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Hi, I’m Tav (nickname), 24M. I live in Germany and am currently studying physics. I’m analytical, introspective, and deeply curious about the world, whether that’s exploring fictional universes, understanding human behavior, or optimizing mechanics in games. I value clarity, reflection, and meaningful connection over superficial interaction. I identify as gay-oriented aromantic and asexual. I don’t experience sexual or romantic attraction in the usual sense, but I do experience sensual and aesthetic attraction. I’m drawn to people’s presence, movement, voice, and the way they think. I enjoy physical closeness and affection, but sex itself isn’t central to intimacy for me. I have a high libido, though it is driven by trust, emotional connection, and psychological dynamics rather than physical triggers. I’m looking for a D/s relationship as part of a deeper, long-term, ideally lifetime partnership. Emotional closeness, trust, and consistency matter more to me than protocol or obedience for its own sake. I submit when I feel safe, understood, and genuinely connected. I want a partner who can hold me, guide me, and cultivate a bond where I can fully relax and be myself, someone I can lean on emotionally and who values my needs as much as their own. What I enjoy in D/s: Bondage & restraint: Feeling held and safely ***, with attention to psychological impact rather than spectacle. Hypnosis: Being guided mentally, experiencing focus shifts and trance, and enjoying altered perception. I don’t expect my partner to have former experience as a hypnotist though. Gear & collars: Wearing something chosen by my partner enhances connection and submission. Collars and cuffs carry strong psychological meaning. Power & size dynamics: I enjoy feeling mentally or physically overwhelmed by a trusted partner, always within safe and negotiated boundaries. This part is entirely optional but i wanted to mention it. Emotional and physical closeness: Cuddling, holding, being comforted, and shared vulnerability are central to intimacy for me. I’m open to exploring other kinks that fit the emotional tone of the dynamic but not anything involving ***, cutting, bodily fluids, stenches, excrements, puncturing, ***, sissification, third parties, or public play. I also don’t like roleplay, as I prefer a grounded and genuine experience. I have an irrationally strong aversion to formal wear. What I want from a Dom: A steady, patient, emotionally present partner. Someone who can read and respond to my needs, recognize my mental and emotional state, and guide me thoughtfully. I want a Dom who can form their own perspective on what might be best for me, suggest directions, and challenge me at times, always within a framework of trust and open discussion. I want a partner who enjoys seeing their submissive grow, thrives on emotional intimacy, and appreciates power and influence as part of care, using authority responsibly and with attention to the impact of their decisions. Decisions are subject to reflection and negotiation, and my boundaries are respected while remaining flexible as the dynamic evolves. Exclusivity in emotional connection is important. A partner with whom we can communicate openly at all times, even when the D/s dynamic is in effect. Someone in my own age range, 20–30, ideally living in Europe. What I offer: Loyalty, openness, and depth. When I trust someone, I give myself fully, emotionally, mentally, and physically. I’m attentive, reflective, and capable of clear communication. I thrive when connection and understanding are mutual. I care a lot about privacy, which is why I will only share personal information, including pics, once I know you for a bit. Once we know each other better, I have no problem showing my face. I dont see spanks so message me if you want to connect.
