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Kinky Male Submissive seeks assertive Mistress for ongoing discreet sexual relationship. Please let me know what you feel and contact me on roger.perry49@*** for further information and photos please.

So… I am writing this because a lot of people seem to be confused with…let’s call it “The inner workings” of
B.D.S.M. ( not here of course, just in general)...
Bdsm and M/s are separate things, M/s may or may not contain elements of bdsm.
The bdsm community outnumber the True M/s people by a huge amount.
True M/s couples (or groups) are not that common.
They appear common because bdsm people mostly believe that M/s is a part of bdsm.
And bdsm people often, in fact usually blur the distinction between M/s and Dom/sub.
They throw around terms such as slave and Master like candy but those words are like the word love to me and should never just be thrown around.
Mostly, they do not understand (or accept) slave, as property.
In the bdsm world most activities revolve around “scenes”
This is where the term slave gets *d, people always used to use the term submissive which is the correct term, but the word slave seems to be in fashion. Something that people don’t understand the totality of the word slave.
Now in True M/s lives, the slave gives permission and consent to her/his Master when the slave is collared.
Therefor the Master never needs consent again.
However, many in the bdsm world won’t understand or appreciate this.
They also mostly won’t appreciate that the slave is Master’s property and He can do anything He so wishes, so ** and **** are largely mute points.
Because for it to be real, there cannot be any limits.
Sex, massage, dancing, seduction etc.
She always looks and smells divine.
A true slave weaves the essence of love, honor, high ideals, and strong desire to grow spiritually in these areas…as well as all aspects in life. It is well to see how the Master describes this subject. To Honor…To Love…High Ideals…And a strong Desire to grow Spiritually…Are not only how the Master describes this subject…But is the reason why Master…is…Master…
But everyone must take responsibility for their own reality. It is an art, and as such requires not only study and practice but also the inspiration and the love-hate relationship all artists have with their craft.
Through experience of Master’s…They can tell you what the two trademarks are of all True women are:

• The ability to laugh, even at the worst horrors…And…

• The ability to throw jargon out the door and discern the heart of every matter while never taking any matter too seriously.
The simple reason for these abilities is that by actually doing Your own reality and actually experiencing the magickal universe instead of merely reading about it, these abilities are automatically developed.
T/they should be overjoyed with T/their common connection…W/we all recognize the potential that results in the formation of this union…it is merely the beginning of something new…
T/they should be empowered by T/their sexual Magick…and though it transforming into the beginning of who T/they should be…The Beauty of the connection that is so Strong…no Limits…total Trust…above all Loyalty… Did You all read that?? Above All Loyalty… If Master and slave can not be loyal then it is Not a true M/s relationship, it is Dom/sub relationship. A M/s relationship is stronger than Any Marriage anywhere on Earth and should be treated as such! It is a lifetime commitment! That is why there are only a handful of “True” M\s relationships in the world!
Everything in balance.
A True slave should trust in her intuition and nurture her environment of deep devotion, patience, and intense passion…sometimes in silence…
Master and slave together set the standards for which direction they want their life to go.
The slaves’ opinion is always listened to by Master; but in the end the slave knows that His decision is Final.
Every Master strives for “the slave that comes willingly on bended knee” that His slave learns to just pick up on these things over time and doesn’t have to be told or punished anymore.
Its understanding more than just sex, its learning about each other

I want to give myself a birthday party, and have never celebrated one before, even as a kid.
I never really wanted one when I was older, then realized I was robbing myself of a nice celebration of life.

So as I've embarked my life path of sexual exploration, and being good to myself and loving myself more. I want to experience a FFM or something of the nature.

I'm honestly not sure how this thing goes, or works, probably why I'm doing this as a post.
The initiating and finding interested people part is where I fall short in knowledge.

