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Hi I’m a switch looking to become a full sub for someone who can dominate me, message for more info

I'm known to be a switch. I'll happily play any role you choose for me. I've got limited experience as both but am confident enough to be both.

Looking for an intelligent, interesting, slightly geeky, emotionally available and SINGLE male that no other woman thinks are in a relationship with them! Ha
Let have some funny laughs, dates, drinks, nice foods, moonlight walks in the woods (wink wink) get into each others minds and connect.
Im mainly sub can switch so if we click with good chemistry the sex will be awesome!
Not looking for a quick boring hook up or even an exciting hook up. Been there done that. Want to experiment with someone i trust.
Me im tall - 5ft 7. Im curvy UK size 16. Im young at heart and my friends say im funny and exciting.
Lets connect.
Please dont contact me if youre under 35. Unless i have liked you

Hi I’ve logged back in after many months. Wasn’t here for very long before so am still new and a little cautious, but still very curious..

Looking to explore my little side. It’s something I’ve been curious about but not something I’ve ever talked about or pursued. I’m very independent in my day to day life and struggle to ask for help but I have a need to relinquish this and be taken care of, in and out of the bedroom without needing to ask (or help me learn to be better as asking) and to be a naughty and sweet submissive in the bedroom.

In my past I have dated younger men but behind closed doors (in my mind and imagination) I get the most aroused and wet when I think about an intelligent, calm, loving, in control daddy giving me love, attention. Making me feel desired and safe and touching my mind and body.

Psychologically, It’s all about feeling safe and desired and adored. I have some body insecurities so to have my daddy desire me and to feel cherished and erotically wanted by him, would make me feel such a special girl for my daddy and would iron out the anxieties or insecurities I have.

In return, when I feel that safety, nurture and attention is genuinely given to me, I will want to give my love and attention and my all to my daddy. If I trust my daddy, I will want to make him so very happy. I am naturally very attentive and I like to please and tease.. I love seeing daddy lose control when I give him my desire (thats the switch in me).

Please note:
Im all about nuance and sensuality and mental play that naturally builds to something more urgent and dirty. I don’t do 0-100, or mimicking hard kinks like you’re a pair of actors reenacting what you learn as being sexy from watching porn. I doubt anyone under 35 will know what this means. I want to FEEL REAL. Real sexy. Real anticipatory. Real naughty. Real dirty. Real wet. With a person that just understands
that sensuality and silence is erotic.
It’s not about headline grabbing black & white kink. (I understand why people chase the fun sensationalist highs of whips, chains, hardcore boundary pushing sex, but I personally find labels the opposite of nuanced and sexy!) Only the most emotionally intelligent men will understand the subtlety in the psychological difference and they’re the ones I would love to hear from. Thank you for reading x

Ps. I really crave a sensual erotic kiss at the moment before anything else!

I'm a Lifestyle Mistress and I am looking for a slave to control and call my own. My ultimate goal is to find a permanent 24/7 slave but until then I will settle for the occasional meetup. I don't want anyone new to the lifestyle or "experimenting" nor do I want any Switches. Must be serious and not a gameplayer. Thats what im looking for and im EXTREMELY particular in who i choose. Hopefully you make the cut. Also, I want a lifestyle submissive; not someone with a couple kinks.

I am putting my order out into the universe for a life partner. Btw, I am demisexual and I won’t suspect that you are interested, if you don’t tell me.

monogamous male (45-60yrs)
Liberal
Fully vaxxed & still masked in public
Emotionally intelligent & available
Spiritually aware NOT into religion
Loves family, kids, nature, & s
Nerdy, sweet, romantic, funny, caring compassionate
Tantric energy exchange, sensual switch
No addictions
Non smoker
Infrequent alcohol & no drunkenness

ME-
I am a bbw , sensualist switch and I do need both sides of the coin for satisfaction. I will be looking for friendship that can blossom into a romantic life partnership. We need to be on the same page regarding covid safety, vaccines, and politics (I am liberal af). While I have compassion for those like myself with trauma, grief, and medical issues- you have to be appropriately addressing these for your own personal growth.
Please be respectful in your correspondence and expectations. My spiritual, physical, mental, and emotional health are top priority.
Please do have your avatar and “about me” section set to accurately represent your character. Cock profile pics= block.
Please do message me with the verbiage and energy tone that denotes your interest and intentions.
I appreciate positive, clear, concise, and updated communication.
Please follow through, actions usually speak louder than words.
Please be truthful, safe, and respectful with YOURSELF and others.
I value personal and community responsibility.

Analogy: I have a chair(s) open for those spiritually conscious people that may have a piece of the puzzle I am missing and/or may know how join pieces (life experiences) that I may already have. Sit down as a kind, curious stranger willing to make goals and be proactive in creating a positive relationship(s). Stand up with confidence in our loving friendship and a new awareness.

I am looking for sincere human connections--friendships to enjoy BDSM coffees and munches, classes, and parties together.
My vanilla interests would be watching a movie in theater or at home, museums, historical places, plays, musicals, to attend cultural and craft festivals, learn arts and crafts, travel, learn to dance-burlesque maybe/theater/storytelling/ dulcimer or autoharp/ ting/ up cycling , take a healthy cooking and/or meal prep class, and learn gentle yoga, tai chi or water exercise. I love nature and s; canine obedience class? Board gaming and RPG. Energy healing & aroma massage. Fascinated with RV or tiny house life, eco villages, intentional living communities. I want to learn more about healing with herbs, food, massage (ex: Reiki), meditation, crystals, essential oils, and more- a little witchyness.

I am looking for the intense primal passion, tantric/ spiritual connection, power and energy exchange I crave. Intimate connections, communication, and affectionate domination—Ahhh. I want to mutually create a simple, sustainable, yet purposeful life with the Soul I choose to walk alongside for as long as our paths parallel and we are both growing.
I request that a potential playmate or partner be free of substance , illegal activities, and STDs. Responsible mild use of medical marijuana edibles might be okay. Please respect that I do have hang-ups with consistent alcohol use and drunkenness. Cigarette smoke makes me ill as does drama, manipulation, negative, and abusive people. The act of lying and ghosting has infuriated me.

I test 97% Switch, I believe that this is due to being a natural nurturer and my interests in sensual play that I would translate as more of a reciprocation of gratifying service- an aspiring Service Top. I am interested in receiving and learning to provide energy massage, hot stone massage, fire cupping, fire play, violet wand, mild needle play, wax play, knife play (no deep cuts), mild-medium impact play, and the intricate art of bondage—-ART— that’s how I view much of this lifestyle. I would also like to learn to scene and role play with negotiations and clear boundaries. I LOVE primal play. The intensity and depth of the teeth and claws excite my inner lioness. Making love in the moonlight and sleeping naked in the sun…

HARD LIMITS: children, s, to include bathroom games, anti-vaxxers, anti-maskers, trumpsters, conspiracy theorists, and bareback or anal without monogamous commitment.

I wanna meet spankers who just like to spank and ask nothing from me. Willing to get spanked with anything besides belt. switch, or cane. Also what are some good positions to get spanked in?

I long to be taught. I am the “dominant“ in all of my relationships from my friends to the roles I take on at work. I want someone to teach my the ways of BDSM. I beg for the release I know I can find. I consider myself a switch because of what I like and how I act but I don’t really have any experience as either. I am willing to try just about anything once.