BDSM Dating in Wülfrath

Just got out, was loyal and mi monogamous other than the fact once a month or so, she and I sound pick up another woman from out of town. Boundaries and rules were there. She liked watching me before she joined and we made a night of it. No kissing and no penetration. Soo... I'm looking to have some unbridled fun...... You'd be the first woman I slept with In 15 years. Technically.
Quick meet up or even mutual masturbation online works for me. I'm just now Getting back into the dating scene. And she held on to me right until I started to wilt. So that's rough

Open minded, love deep conversations.