Hi! Turning 22 this year and currently in uni.
I’m quite a shy and anxious person at first, so I might take a little time to warm up. But once I’m comfortable though, I’m affectionate, really playful, silly and sometimes loud and wild. I’m the type that tends to overthink, so even in friendships or more, patience and clear communication mean a lot to me. Not new to the kink world but never been in a relationship before so definitely inexperienced in that sense. Would also love to find friends to go to events with, I’m wayy too shy to go myself or reach out first!
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I’m looking for a relationship(not just dynamic!) with a mdlg-style dynamic with a gentle/soft domme, where there’s a lot of care, patience, and emotional connection. I’m naturally veryyy submissive and really thrive on pet names, praise, and reassurance, and I love feeling guided in a soft, supportive way. I do have a lot of kinks and would like to explore them and add more to my list since I’m very open to try new things, oh and I am a bit of a masochist hehe.
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Structure really helps me feel grounded and motivated, especially when things in life get overwhelming. I’m always seen as the independent, can do it all girl, but honestly it’s only because I have to be. Another thing is I love doing things for others so it doesn’t feel like such a big task for me, even if it’s the most mundane thing.
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One major preference is I prefer to be on the receiving end, so kind of a pillow princess I guess but not a hard limit for me, I am open to explore that part but much later into the relationship.
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That said, I don’t want something one-sided, I want to give back emotionally and be there too relationship wise, not just exist in a role. What matters most to me is building something deeper, where the connection isn’t just centered around sexual intimacy but also emotional closeness, comfort, and genuinely caring about each other, also why I’m looking for something long term and not just a fling.
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Outside of dynamics, I’m very into cozy things like reading (including fanfic), gaming, movies, documentaries, anime, creative hobbies, slow walks, and just enjoying life. But again, I do like to be adventurous sometimes especially if I have support and someone to explore with. I LOVEE cats, spicy food(or food in general), music, concerts, and cooking!
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If you do think we might have things in common or like similar things and want to have a chat, feel free to do so since I’m always too shy to talk first!
