I'm an educated professional with a fast paced crazy job during the day and a Dungeons and Dragons, Pokemon collecting, video game playing nerd at night!

I'm only looking for friends first. I'm monogamous and don't do casual sex.

What gets my attention is: brains, humor, and heart-those get me every time!

Most common responses to the most common messages:

1) I'm not interested in your genital pics.

2) I'm not looking to come over tonight and have sex with you.

3) I'm doing great thanks!

4) My parents are the ones who did the making me look cute thing.

5) No I don't want to read your weird sex fanfic you randomly sent me a total stranger.

6) I make enough I don't need to be in your camgirl side hustle, paid for sex, feet pics, used underwear and or any other fetish you're trying to pay me for.

7) No I'm not sending you *** either.

8) Great you're a Dom/me that doesn't mean you're mine. Don't act like it or you'll see my final form (insert dragon Ball Z 2 hour montage of getting to level 5000).

Kink wise:
Rough CNC? You got it. A proper bare-bottom spanking followed by rough or sensual sex? I got that covered. Fucking my ass while you're whispering sweet words in my ear? I might have done it once or twice. Spanking my clit, torturing my pussy, flirting ineffectively, or simply watching a good movie together? That's amazing. Making me and you cum multiple times? That's written with bold letters in my resume. Learning your likes and dislikes? Oh yeah!

Totally awesome things I can talk about all day:

Pokemon cards (especially vintage) I'm a total nerd who does have a pretty sweet collection. If you're looking for something for yours hit me up! Maybe I can help. I have extensive cards from base, jungle, fossil, base 2, and team rocket.

Guessing several people screamed and ran but hey if you're still here I'm also into DnD (not the kinky type ... Though hey I do love role-playing) video games ( currently loving Dune: Awakening), horse back riding (hoping to get back into it now that I'm closer to places that have them), and fishing!

I'm stable in my life, own my home, car, good job, mentally not nutters, and know what I want and what I don't.

I get along best with people over 35 normally but sometimes late twenties have the old soul vibe too! Extroverted people who are happy to do most the talking and dominate leaning tendencies to the front please and thank you!

I'm more a quiet reserved introvert who likes to go with the flow. I have to be in charge at work so off the clock I love being around people who naturally enjoy leading so I don't have to.

BDSM Play Partner35 to 65 years ● 150km around USA San Francisco

Hi hi! My name is Laney. I'm a 19 year old girl looking for an older man (ideally 30–55) with a calm, steady presence who enjoys giving structured, comforting spankings in a gentle, authoritative way.
I'm quite shy and soft-spoken, and it makes me a bit nervous, but I am looking for someone who can help guide me through exploring this as it's something I've wanted to do for a long time. I’m not looking for harsh punishment or sexual exchange. For me, this is about feeling safe, taken care of, and gently led. I’d like to meet with someone who knows how to be in control but not aggressively, rather someone who is confident and in control, as well as very kind and gentle. I want to feel guided through the experience: given instructions, corrected, lightly scolded, but also reassured and praised throughout. I’d like an OTK scene with clothing fully off, starting with your hand and building up to a paddle or hairbrush. I have a pretty low tolerance, so I’d want it to stay at a manageable level, but still a bit ful. A safe-word would definitely be important. Praise is something I respond to deeply, so I'd like to receive that throughout. I'd also be open to some sexual touch after a scene, but only very small, tame things like fingering, if there’s comfort and trust. But I want to be clear that I'm not looking for penetrative sex or reciprocal contact. Another thing- I’m not going to post photos of myself publicly because I really am nervous about privacy, but if we talk a bit and build some comfort, I’d be okay sharing pictures or short videos privately. I would like to meet somebody in person- ideally for a dinner or coffee or something beforehand to feel more comfortable, and then go to a hotel or other private space together for the scene. I won’t be in Bellingham over the summer, but I’d love to talk for a while and get to know you slowly, and hopefully meet up in the fall once I’m back at school. Thank you for reading! :)

BDSM Play Partner30 to 55 years ● 10km around USA Bellingham

I am Mistress Ultra Violet. Professional Dominatrix, Playboy TV Star, 3X DomCon Guest of Honor, and Owner/Operator of Atlanta Dungeon. I have well over a decade of experience in Professional Domination. I pride Myself as a Dominant who changes Her submissives' lives through behavior modification and slave training as a part of My lifestyle.

I love to be worshiped and pampered. My beautiful Feet, Legs, and Ass will become the object of your obsession as I lead you deeper and deeper into chastity, slavery, and submission. Trust in Me, Worship Me, Suffer for Me, and I will find pleasure in your devotion. But be warned; displease Me, and I will leave you a broken creature, begging for My attention!

Whether you crave the biting comments that drip from My sardonic tongue, need to be caught in a pair of panties, or find yourself in need of an especially savage beating, (all three, perhaps?) I do not disappoint.

When you see Me you will be meeting Me at Atlanta Dungeon. Atlanta Dungeon is a fully equipped 6 room play space with individually themed rooms. This private commercial play space includes everything I'd ever need to make your BDSM fantasies come to life. St. Andrews Cross, Multiple Cages, Spanking Benches, Swings, Bondage Table, Medical Tables, Sissy Room and so much more. Please look for the Atlanta Dungeon Tour on YouTube, link on the Atlanta Dungeon .

My Favorite Activities include:
Foot & Body worship, Tease and Denial, Corporal Punishment, Bondage, Objectification, Behavior Modification, Chastity, Facesitting,
, Full Transformation Feminization, Medical Play, Strapon Training, GS, Puppy Play, Latex and Leather fetishes.


Please check out My reviews and interviews and familiarize yourself with what to expect in My sessions. While I can be a very strict and brutal Domme, I do offer sensual Domination and Fetish sessions with the expectation you show Me the utmost respect. The same applies for those who are new to the BDSM scene. I love to start from a blank slate and mold My submissives into the perfect slaves, leaving them unable to accept anything less than total control and the desire to serve only ME!
Submission is a gateway to freedom and I will liberate you.

I do not accept texts as a method of contact, please use My or give Me a call. Please fill out My application to begin the process of discussing your interests and limits.

When traveling, My
may vary. Please request your session in advance of My travel dates so I can adequately pack equipment, and can fit you in My busy schedule. Ask about FMTY!

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