Hi, I’m Tav (Nickname), 24M. I live in Germany and am currently studying physics. I’m analytical, introspective, and deeply curious about the world; whether that’s exploring fictional universes, understanding human behavior, or optimizing mechanics in games. I value clarity, reflection, and meaningful connection over superficial interaction.
I identify as gay-oriented aromantic and asexual. I don’t experience sexual or romantic attraction in the usual sense, but I do experience sensual and aesthetic attraction: I’m drawn to people’s presence, movement, voice, and the way they think. I enjoy physical closeness and affection, but sex itself isn’t central to intimacy for me. I have a high libido, though it is driven by trust, emotional connection, and psychological dynamics rather than physical triggers.
I’m looking for a D/s relationship as part of a deeper, long-term, ideally lifetime partnership. Emotional closeness, trust, and consistency matter more to me than protocol or obedience for its own sake. I submit when I feel safe, understood, and genuinely connected. I want a partner who can hold me, guide me, and cultivate a bond where I can fully relax and be myself, someone I can lean on emotionally and who values my needs as much as their own.
What I enjoy in D/s:
Bondage & restraint: feeling held and safely ***, with attention to psychological impact rather than spectacle.
Hypnosis: being guided mentally, experiencing focus shifts and trance, and enjoying the altered perception. I should add that i dont expect experience as a hypnotist.
Gear & collars: wearing something chosen by my partner enhances connection and submission; collars and cuffs have strong psychological meaning.
Power & size dynamics: I enjoy feeling mentally or physically overwhelmed by a trusted partner, always within safe and negotiated boundaries.
Emotional and physical closeness: cuddling, holding, being comforted, and shared vulnerability are central to intimacy for me.
I’m open to exploring other kinks that fit the emotional tone of the dynamic but not anything involving ***, cutting, bodily fluids, stenches, excrements, puncturing, ***, sissification or third parties as well as public play. I also dont like roleplay as i prefer a grounded but genuine experience. I also have an irrationally strong aversion to formal wear.
What I want from a Dom:
A steady, patient, emotionally present partner.
Someone who can read and respond to my needs, recognize my mental and emotional state, and guide me accordingly.
A partner who enjoys seeing their submissive grow, thrives on emotional intimacy, and appreciates power and influence as part of care, not as a game.
Exclusivity in emotional connection is important.
A partner with whom we can communicate openly at all times, even when the D/s dynamic is in effect.
Someone in my own age range, 20-34; who als lives in europe ideally.
What I offer:
Loyalty, openness, and depth. When I trust someone, I give myself fully—emotionally, mentally, and physically. I’m attentive, reflective, and capable of clear communication. I thrive when connection and understanding are mutual.
I care a lot about privacy which is why i will only share personal information (including pics) once I know you for a bit. Once we know each other better i have bo problem showing face though.
I dont have premium so the only way to reliably reach me on this platform is via sending me a message.
