discipline, flogging, shibari and learning more.

All women have their own unique characteristics that I find attractive so its hard to list what Im looking for in potential lover, so Im going to be vague for now. Basically Im looking for a woman, Dom or Sub, I characterize my self as a switch, that likes the outdoors, especially fishing or camping, and is freaky enough to toss her fishing pole aside and put my pole inside. Someone who tells me to pull into a random side road because she wants a quickie before we get wherever we were headed. Im looking for an outdoor running buddy that is freaky AF! Ive never been with someone who can match my energy in the bedroom so a high sex drive and a willingness to go after what she wants should be added to the list of personality triats my ideal match would possess! I dont know if a woman like that exists but if she does, I hope we cross paths sooner rather than later!

Got a self made Gloryhole at home I need to try out. Any takers?

I’m drawn to submissives who understand that surrender begins in the mind.
If you value communication, consent, and trust as much as the dynamic itself, we’ll already have common ground. I appreciate subs who are curious, self-aware, and capable of expressing needs and boundaries just as clearly as desires.
I don’t rush dynamics. I prefer learning how you think, what steadies you, what excites you, and what makes you feel safe enough to let go. Power, to me, is earned through consistency, patience, and presence—not volume.
Whether you’re experienced or still discovering your submissive side, what matters most is honesty and emotional intelligence. Obedience is sweeter when it’s offered freely, not expected.
If you’re a submissive who enjoys structure, intention, and a slow-building pull, say hello. Let’s see if the tension feels mutual

TL;DR: Sassy, and at your service

Greetings, traveler,

I only stepped out of the hypno fetish closet and into true mental manipulation early last year; with that said, I have had a lifelong affliction of hypno-horniness that has led to reading, role-play, and regret of never exploring a foundational part of my sexuality. The majority of my relationships have been female-led, but if you find yourself intrigued don't hesitate to reach out.

Interests I would like to explore
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• IQ play with a bubbly persona, a loss of the perception of time, contentment, and a fuzzy awareness
  

• I pride myself on my skills of deduction, and the idea of the use of amnesia triggers to create a sense of confusion and mystery is highly alluring.
  

• Conditioning over a period of time; I find the idea of playing with my sense of self like a form of edgeplay, and with my fascination with fictional characters who take on multiple identities, I would love some true roleplay.
  

• I have always enjoyed a good brat taming experience; ergo, resistance play where there is a gradual...or sudden loss of control is something that I find myself fantasizing about often.
  
  Outside of hypnosis I have a gluttonous love of horror media and would like to see what really scares me, my reactions, and play with that loss of control.
  
  A combination of a humorous gift and how I've received affection in the past has instilled a curiosity in pet play and the sensations that come with that.
  
  What I enjoy in a hypnotist
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  Someone with an equally vivid imagination, a storyteller who loves to use the theater of the mind to become a director of a scene and enjoys collaboration
  
  Voices that create resonance by playing with cadence, pitch, and tone
  
  Deviously minded but with kindness, kind of like a double chocolate habanero cookie.
  
  Clever wordplay; I enjoy a flowing use of language layered with suggestion.
  
  Boundaries

  
  I'd like to establish a rapport and trust, allowing the dynamic to be organic.
  
  It goes without saying: respect. I fully intend on being kind and empathetic, and I'd like to hope the same.
  
  If you are an active listener, wickedly creative, don't mind working with someone new to exploring the edges of experience, and you don't mind a little whimsy, you may absolutely DM me.

Can I edge you? It's what I would ask when we're in the heat of the moment, as a pleasure Dom I enjoy watching you and hearing the noises you make while my hands are massaging your vulva area with warm lube, dim lighting and soft music. When was the last time a man told you to lay back and enjoy? A while? A lot of selfish men out there, who wants to come and have some fun? And be edged for a good hour, trust me, you're in good hands 🌹

Hey there, potential Sir/Daddy,
Mature (55) southwest Michigan sissy Isabella Renee seeking a firm, caring Dominant/Top for long-term ownership and training.
6'1", chubby, smooth below waist (weekly shave), always in panties/bralette under clothes. Locked full-time in nub cage, plugged daily with medium-to-large toys (including thrusting/rimming ones). Super-sensitive swollen nipples from constant suction toys—leak puddles from nipple + plug play alone.
Deep into chastity, denial, bondage (full leather cuffs, collars, arm binders, spreader bar), and daily self-spanking (100+ strikes capable). Crave real discipline, oral training, and deep anal use. Limited real cock experience but addicted to swallowing and desperate for more.
Hard limits: , urine, , breath play, public outings near home. Pics/video OK (confidential, copies for me—especially “firsts”).
Willing to travel (Kalamazoo/GR area OK). Safe, sane, discrete, live alone.
Ready to kneel, serve, and obey immediately. Newer Doms welcome—I’ll help build your confidence with total submission.
Message if you want a devoted, cock-hungry sissy to own, train, and use. I can't host, but can travel, anything over 40 miles is gonna have to be something special
~ Isabella Renee 💕

My kinks are rooted in trauma. Yes, I've done therapy etc and lead a perfectly normal life but like everyone here, have kinks and fetishes. I'd like to find someone I western/central PA who their own sadism to exercise or is a switch who wants to explore her self with someone. I know I'm probably just some other guy here in your eyes but I'm hoping there's someone nearby who has their own fucked up needs and a strong desire to explore.