Hello, I'm switch ( submissive and dominant sometimes ) , I'm very kinky person with barely any limits. Looking for a open minded female to explore kinks together. P.s I'm still a virgin
Male (32) Visbek, Niedersachsen
Young guy looking for a straight man who wants to have his feet licked and use me as a doormat. Junger Typ sucht heterosexuellen Mann, der sich die Füße lecken lassen und mich als Fußmatte benutzen will. **Desires and Fantasies** to be humiliated
Male (27) Jena, Thüringen
hey ich bin Felix aktuell 20 und noch recht neu und unerfahren aber dennoch sehr neugierig und würde gerne mehr kennenlernen und auch mehr Leute kennenlernen am Anfang bin ich immer noch recht schüchtern und halte mich stark zurück aber wer Interesse hat kann ihm ganz nie eine Chance geben :3
Ive got no premium, so just text me please ♡ Helloo :> my name is Nico- I am 20, I'm new to this world which seems like heaven already lmao and I just want to find out more about myself and what I like ♡ speaking about me in a kinky context is pretty quickly explained; I want to try out everything and anything, no matter what. I am full of fantasies which are all soooo good and i currently have no limits at all besides undressing my own feet. speaking about me in a non-kinky context I'm into european football, cars from the 1980s-2000s, I love asian culture, I often read BL Manhwas (mainly smut ♡) and I wanna be like Chanwoo from BJ Alex sooo bad lmao this is so pathetic, I love cats and ***s in general (I've got 3 fluff *** myself ♡) my favourite dish are udon noodles with gyoza and my favourite drink is banana milk at the moment :33 (this changes occasionaly) I am a very thoughtful and empathetic person, I tend to people please sometimes which im working on at the moment. And I am learning to be more confident with me and my personality sooo.. stay cunty you gorgious soul ♡ thank you so much for reading this, you look amazing today!! ♡♡
Hey, ich bin Felix, 22, aus Osnabrück :) Aktuell bin ich auf der Suche nach gar nichts :)
I’m someone who values trust, communication, and intention. I’m drawn to dynamics where respect and consent come first, and where connection is more than just fantasy. I appreciate people who are self-aware, emotionally grounded, and comfortable exploring power exchange in a thoughtful way. Curiosity, reliability, and a genuine desire to please go a long way with me. I’m not here for endless chatting or performance. I’m interested in real interaction, clear boundaries, and seeing whether a dynamic feels right for both sides. If you know what you want, can communicate it calmly, and enjoy earning trust rather than demanding attention, we may get along well.
Hey Ich bin noch recht jung. Bin sehr unerfahren. Ich stehe sehr auf anzüge. Ihr müsst aber keinen anziehen, obwohl es schon geil ist.
Male (19) Radebeul, Sachsen
Loyal sub and/or pup based in Berlin. Craving depth — structure that holds, not just sensation that hits. I respond best to confident, emotionally present dominance — the kind that can correct with a glance, hold with a firm hand, and affirm with a word. If you like to lead, but also like to talk — I’m not afraid of words. If your style blends authority with intuition, if you enjoy both control and connection, and if you understand the weight of ownership, you might find me kneeling where others only play. Discipline grounds me. Correction doesn’t push me away — it binds me deeper. If *** brings you pleasure, I’ll bear it proudly. Because your pleasure will be my pleasure. Your happiness — my purpose. I’m not here to impress. I’m here to serve — when the right man makes it real. I ask a lot. But I’ll offer far more. Will you dare, Sir?
Male (41) Berlin, Berlin
Hi, Ich bin Robert, ziemlich schüchtern und unerfahren. Ich habe wenig BDSM Erfahrungen und nur eine Handvoll sexueller Erfahrungen. Ich suche hier primär nach ersten Erfahrungen im BDSM und PetPlay. Ich finde den Gedanken sehr ansprechend sich, innerhalb von Grenzen, einer anderen Person auszuliefern. Außerdem gefällt mir die Idee von Belohnung und Bestrafung. Nach ersten Erfahrungen kann ich nun von mir sagen dass Schmerzen nicht so meins sind. Ich möchte dabei weder als Objekt noch als Sklave angesehen werden sondern als jemanden den man ärgern und auf eine Liebevolle Art und Weise quälen kann um mich aus meiner Komfortzone zu bringen. Und es gibt vieles mit dem ihr mich quälen könnt und von denen ich glaube dass Sie mir auf eine masochistiche Art gefallen würden. Dazu zählt zum Beispiel Edging, Milking, "***d" Exhibitionism und Tickling. Kompliziert wird es bei verbal ***. Es kann sein dass manche Beleidigungen die als dirty Talk gemeint sind von meiner Psyche anders interpretiert werden. Daher wäre es wichtig für mich das Thema vorher zu besprechen. Zu meiner Persönlichkeit als Sub kann ich aktuell nur Vermutungen anstellen. Ich würde mich als little bezeichnen der wahrscheinlich auch ab und an eine brat ist, gerade am Anfang kann es dazu noch öfters kommen. Wenn du dich nach all dem immer noch angesprochen fühlst kannst du mir gerne schreiben :)
Male (26) Dresden, Sachsen
Ich trinke deine ***e und schlucke dein cum. Wenn ich deinen Schwanz deepthroat lutschen soll, sag einfach Bescheid. 👀 Just looking for someone to fuck my throat.
