Hello!
For me, BDSM is about a sense of safety. I love being taken to the edge of danger, while knowing I'm safe in the arms of my Dom, who will hold me close and never let me fall over the edge.
As such, I'm really not into *** play or extreme *** or degredation. I much prefer a softer, more affection type of power exchange.
I'm looking for a romantic relationship, not just a D/s dynamic. As such, I'm only looking for local and in person at the moment. So please don't be offended if I don't reply to you because you're too far away.
I identify with several roles, including: submissive, (non-age regressing) little, primal prey, kitten, rope bunny, and I'm sure there's more I have yet to discover.
I enjoy several activities including impact play, rope, wax, sensation, tickling, and again, I'm sure there's more. But what really gets me going is the psychological aspect. The right sentence, the growl that comes from deep within your chest, the way you look at me as if I'm yours to devour, those all do a lot more for me than any one activity would.
My favourite kinks tend to be more psychological: power exhange, collar and lead, orgasm control, praise, etc.
I'm not looking to get caught up in anything too quickly, so looking for someone okay with the slow burn. Getting to know each other and developing a mutual respect and affection before I'll call anyone Daddy is important to me.
Communication, honesty, transparency, authenticity, accountability, emotional maturity, and a growth mindset are all non-negotiables. I've put in a lot of work to get to know myself and become everything I am, and I would expect the same from any partner. I'm the kind of girl that absolutely holds people accountable for their actions, and likewise, expects to be held accountable for mine. I've also got a huge collection of stuffed ***s and a fort building kit though, so don't worry, I'm just as playful as I am serious. Everything is a balance.
So if you've read this far, and I haven't scared you away yet, send me a message.