I will not respond to you if you are: not local to me, send a dick pic or looking for cyber.
Seeking service oriented subs for real life service in Pickering Ontario. Also looking for other service sub in Mérida Mexico during winter. . No cybersex. No meet and beat. Long term service only. Suitable for those that feel fulfilled giving service without measuring what they will get in return.

If you are under 30, you are too young to be my pet. If you see me at an event, come chat instead.

As I seek non sexual interactions with my sub, I am open to male and female subs. Its the control and service that excites me... NOT what is between your legs.

If I get distracted, please do not take offense ... just keep messaging to keep my attention. I never try to ghost. If I am not interested, I will tell you directly. So it's your responsibility to keep in contact. With multiple businesses and in and out of the country, things get hectic lol

I enjoy getting to know you and adapt my service requirements according to your abilities and desires.

In Canada I require my pet to serve in my home, warehouse, computer work, etc. Please read my profile. Available hours are critical. Weekday afternoons only, ex: noon to 5. Suits shift worker, self employed or retired. Typically from noon to five during the week...1 to 2 times a month.

In Mexico, Seeking an English speaking service oriented sub.
Helping me with my Spanish, serving as a translator, shopping, helping me with whatever service I require. In my garden, in my home, foot massages, etc.

I move slowly, I love to train and keep a sub for years. Not into Mommy or AB play.

For my dedicated personal subs, this is not meet and beat. You must feed me to get time with me... simple. My rule since I was young vanilla lol. We go on multiple dates getting to know each other BEFORE any play or service occurs. Be prepared to fill out and slowly discuss a bdsm checklist.
I enjoy CFnm, collar/leash, sensual to medium intensity bdsm play. Optional interests are violet wand, chastity and going to local events... those we can discuss and compromise.
Not looking for sexual service, long distance or sexting.
I am married to a kinkster and I am looking for a casual play partner only. You will not submit to or in the presence of my husband.
Are you seeking a long term play partner, submission to a mature realistic Domme, friendship and serving a Mistress... Message me.

So… I am writing this because a lot of people seem to be confused with…let’s call it “The inner workings” of
B.D.S.M. ( not here of course, just in general)...
Bdsm and M/s are separate things, M/s may or may not contain elements of bdsm.
The bdsm community outnumber the True M/s people by a huge amount.
True M/s couples (or groups) are not that common.
They appear common because bdsm people mostly believe that M/s is a part of bdsm.
And bdsm people often, in fact usually blur the distinction between M/s and Dom/sub.
They throw around terms such as slave and Master like candy but those words are like the word love to me and should never just be thrown around.
Mostly, they do not understand (or accept) slave, as property.
In the bdsm world most activities revolve around “scenes”
This is where the term slave gets *d, people always used to use the term submissive which is the correct term, but the word slave seems to be in fashion. Something that people don’t understand the totality of the word slave.
Now in True M/s lives, the slave gives permission and consent to her/his Master when the slave is collared.
Therefor the Master never needs consent again.
However, many in the bdsm world won’t understand or appreciate this.
They also mostly won’t appreciate that the slave is Master’s property and He can do anything He so wishes, so **
and **** are largely mute points.
Because for it to be real, there cannot be any limits.
Sex, massage, dancing, seduction etc.
She always looks and smells divine.
A true slave weaves the essence of love, honor, high ideals, and strong desire to grow spiritually in these areas…as well as all aspects in life. It is well to see how the Master describes this subject. To Honor…To Love…High Ideals…And a strong Desire to grow Spiritually…Are not only how the Master describes this subject…But is the reason why Master…is…Master…
But everyone must take responsibility for their own reality. It is an art, and as such requires not only study and practice but also the inspiration and the love-hate relationship all artists have with their craft.
Through experience of Master’s…They can tell you what the two trademarks are of all True women are:

• The ability to laugh, even at the worst horrors…And…

• The ability to throw jargon out the door and discern the heart of every matter while never taking any matter too seriously.
The simple reason for these abilities is that by actually doing Your own reality and actually experiencing the magickal universe instead of merely reading about it, these abilities are automatically developed.
T/they should be overjoyed with T/their common connection…W/we all recognize the potential that results in the formation of this union…it is merely the beginning of something new…
T/they should be empowered by T/their sexual Magick…and though it transforming into the beginning of who T/they should be…The Beauty of the connection that is so Strong…no Limits…total Trust…above all Loyalty… Did You all read that?? Above All Loyalty… If Master and slave can not be loyal then it is Not a true M/s relationship, it is Dom/sub relationship. A M/s relationship is stronger than Any Marriage anywhere on Earth and should be treated as such! It is a lifetime commitment! That is why there are only a handful of “True” M\s relationships in the world!
Everything in balance.
A True slave should trust in her intuition and nurture her environment of deep devotion, patience, and intense passion…sometimes in silence…
Master and slave together set the standards for which direction they want their life to go.
The slaves’ opinion is always listened to by Master; but in the end the slave knows that His decision is Final.
Every Master strives for “the slave that comes willingly on bended knee” that His slave learns to just pick up on these things over time and doesn’t have to be told or punished anymore.
Its understanding more than just sex, its learning about each other

BDSM/Fetish Family5km around USA Seattle

HI asm a Master/Dominate my name is John they call me Rave.
I have been in the lifestyle 20+ years I first was a submissive under a great mistress who thought me a lot and I spend 5 great years learning.

I am looking for a LTR NSA or POLLY whatever your flavor. One with mutual respect respect for consent and a Dominate / Submissive With great communication so there is no arguments fighting or disrespect where we remain Respectful at all times of course you would have a say in everything and transparency would assure that there is no ghosting lying or problems Transparency and Communication . I would have the final say and I base it on a fair judgement of whats best for the relationship and I would not let things happen giving you to others unless in a Polly or NSA agreement and safety and safe sex is needed to have there way just to dangerous now days with STD and HIV Be Safe! Love care and mental emotional and physical support always in the relationship and I am a romantic at heart so I am not abusive mental emotionally or physically I am looking for some one that is ready to explore new things who enjoys impact play and bondage and Sabari and is ready to give them self to me fully after a year fully and is collared in 6 months that is a lot like marriage then the CNC contract after one year where she is ready to fully give her self to me for our needs. It is because of scammers I have made it where you must verify your pictures on this site to message me. I'm not a Sugar DADDY I am a Master/Dominate have respect when you message me I am not here to play games. I am willing to take time to get to know you as friends first if that's what you need. I have a very high sex drive so i am not looking for someone who has to take 6 months to make up there mind while they scout other men online If your out of the United States I could be interested in Internet relationship but video and voice is required. I can message you for the first 30 days after that you must be able to call me on the phone or video call me daily. I am not a perv I am a Master and have control over my sexual needs and I do not require nudes unless you want to send them to me or your taking part in our Nightly Ritual I am very kinky but I understand fully about the rights of consent and respect for my Submissive DDLG Slave Brat I take care of you menially emotionally and physically After care and Safe Words and make sure you have a safe space to grow. If you are interested you can message me here be happy to speak with you and answer any questions you may have and even fly you here by paying half the airfares if you need help but we must be well established for some time befor we do that so and you must be able to travel and relocate when the time comes. I love Brats I am a Sadist and Infor not into hardcore that's ok you don't have to be as long as you enjoy Impact play and Bondage you need to be Tamed message me. I am working on my Projects now Hanging the spanking rings on the wall and adding the tiedowns to my refurbished bed and have plans to build a beam in the back yard so you can do some Sabari Safety always first when it comes to suspension so if your a Rope bunny that's a pulse nothing more sexy then a bunny tied up in her submission and zone until then I am learning new things and will keep it to partial suspensions and practice is needed so hours of being tied up off and on trying new stuff "I am not a expert when it comes to Ropes but I enjoy Hemp Ropes they are my rope of choice to use in Sabari also like wax nipple and clit *** Thys and breast and butt impact play and others is a lot of fun all within safe limits "Hope to here from you soon Master/Dominate Rave.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 55 years ● 500km around USA Redfield

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