Hi, I am a twink. I am in need of a big strong man, who can pamper me. XOXO😍
I’m new to the scene but eager to try things out. I really like sub-dom dynamics and domination play, and I like receiving ***, for example from flogging. I see myself as more sub, looking for a guide. Thank you!
Male (35) Berlin, Berlin
Don’t be shy, just text me. ️No?No?️ ⛔️Do NOT ask for more pics.?
32M, Deutsch, Blond, 175cm, noch mollig (96kg), vollrasiert, jungfrau Trage einen Chastity Käfig. Bin sehr neu in der Szene und Dating im Allgemeinen, bitte habt etwas Geduld mit mir, bin ein kleiner Angsthase Ich suche Bekanntschaften, Freundschaften und nette Chats mit allen, die Chats können gerne auch zu Treffen verschiedener Art weitergehen. Ich suche jemanden, der mir meine Jungfräulichkeit nimmt. Bin offen für vieles, einfach ansprechen 😊
Ich bin noch ziemlich unerfahren was Fetische angeht. also würde ich da gerne Leute kennenlernen mit denen man sich austauschen und Erfahrungen Sammeln kann.
My profile is not updating my gender. I am a man. Looking for fun with guys and bi curious men. Would like yo have nice experience. Lets talk and meet ( preferred meeting than chatting online)
Male (28) Berlin, Berlin
I am fat sub faggot who loves *** and serve real alpha machi mann, I love being sissy and used by men
Male (39) Berlin, Berlin
my kinks include : *** in all possible ways, diaper, spit, nipple, anal, plastic pants, latex, bwc, goon, slime, bedwetting, risky, public, sweat, taboo, brothers, twins, lazy, exhib, shameless, raw, incest, cbt active, deepthroating active, athletic, twink, twunk, catheter, naughty, athlete, pervert, fucking machine, muscle, cop, police this is a good representation of what turns me on: https://thisvid.com/members/1164653/ i know its hard to believe, given the list above, but I have a normal life as well :) available in German and English I dont have premium :D but you can write me a message IF * you add a picture if you dont got one in your profile * you are 30 or younger. (if ur 31 and its a perfect match, then so be it, but if ur 40, Im sorry)
Auf der Suche nach einem Dom oder Sadisten, der mir gibt was ich brauche :) Kinks sind sehr vielseitig und ich bin grundsätzlich Allem gegenüber offen (vorausgesetzt legal). Looking for a dom or a sadist to treat me the way I deserve :) Interested in all kinks legal.