I'm really just looking for friends and learning more on what type sub I am,. While I'm on here I'm not gonna actively look for someone but I am open to a relationship.
im a sapiosexual, also a demi-sexual age range for me personally depends on the person. So from 19+

~Looking for a little/pet/ sub~
Heyoo names dabs I’m looking for a little/pet/sun to take care of and game with and over all spend time with this is my first time making a long post like this let’s see how this goes

A bit about my self
Name~dabs (gov name can be discussed in dms)
Age~level 19 👾
Gender~ male
Sexuality~straight
Hight~ (5,7 if that matters)
Kinks~ way to long of a list lol but can be discussed in dms just ask

Hobbies
I am a gamer play a lot of fps games but getting more in to the mmo rpg typ scene (very new to it ) my main games at the moment are : destiny 2, Minecraft, Diablo. That’s all I can think of atm I am a part time strimmer I love to Cook and bake in my free time sometimes you will catch me making some random recipes when I’m really hungry ( and have the munchies)
If I still have your attention i am a lil bit of a stoner 🤭 but anyways I also love the outdoors and camping and nature (even tho im a homebody love my bed )

What im looking for
I’m looking for a little/pet/sub to care for honestly and form some type of dynamic over time. Preferably (afab) or a cis- female. One thing to note I am poly and I’m hoping to create a dynamic or relationship with someone who is also poly ( also preferably someone in the same time zone EST and in the state) BONUS POINTS if your in Florida

PS ( if your read this far here’s a cookie )

Looking for LTR with like minded woman. With an unquenchable zet for Life and sex, I have learned that giving is more pleasurable than self interest. I like to explore the roles in sub and dom liaisons. I am experienced in sexual matters and been complimented on my oral technique often. I treat people with respect and consideration with out exception, recognising that we are all woderful, lovable, ***, frail and fallible.

I am an honest, respectful and open-minded guy looking for friendship, deep connections and on-going fun with someone who wants to take the time to build a relationship. Must desire wanting to grow and explore mentally, sexually and spiritually (not religious).

I have a number of hobbies/interests including movies, tv, cars, motorcyles, gardening, travel, and geeky tech stuff like home automation, home theater, 3D printing, airbrushing and hand-***ting.

Feel free to reach out to me and let's start a conversation!

I'm 36 m donegal I don't get many much attention but would love to gain some experience because I have very little sexual experience and would like some fun so open to chat with anyone interested and explore kinks. I am submissive.Thanks.

I’m a mommy dom looking for a new sub I’m a traditional dom so sexual acts provided

Very private person who is looking for a very private sexual experience

Hi, I am seeking something real and realistic. A relationship, preferably LTR, with a dominant woman where we can share all kink and vanilla interests. In person, face to face. Old school. I am a bit old fashioned, very monogamous, still believe in chivalry.
I am notlookingforsomeonetodospecificthingsto me. I am looking for someone who shares similar interests. I am not interested in changing myself
or who I am, and I am not interested in someone changing who they are, or compromising, for me. I am, however, open minded and am open to exploring and growing. But I won't compromise my hard limits and boundaries, just as I would never expect or ask you to compromise yours. if I haven't mentioned a specific interest of yours, feel free to ask. I am open and honest, feel free to ask me anything.
I am a sub. Not a slave. I am very comfortable with who I am. While I am happy to learn, adapt, and grow. I will not change who I am or what I am looking for.
As already mentioned, I am seeking realistic. I have interests outside of kink. I have dogs. I have a serious soft spot for rescues. If you share this interest, that would be fantastic. Living as a gimp in a cage until needed, is entirely unrealistic.
I am not desperate. I will not chase you if you are not interested, or we are not compatible. I'm looking for a mutually beneficial relationship where we both want the same things, reasonably. I will not try to something that was never going to work.
I am more than happy to answer questions, clarify, or even just exchange ideas. Feel free to contact me, and if it wasn't meant to be, then it wasn't meant to be. But at least we'll know.

