BDSM Dating in Helsinki

I’m a blend of things that might seem opposite: I spend my days as an AI researcher, diving deep into data and logic, but I spend my free time staying active on my bike, at the gym, or getting lost in a good book. I’m a warm, humorous person who values self-improvement and a good laugh over everything else.

In my everyday life, I’m your reliable, intellectual, and easy-going partner. But when the doors are closed, I like to turn up the heat.

What I’m looking for:

I am looking for a long-term relationship, a life partner who shares my vision of a committed, monogamous bond seasoned with plenty of kink. I’m drawn to women who are intelligent, playful, and have a certain inner calm.

In the bedroom (and beyond):

I identify as a switch, though in a committed relationship, I naturally lean towards the dominant side. I love the dynamic of taking charge, but I’m not looking for a "slave" – I’m looking for a partner who enjoys:

• Roleplay and dressing up: Let’s explore different versions of us.
• Command and Verbal Play: I enjoy the power of words, including light *** and giving orders, all within the safety of our trust.

• The balance: A "traditional" relationship out in the world, but with that delicious, kinky undercurrent that only we know about.
  
  If you’re looking for a man who can challenge your mind during the day and take control at night—all while keeping a smile on your face—I’d love to hear from you.