Only here for friends and connections~ Would love to find some fellow dogs or other pet players/ handlers to hang with :)
Male (26) Bremen, Bremen
Hallo! Bin eigentlich ganz normal, nur bisschen kinky 🙈 Ich bin unterwürfig, weiß aber, was ich will, und suche Spielpartner, um regelmäßig solchen Spaß zu haben. Ich gehe gern auf die Knie und biete mich an. Stehe auf maulficken bis kehlenfick. AV ist nicht so meins. Bondage und erniedrigung finde ich auch sehr geil. Dauerkontakt bevorzugt. Du kannst mich normal oder anonym nutzen. Respekt zeigst du mir nur online. Insbesondere indem du den Termin einhältst. Während des Treffens betrachtest du mich nur als dein fucktoy. Melde einfach. Ich beiße nicht, lasse mich aber gerne 🙃 Stehe nur auf jungen! EN/DE
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Hi, I’m Tav (nickname), 24M. I live in Germany and am currently studying physics. I’m analytical, introspective, and deeply curious about the world, whether that’s exploring fictional universes, understanding human behavior, or optimizing mechanics in games. I value clarity, reflection, and meaningful connection over superficial interaction. I identify as gay-oriented aromantic and asexual. I don’t experience sexual or romantic attraction in the usual sense, but I do experience sensual and aesthetic attraction. I’m drawn to people’s presence, movement, voice, and the way they think. I enjoy physical closeness and affection, but sex itself isn’t central to intimacy for me. I have a high libido, though it is driven by trust, emotional connection, and psychological dynamics rather than physical triggers. I’m looking for a D/s relationship as part of a deeper, long-term, ideally lifetime partnership. Emotional closeness, trust, and consistency matter more to me than protocol or obedience for its own sake. I submit when I feel safe, understood, and genuinely connected. I want a partner who can hold me, guide me, and cultivate a bond where I can fully relax and be myself, someone I can lean on emotionally and who values my needs as much as their own. What I enjoy in D/s: Bondage & restraint: Feeling held and safely ***, with attention to psychological impact rather than spectacle. Hypnosis: Being guided mentally, experiencing focus shifts and trance, and enjoying altered perception. I don’t expect my partner to have former experience as a hypnotist though. Gear & collars: Wearing something chosen by my partner enhances connection and submission. Collars and cuffs carry strong psychological meaning. Power & size dynamics: I enjoy feeling mentally or physically overwhelmed by a trusted partner, always within safe and negotiated boundaries. This part is entirely optional but i wanted to mention it. Emotional and physical closeness: Cuddling, holding, being comforted, and shared vulnerability are central to intimacy for me. I’m open to exploring other kinks that fit the emotional tone of the dynamic but not anything involving ***, cutting, bodily fluids, stenches, excrements, puncturing, ***, sissification, third parties, or public play. I also don’t like roleplay, as I prefer a grounded and genuine experience. I have an irrationally strong aversion to formal wear. What I want from a Dom: A steady, patient, emotionally present partner. Someone who can read and respond to my needs, recognize my mental and emotional state, and guide me thoughtfully. I want a Dom who can form their own perspective on what might be best for me, suggest directions, and challenge me at times, always within a framework of trust and open discussion. I want a partner who enjoys seeing their submissive grow, thrives on emotional intimacy, and appreciates power and influence as part of care, using authority responsibly and with attention to the impact of their decisions. Decisions are subject to reflection and negotiation, and my boundaries are respected while remaining flexible as the dynamic evolves. Exclusivity in emotional connection is important. A partner with whom we can communicate openly at all times, even when the D/s dynamic is in effect. Someone in my own age range, 20–30, ideally living in Europe. What I offer: Loyalty, openness, and depth. When I trust someone, I give myself fully, emotionally, mentally, and physically. I’m attentive, reflective, and capable of clear communication. I thrive when connection and understanding are mutual. I care a lot about privacy, which is why I will only share personal information, including pics, once I know you for a bit. Once we know each other better, I have no problem showing my face. I dont see spanks so message me if you want to connect.
Hello, I'm switch ( submissive and dominant sometimes ) , I'm very kinky person with barely any limits. Looking for a open minded female to explore kinks together. P.s I'm still a virgin
Male (32) Visbek, Niedersachsen
Young guy looking for a straight man who wants to have his feet licked and use me as a doormat. Junger Typ sucht heterosexuellen Mann, der sich die Füße lecken lassen und mich als Fußmatte benutzen will. **Desires and Fantasies** to be humiliated
Male (27) Jena, Thüringen
hey ich bin Felix aktuell 20 und noch recht neu und unerfahren aber dennoch sehr neugierig und würde gerne mehr kennenlernen und auch mehr Leute kennenlernen am Anfang bin ich immer noch recht schüchtern und halte mich stark zurück aber wer Interesse hat kann ihm ganz nie eine Chance geben :3
Refugee of *** and bdsmlr. Bottom submissive cum slut! Up for anything! Few to no limits! Prefer bare fucking! Open to all DMs. I have three holes available at any given time by anyone who wants to unload.