I am a masculine and muscular sub male with a special interest in chastity. I don't have any interest in feminization or being a sissy. Not judging others, just being honest. If that is what you seek, I wouldn't be a good match for you. I seek someone who enjoys the control chastity gives as them much as I enjoy being controlled.
I am emotionally and physically strong. I am not submissive because I am weak, I choose submission because I have been drawn to dominant women since as long as I can remember. I am not a beta anything. I am not a sub because I am weak. I choose submission. I do not choose the submissive role with just anyone. I choose submission when I am with a dominant woman who inspires my submission. One who I am comfortable enough with to offer my submission to. Those who know me, but not this side of me would be shocked that I am submissive. So that leads to the next submissive cliche. I am not worthless, useless or have a weak character. Why anyone would want someone who is worthless is beyond me. I'm not a worthless sub, I seek to be a valued sub. My words may say this, but my actions will prove it.
I pursue a healthy lifestyle, am active, am at the gym at least 3 days a week. No , no smoke at all, rarely drink. I make an effort to keep healthy, but am not fanatical at all.
I am intelligent, creative, witty, and have a great sense of humor.
I am very functional and very sexual, my interest in chastity is control. I do not use chastity to mask any physical issues. I enjoy pleasing my partner and I enjoy long term arousal. And a woman who truly enjoys that control is incredibly exciting.
And being someone who believes in actions over words, chastity is proof that I am 9nly interested in one woman when you have been given my keys. I always hated the infidelity questions if I worked late, of was at the gym longer that normal. Steel chastity, pa piercing, says devoted to one as strongly and confidently as possible.
I am experienced in short term denial as well as long term denial and am ready for whatever you decide or desire. I do really enjoy a sexually selfish dominant woman. The control is very addictive, especially if she enjoys it as much as I do. I feed off of the energy of the one I'm with. If you feel guilty, I feel guilty. If you are excited, I am excited. I want you to be comfortable with your control and enjoy it. So that you find as much fulfillment as I do.

I have several stainless steel devices and am secured with a pa piercing. You hold complete control when you hold the key. And as this is completely consensual, you are free to enjoy and explore your control. And enjoy it. My pleasure is derived from your pleasure. The more you enjoy things, the more I do.
I am a moderate masochist. I have many years of experience in bdsm, and I love bondage and (moderate, but eager to explore) ***. Again, it's the control. But chastity a way to feel bondage and control day and night. Without being a burden on you. Everyday, all day control. It is fun when I forget about it, but am reminded by the unforgiving steel. All day long, at different times, I am reminded of my keyholder. I love that snap back to reality that the control is very real.
With masochism, like chastity, I feed off the energy of the one I'm with. The more you enjoy it, the more I do, and the more my tolerance goes up.
I want to be well rounded. If you feel light and sensual, if you feel hard and heavy, light tease, intense tease, or are not in the mood. My wish is to be available for whatever you need. I seek to improve your life, not complicate it.

I am in Southern California, I have houses in Palm Springs and Big Bear Lake. I can escape the heat and the cold as needed. While I love splitting my time between the desert and the mountains, and would love even more to find someone to share all this with. I would be open to relocation to the right location. Hit me up if you want to know more.

Somewhere there is a submissive or a slave that wants a dominant man that is calm and confident outside of the bedroom and deliciously strict and disciplinary inside. I am only interested in LTR/marriage. I have a high IQ, a high income, high moral standards, high physical standards for myself and my slave and I am a high profile leader in my industry. When I come home you should be eager to show affection and please me sexually.
I am open to brats, littles, pets, slaves.. I want my natural dominance to quench your thirst for being loved and controlled. You will not need to work outside of the home. We will practice TPE and 24/7.

I am open to all races. I can visit you and relocate you from anywhere in the world. I know I am a unicorn and my standards are high and won't change. I am happy to train the right candidate.

Our life together will include travel philanthropy volunteering to help people in need. Secretly I will tease you, *** you, humiliate, discipline, dominate, and gratify you incessantly.

New to the scene and wanted to see what’s out there. She is very bi curious and want to explore her sexuality with another woman. We are very real and located in SW Missouri. Let’s get together and see what happens. 420 friendly

