Quick disclaimer: This is simply my take on things. Your’s may be different and that’s ok—that’s the beauty of kink!

A BDSM slave is someone who has consensually agreed to being owned by someone else, often a “Master”.

As long as consent exists, the other person retains all-rights-of-ownership of the slave.

This transfer of ownership is called a “total power exchange” (TPE).

It means consensually handing over your ability to make decisions for yourself, and granting someone the right to do it for you.

Power exchanges are very popular in BDSM dynamics. But, not all power exchanges are total power exchanges.

Whenever someone gives themselves to a Dom/Master, they’re participating in a power exchange because they’re literally giving power to someone else.

Based on this, a BDSM slave is a very specific type of submissive.

However, most submission ceremonies do not involve the sub giving themselves completely to the Dom—they give a part of themselves.

Submission is a sliding scale, with one end being a “regular” submissive, and the other being a slave without a single right. Most subs/slaves fall somewhere in the middle.

So, not all submissives are slaves, but all slaves are —normally—considered submissives. (There are exceptions, but they’re few-and-far-between).

For example, a sub may give up:

The ability to choose what they wear
Being able to leave the house, without saying why
Freedom for general structure, like rules and chores
While subs do trade some things in submission, they retain many of their rights as autonomous human beings.

A slave on the other hand may give up:

Social media privacy
The ability to say “no”
A choice in what they eat, where they eat it, and when they eat it
The list could go on-and-on, but it all falls under one category: Eliminating choice from a slave’s life.

In theory, removing all rights from another individual is easy. In practice, though, it’s a whole different ballgame.

A TPE can encompass removing all rights. However, most times slaves retain some rights.

That’s because a slave is still a human in our modern world, and must function in it confidently. Financials are one of the biggest caveats here.

Some people will never give up control of their *** because it drastically blurs the lines. Of course, there are slaves who do give up their financial rights, but many do not.

No matter what, it all comes down to the specific dynamic and how both parties want it to run.

Exceptions exist everywhere, and kink is no different. That’s why a definition is meant to be a starting point, not a strict boundary.

Every Master/slave dynamic looks different. Some slaves may only be submissive within a sexual context, while others are submissive in every aspect of the dynamic.

It’s important to understand that “slave” simply refers to the type of relationship: Master/slave. It does not necessarily insinuate a sexual-type-dynamic—although that is often the case.

Before anything else, there are extensive, thorough discussions about expectations, wants, and needs.

Expectations are straightforward. But there’s a massive difference between wants and needs.

Needs will always be taken care of by the Master—no exceptions. They’ve committed to making healthy decisions, and must do the basic requirements.

Wants, on the other hand, are just extras. A master may allow a slave’s wants to come to fruition….or they may not. That’s because it’s not a basic requirement for human function: It’s a bonus.

After all sides have expressed themselves and time has passed, a contract is crafted.

A BDSM contract is a signed document, outlining the expectations, rules, and terms-of-play. And, they’re revisited on an agreed-upon-basis, like every 3-to-6-months.

While a BDSM contract isn’t a legally binding document, it does act as a formal agreement between Master and slave.

So, if/when someone wishes to terminate the contract (Master OR slave), it can be done so immediately, without legal ramifications.

TLDR;

Ultimately, a BDSM slave is a more extreme submissive, with far fewer rights and choices, than a typical sub.

Dom master here looking for legit loyal long term men, women, couples, trans, non-binary sub slaves that want to be fully owned by me. If you wish to feel completely owned by me and are full committed message me.

Somewhat shy about all this so ask away, looking for my "barely legal" section on this app, I also wanna watch a couple love to join at least I think I do 😄 can host if everything lines up. Newly single have never explored this stuff but thought about it enough to try to find it. No singles men need to respond

I got 99 problems but my BWC ain’t one

see my profile for hard limits

rope bunny experience preferred but not required

My Expectations:

• Sub should prepare to be mentally and physically dominated after all preliminary requirements are met and established

• Sub must be clean and provide lab results or use protection

• Sub must be intelligent, sexy, and fun

• Sub must be between the ages of 18-45

• Sub must be open to having an existing DD/lg dynamic have their way with them and using them like an object

• Sub must like being bound/tied up and endure ***d voyeurism

• Sub preferred to be bi or bi-curious

• Sub must have a working car and be employed

• Sub preferred to be 420 Friendly

• Sub must understand this is an at-will dynamic and can be terminated by any and all parties for any or no reason whatsoever

• Sub must have their own working phone number

• Sub must practice good hygiene

• Sub must consent to a safe word and to use discretion in regards to the established dynamic and will not post any content without prior consent from Dom

• Sub must provide valid photo ID confirming they are of consenting legal age

• Sub preferred to check-in daily via phone call, snap, or text

• Sub must consent and agree to me being their only Dom during the course of the dynamic

• Sub must consent to being told “No” and having restrictions to my my time, my body, my things and even the subs own body.
  

• Sub may be told that you are NOT able to go out to an event, function, or bar with friends at my discretion and this is because I don’t want my subs getting hit on by other men

  Sub Treatment:

  Praise

  Discipline

  Rope Bondage

  Spanking

  Face Slapping

  Spitting

  MFF Threesomes

  Objectification

  ***

  Cock Worship

  ***d and Orgasm Denial

  Temporary Marking (hickies, hand prints, scratches, etc)

  ***d Voyeurism

  Exhibitionism

  Filming

  1.

  You will message me on here addressing me as “Sir” or “Daddy” so that I know you’re responding to the ad

  2.

  I decide if or when I have the time or if I am even remotely interested

  3.

  PRIOR TO THE 1ST MEETING we will have a discussion about hard and soft limits, as well as boundaries, fantasies, and triggers

  dare to come fuck around and find out

  😈

A mature woman who is confident of taking pics of her legs and feet for me. I have a huge foot fetish and an arch fetish. Some one I cam get to know as well. Feel free to say hello

Wanna feel that sweet touch, cuddle me, cuddle you, wanna feel warm breath and bet you smell nice, feel how soft you are , so warm and cozy , legs wrapped around me kissing your neck while I’m rubbing your body giving you tickles