I’m new to the scene but eager to try things out. I really like sub-dom dynamics and domination play, and I like receiving ***, for example from flogging. I see myself as more sub, looking for a guide. Thank you!
Male (35) Berlin, Berlin
Hi, I am a twink. I am in need of a big strong man, who can pamper me. XOXO😍
32M, Deutsch, Blond, 175cm, noch mollig (96kg), vollrasiert, jungfrau Trage einen Chastity Käfig. Bin sehr neu in der Szene und Dating im Allgemeinen, bitte habt etwas Geduld mit mir, bin ein kleiner Angsthase Ich suche Bekanntschaften, Freundschaften und nette Chats mit allen, die Chats können gerne auch zu Treffen verschiedener Art weitergehen. Ich suche jemanden, der mir meine Jungfräulichkeit nimmt. Bin offen für vieles, einfach ansprechen 😊
My profile is not updating my gender. I am a man. Looking for fun with guys and bi curious men. Would like yo have nice experience. Lets talk and meet ( preferred meeting than chatting online)
Male (28) Berlin, Berlin
Loyal sub and/or pup based in Berlin. Craving depth — structure that holds, not just sensation that hits. I respond best to confident, emotionally present dominance — the kind that can correct with a glance, hold with a firm hand, and affirm with a word. If you like to lead, but also like to talk — I’m not afraid of words. If your style blends authority with intuition, if you enjoy both control and connection, and if you understand the weight of ownership, you might find me kneeling where others only play. Discipline grounds me. Correction doesn’t push me away — it binds me deeper. If *** brings you pleasure, I’ll bear it proudly. Because your pleasure will be my pleasure. Your happiness — my purpose. I’m not here to impress. I’m here to serve — when the right man makes it real. I ask a lot. But I’ll offer far more. Will you dare, Sir?
Male (41) Berlin, Berlin
I’m someone who values trust, communication, and intention. I’m drawn to dynamics where respect and consent come first, and where connection is more than just fantasy. I appreciate people who are self-aware, emotionally grounded, and comfortable exploring power exchange in a thoughtful way. Curiosity, reliability, and a genuine desire to please go a long way with me. I’m not here for endless chatting or performance. I’m interested in real interaction, clear boundaries, and seeing whether a dynamic feels right for both sides. If you know what you want, can communicate it calmly, and enjoy earning trust rather than demanding attention, we may get along well.
Hallo! Bin eigentlich ganz normal, nur bisschen kinky 🙈 Ich bin unterwürfig, weiß aber, was ich will, und suche Spielpartner, um regelmäßig solchen Spaß zu haben. Ich gehe gern auf die Knie und biete mich an. Stehe auf maulficken bis kehlenfick. AV ist nicht so meins. Bondage und erniedrigung finde ich auch sehr geil. Dauerkontakt bevorzugt. Du kannst mich normal oder anonym nutzen. Respekt zeigst du mir nur online. Insbesondere indem du den Termin einhältst. Während des Treffens betrachtest du mich nur als dein fucktoy. Melde einfach. Ich beiße nicht, lasse mich aber gerne 🙃 Stehe nur auf jungen! EN/DE
Male (26) Freiberg, Sachsen
Only here for friends and connections~ Would love to find some fellow dogs or other pet players/ handlers to hang with :)
Male (26) Bremen, Bremen
Ich trinke deine ***e und schlucke dein cum. Wenn ich deinen Schwanz deepthroat lutschen soll, sag einfach Bescheid. 👀 Just looking for someone to fuck my throat.