I am Lynn well educated articulate secretary type like to take her hair down at night thoughtful we'll seek your best interests will tell you when you're wrong back you when you're right I seek strong minds and hands to Lead Me I am a blonde I like all sorts of activities I'm a student of life your interests are my interests from hanging out doing nothing to hiking biking travel I'm interested in any and all things from Kitchen quickies to midnight marathons I like to be tied up and controlled in the midst of Passions like sexual asphxia mostly I like people who know what they want and are not afraid to go out and do it I don't suffer fools gladly or wises sadly. i also speak gibberish and nonsense! Hey another thing I'm actually looking for a human being male female male female female male male male female couple odd straight even even space aliens will do I have a personality type that fits into any culture I took some personality tests and guess what my type of personality is like two to four percent in this nation for hyper creativity and by age four my kind they say was planning to write books poetry in particular and that's what I have published are we hardwired or not anyway have you got a good heart a good soul good manners and a lot of action and adventure or not action and blase Ness and I'm your girl actually the doc say I'm an androgen which means I have a nearly perfect left and right brain hemispheric activity going on in my Noggin so I am my own male I am my own female and I have my own saying which is the best of both worlds Without The either so I'm kind of like solitary as an oyster is Charles Dickens would say in A Christmas Carol but I get lonely I crave intellectual stimuli and fun and brain dead isms and all sorts of stuff so you're interested in my interests I like to learn I'm an educator everybody has a love language right so my love language is to share information and fellowship and hanging out doing nothing making peanut butter cookies writing midnight dervish dribble and whatnot so let's sit on the floor Friday night spread a blanket watch an old black and white movie and snuggle and I like to be controlled I make a good Lieutenant too yes I am a bit ditzy I'm spaced out and blonde so lead the way if you got the gumption if you're a willy-nilly no good if you're an idiot I won't have nothing to do with you because those type of people are energy suckers there are vampires that suck *** they are energy vampires to suck all sorts of energy out of you things thoughts Goods power space whatever so beware come rescue me I'm Marooned in a hick town out in the middle of Western Nebraska population 900 and the people here are thick and dense I I grew up near Chicago so I'm used to culture or the Kung Fu coach for 40 years trying to be an English professor so I'm a very literal and creative if you hang out with me I'll tell you my name you can look at my books on Amazon they'll scare you I use them for litmus tests and tell people to go look at a book and they never write back see people are shallow they're afraid of differentiation they like generic stuff that is just plain Dumb-o. I also discovered that being shy was just a stupid waste of time for the shy one and they miss out on life so I speak my mind I'm the fastest dumbass in the West actually the slowest I'm kind of slow-witted but I'm like a bulldog once I understand I hang on anyway feel free to ask me anything you would like I do a lot of editing so your questions will not surprise me I will bet you they're pretty standard because our educational system trains people to be skulls of numb you take care folks watch your souls there are soul vampires out there that'll steal you away who you are and what you have

Fun loving, sexual

I’m totally new to admit to the kink and scene I am truly devoted to give to the right Domme . Itellligent but also want to experience both sides so would love to switch. Love textual sexual contact especially latex, Leather and rubber. Would love to submit totally to relinquish all control , lay down , be bound and give in. I have a profile job but can provide face pics on request

Quiero que seas sumisa o muy sexual

Submissive ENM little vixen seeking her Dominant Daddy Stag who'll allow her the freedom to explore her desires (and even help instigate them) without wanting/needing to have Sexual relations with others (unless with his vixen in a pre-agreed situation).
I'm aware this is unique, but if I don't ask for what I'd really like, I'll never have a chance of finding it.

Looking for a guy from 18 to 55 yo educated in order to discover our sexual limits together. NSA!. I don't live alone...

Straight athletic hung vers mixed male looking for hung ts woman that needs a Tru friend with the possibility of evolving to more later. . In or around bay area , preferably sj. Or is able to host for meetup. Very kinky sexual saggitarrius for a freak like me....

We are an experienced kinky couple who are very sociable and involved within the local kink scene. We are very respectful, accepting, focused on consent and safety. We are looking for a Domestic slave/sub of any gender for trusted service to my sub and I in a purely kink based dynamic with no sexual component beyond that directly related to kinks included in the dynamic between us that could include chastity, for example. Responsibilities that must be the focus of service are household chores, maid/butler-type service, and other service oriented acts. You would necessarily be heavily involved in the organisation and operation of kink events and play parties, both in preparation before the event and serving guests during the event. We would be interested to discuss the possibility of other kinks such as chastity/denial, impact play, sensation play (think scratching more than feathers), etc. My sub, Aelin, would love to use any potential slave to test out her sadistic side, if there was consent and the dynamic allowed. As the exact working of any kink dynamic is determined by the people involved creating something unique, detailed discussions would follow initial meetings to establish a connection to create a dynamic framework suited to the domestic slave/sub.

Message me with a full introduction if interested for discussions. Must speak English.

I just simply want to experiment sexually beyond the norms I have experienced. BDSM, bi-curious, group play, FWB, and other fantasies. I am probably more submissive than anything but would also love to learn and experience either side. Someone or more to have ongoing fun and experiences with.

An honest woman who wants to have fun in and out of the bedroom sexually and non sexual, possibly wanting more...

The curiosity has finally gotten the best of me. Here I am ready to dive into the dark side of my sexual curiosities.