Please DM if Interested

Looking for a connection. Like minded friendship. Someone who is a good boy private and gentleman at day and to play in the car on a rainy dark steaming hot (cold) night.

Must love to eat pussy and ass. Not selfish must be a pleaser.

Man in his early forties seeking a self-aware woman who enjoys altered headspace, slow anticipation, and the kind of intimacy that unfolds when trust is already established. I’m drawn to shared journeys—heightened senses, deep eye contact, dissolving edges—and the magnetic pull that follows when chemistry is allowed to build without *** or hurry. Discretion, clear consent, and emotional intelligence are essential; curiosity and experience are welcome. I value connection that lingers, bodies that respond instinctively, and encounters where surrender feels natural rather than asked for. If you know the difference between chasing sensation and letting it take you, we may be aligned.

Pretty self explanatory. Preferably with an attractive kinky bdsm friendly man in or near my area (West Valley) and ASAP today!

I am looking for a RP partner!

Three different scenarios:

1.) Self Defense Class - we can decide who is the instructor and who is the one in the protective suit

2.) Psych Nurse - We can decide who is the patient and who is the nurse

3.) Quarantine/Isolation Nurse - We can decide who is the patient and who is the nurse

Self explanatory hmu

I’m interested in someone curious, self-aware, and unhurried. Someone who appreciates subtle power, emotional safety, and tension that builds rather than explodes.
You don’t need to be loud to be interesting—you notice moments, pauses, and presence. You’re open to being guided by someone calm enough to wait and attentive enough to listen.
If psychological connection, trust, and deliberate pacing matter to you, we’ll likely understand each other.

Looking for someone geeky and nerdy who isnt afraid of their naughty self.

Looking for a cute submissive girl to live out some CnC fantasies with and some free use scenarios. Please be self assured and open minded.

The head line is pretty self explanatory. I want him to wrap his arms under my thighs and hold my wrists while he takes me with his tongue, edging me until I am a trembling puddle. While holding my wrists so that I cant run when he stops teasing and ***s me to cum over and over with his tongue before letting me cum on that dick.

Sapiosexual. Sapphic. Intentional. 🙂‍↕️🙂‍↕️

I’m interested exclusively in experienced Dommes who are leaders in their own lives. Confidence without insecurity. Authority without chaos. Structure backed by self-discipline and emotional maturity.

If dominance is a title to you, this won’t work.
If it’s a responsibility you already carry, let’s talk.🤌🏽

I’ve been really getting into chastity play and being my submissive self. Would love to have a dominant woman make fun of my cock while I’m locked up for their pleasure

Greetings,
I appreciate those patient enough to read my ad fully, as I write this completely sincerely.

I sit here in my room, post Christmas celebration with friends and chosen family. I'm sober, not horny, and have a sense of clarity after a deep conversation with a dear friend.

I'm 5 years into my transition, 5 years of wild experiences and learning to love every aspect of myself, even the hard to love parts. I'm sick of mulling over and debating the ramifications vs rewards of what I truly want, I have a near-complete understanding of who I am and what I want, and I feel good about taking the next steps into what I want and who I want to be.

I crave submission in the aspect of being able to follow someone's instructions and requests to a T.

I was recently told, in a completely vanilla snd non-sexual context, to find something nice to wear and show up at an address. It felt natural to follow orders without thinking about it. Partially because I trust the person completely, partially because I find great purpose in serving.

So let me serve you.

I can cook, clean, create, and run errands. I will learn to please you in all the ways you enjoy, and take notes of what makes you especially happy, whether it be the way you like your coffee or a particular way you like being touched.

I'm searching for a Dominant person (or persons if the vibe is right) with a genuine desire for a long-term, subservient submissive.
I'm asking that you treat me well, are firm, kind, creative, and stable, and enjoy kink as much as I do. A mentor or guardian role is welcome, but not necessary. I'm not looking for equality here.

Kink is something that's becoming more important to me as I consider what I want out of a relationship.
I crave the general D/s vibes, but have specifics that I would like to have be aspects of our relationship. These include:

Bondage (from tied wrists to full binding suits)
Chastity (it simultaneously makes me calmer and hornier)
A ruleset and reward//punishment system
Clear communication
Aftercare for all parties
Free Use (within the agreements of the relationship)
Uniforms or other clothes/gear marking me in a role
Mutual fantasy fulfillment
In 2026, I have goals of self-care, self-love, and modifying my body, wardrobe, and lifestyle to match who I am. Help and cheerleading will be more than welcome in my goals, and I hope to give the same to you!

If you've gotten this far and are interested, feel free to shoot me a message request. Please be open, write with intent, and be clear and sure about what you want and who you are.
Thank you for your consideration. 🩷

I am looking for a dominant, well kept, and knowledgeable older male who has a desire to teach their wisdom in the world of kink. I can be shy and my new years goals are to fully come into my body and my senses. Complete exploration of the self.

This is not a hook up ad or an offer for a one night stand, I crave a dynamic that gets built through trust and respect.

Real, virtuous messages only.

Must be queer or at least open to play with individuals who don’t line up with a binary gender performance.