Ive got no premium, so just text me please ♡ Helloo :> my name is Nico- I am 20, I'm new to this world which seems like heaven already lmao and I just want to find out more about myself and what I like ♡ speaking about me in a kinky context is pretty quickly explained; I want to try out everything and anything, no matter what. I am full of fantasies which are all soooo good and i currently have no limits at all besides undressing my own feet. speaking about me in a non-kinky context I'm into european football, cars from the 1980s-2000s, I love asian culture, I often read BL Manhwas (mainly smut ♡) and I wanna be like Chanwoo from BJ Alex sooo bad lmao this is so pathetic, I love cats and ***s in general (I've got 3 fluff *** myself ♡) my favourite dish are udon noodles with gyoza and my favourite drink is banana milk at the moment :33 (this changes occasionaly) I am a very thoughtful and empathetic person, I tend to people please sometimes which im working on at the moment. And I am learning to be more confident with me and my personality sooo.. stay cunty you gorgious soul ♡ thank you so much for reading this, you look amazing today!! ♡♡
Hey Ich bin noch recht jung. Bin sehr unerfahren. Ich stehe sehr auf anzüge. Ihr müsst aber keinen anziehen, obwohl es schon geil ist.
Male (19) Radebeul, Sachsen
my kinks include : *** in all possible ways, diaper, spit, nipple, anal, plastic pants, latex, bwc, goon, slime, bedwetting, risky, public, sweat, taboo, brothers, twins, lazy, exhib, shameless, raw, incest, cbt active, deepthroating active, athletic, twink, twunk, catheter, naughty, athlete, pervert, fucking machine, muscle, cop, police this is a good representation of what turns me on: https://thisvid.com/members/1164653/ i know its hard to believe, given the list above, but I have a normal life as well :) available in German and English I dont have premium :D but you can write me a message IF * you add a picture if you dont got one in your profile * you are 30 or younger. (if ur 31 and its a perfect match, then so be it, but if ur 40, Im sorry)
Ich bin noch sehr neu mit Kinky Sachen und möchte gerne Sachen als Sub ausprobieren und erleben.
Hey, ich bin Felix, 22, aus Osnabrück :) Aktuell bin ich auf der Suche nach gar nichts :)
I am fat sub faggot who loves *** and serve real alpha machi mann, I love being sissy and used by men
Male (39) Berlin, Berlin
Hi, Ich bin Robert, ziemlich schüchtern und unerfahren. Ich habe wenig BDSM Erfahrungen und nur eine Handvoll sexueller Erfahrungen. Ich suche hier primär nach ersten Erfahrungen im BDSM und PetPlay. Ich finde den Gedanken sehr ansprechend sich, innerhalb von Grenzen, einer anderen Person auszuliefern. Außerdem gefällt mir die Idee von Belohnung und Bestrafung. Nach ersten Erfahrungen kann ich nun von mir sagen dass Schmerzen nicht so meins sind. Ich möchte dabei weder als Objekt noch als Sklave angesehen werden sondern als jemanden den man ärgern und auf eine Liebevolle Art und Weise quälen kann um mich aus meiner Komfortzone zu bringen. Und es gibt vieles mit dem ihr mich quälen könnt und von denen ich glaube dass Sie mir auf eine masochistiche Art gefallen würden. Dazu zählt zum Beispiel Edging, Milking, "***d" Exhibitionism und Tickling. Kompliziert wird es bei verbal ***. Es kann sein dass manche Beleidigungen die als dirty Talk gemeint sind von meiner Psyche anders interpretiert werden. Daher wäre es wichtig für mich das Thema vorher zu besprechen. Zu meiner Persönlichkeit als Sub kann ich aktuell nur Vermutungen anstellen. Ich würde mich als little bezeichnen der wahrscheinlich auch ab und an eine brat ist, gerade am Anfang kann es dazu noch öfters kommen. Wenn du dich nach all dem immer noch angesprochen fühlst kannst du mir gerne schreiben :)
Male (26) Dresden, Sachsen
Don’t be shy, just text me. ️No?No?️ ⛔️Do NOT ask for more pics.?
Auf der Suche nach einem Dom oder Sadisten, der mir gibt was ich brauche :) Kinks sind sehr vielseitig und ich bin grundsätzlich Allem gegenüber offen (vorausgesetzt legal). Looking for a dom or a sadist to treat me the way I deserve :) Interested in all kinks legal.

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