BDSM Dating in Germany

I've been hunting for a new Dom for almost two years, and it has been a struggle. I meet a lot of posers, just guys who think spanking a girl makes them a Dom.
I want to meet someone with actual experience as a Dom. You can give me references from friends in the kink community. You know the verbiage. You're not just looking for a quick play session or to trade pics. You want a real sub, and a real connection.