And what does the unowned sub need? She needs to hear and know your wildest, deepest, darkest fantasies, talk to her… she needs to know exactly what you desire, she hopes what she does instinctively is exactly what you want, she wants to give you absolute pleasure no matter the sacrifice on her end and to know that you adore her for it. She wants to be owned, she wants to be used for your pleasure, she wants to know that you crave how she feels to you, her touch, what her filthy little holes make you feel, and to know that she drives you wildly insane bringing out the beast in you. She wants that veracious, unrelenting hunger of yours to show, she needs it, she craves it, she loves it. 

This unowned sub is not promiscuous and vets her Dom By listening and observing. Tell me exactly what I can do for you. Be raw, be unforgiving, be honest and let go of all your inhibitions. The greatest Dom will still have some reserve… let go of that when you talk to me. Let me know what’s hidden inside of you so I can learn you before you take exactly what you need from me, that’s what I am here for… for your pleasure, for you to control, to be your good girl, for you to own me.

This is how I vet… I need to hear you and I need to see you. I won’t unread your messages, I won’t ignore you, I won’t block you, I won’t deny you access to me in anyway, I will always respond and give you the respect you deserve. Even if we are not a match I will be respectful to you.. I know your place and I know mine.

BDSM Play Partner18 to 80 years ● 550km around USA Chino Hills

Hi I’ve logged back in after many months. Wasn’t here for very long before so am still new and a little cautious, but still very curious..

Looking to explore my little side. It’s something I’ve been curious about but not something I’ve ever talked about or pursued. I’m very independent in my day to day life and struggle to ask for help but I have a need to relinquish this and be taken care of, in and out of the bedroom without needing to ask (or help me learn to be better as asking) and to be a naughty and sweet submissive in the bedroom.

In my past I have dated younger men but behind closed doors (in my mind and imagination) I get the most aroused and wet when I think about an intelligent, calm, loving, in control daddy giving me love, attention. Making me feel desired and safe and touching my mind and body.

Psychologically, It’s all about feeling safe and desired and adored. I have some body insecurities so to have my daddy desire me and to feel cherished and erotically wanted by him, would make me feel such a special girl for my daddy and would iron out the anxieties or insecurities I have.

In return, when I feel that safety, nurture and attention is genuinely given to me, I will want to give my love and attention and my all to my daddy. If I trust my daddy, I will want to make him so very happy. I am naturally very attentive and I like to please and tease.. I love seeing daddy lose control when I give him my desire (thats the switch in me).

Please note:
Im all about nuance and sensuality and mental play that naturally builds to something more urgent and dirty. I don’t do 0-100, or mimicking hard kinks like you’re a pair of actors reenacting what you learn as being sexy from watching porn. I doubt anyone under 35 will know what this means. I want to FEEL REAL. Real sexy. Real anticipatory. Real naughty. Real dirty. Real wet. With a person that just understands
that sensuality and silence is erotic.
It’s not about headline grabbing black & white kink. (I understand why people chase the fun sensationalist highs of whips, chains, hardcore boundary pushing sex, but I personally find labels the opposite of nuanced and sexy!) Only the most emotionally intelligent men will understand the subtlety in the psychological difference and they’re the ones I would love to hear from. Thank you for reading x

Ps. I really crave a sensual erotic kiss at the moment before anything else!

BDSM/Fetish Family34 to 75 years ● 50km around UK Leeds