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Hello! For me, BDSM is about a sense of safety. I love being taken to the edge of danger, while knowing I'm safe in the arms of my Dom, who will hold me close and never let me fall over the edge. As such, I'm really not into *** play or extreme *** or degredation. I much prefer a softer, more affection type of power exchange. I'm looking for a romantic relationship, not just a D/s dynamic. As such, I'm only looking for local and in person at the moment. So please don't be offended if I don't reply to you because you're too far away. I identify with several roles, including: submissive, (non-age regressing) little, primal prey, kitten, rope bunny, and I'm sure there's more I have yet to discover. I enjoy several activities including impact play, rope, wax, sensation, tickling, and again, I'm sure there's more. But what really gets me going is the psychological aspect. The right sentence, the growl that comes from deep within your chest, the way you look at me as if I'm yours to devour, those all do a lot more for me than any one activity would. My favourite kinks tend to be more psychological: power exhange, collar and lead, orgasm control, praise, etc. I'm not looking to get caught up in anything too quickly, so looking for someone okay with the slow burn. Getting to know each other and developing a mutual respect and affection before I'll call anyone Daddy is important to me. Communication, honesty, transparency, authenticity, accountability, emotional maturity, and a growth mindset are all non-negotiables. I've put in a lot of work to get to know myself and become everything I am, and I would expect the same from any partner. I'm the kind of girl that absolutely holds people accountable for their actions, and likewise, expects to be held accountable for mine. I've also got a huge collection of stuffed ***s and a fort building kit though, so don't worry, I'm just as playful as I am serious. Everything is a balance. So if you've read this far, and I haven't scared you away yet, send me a message.
Female (35) Dublin, Leinster
I'm looking for a complex person( m or f) who knows what they want, who is open, and who is willing to have long discussions before exchanging photos and meeting in person. Important!!! I'm interested in play, not sex itself. Important!!! respect for personal boundaries isn't just words for you. You've achieved success in your profession and don't have any financial problems, as listening to complaints about the world isn't for me. This means you're not weak and childish, but submissive/switch with someone you completely trust.
Female (37) Dublin 2, Leinster
mean , spoiled, brutally honest , sarcastic , bossy , PHAT and a wet dream really 🤷🏻‍♀️ ***me bully and spicy stuff ask me more 👏🏻 more on X @goddessroro28
Female (27) Dublin 1, Leinster
I want some who I can dominate Who like *** I also have very sexy pics Looking to click with someone who is looking for what I want to offer
Female (32) Dublin, Leinster
a passionate girl looking to learn and explore and too boost confidence as I've been told my body ugly ? **Desires and Fantasies** There has to be plenty of dirty talk teasing, not 100% sure, really so exploring Being licked out, taking a bath or shower together, sex in public the risk of being seen, car sex , hearing a man moan during sex, outfits, tights, silk, dry humping, I have a breed fetish, love to call my man daddy or king,
Female (40) Wexford, Leinster
I'm married but unsatisfied, and it's been four long years since I've felt real intimacy. New to this area and looking for secret encounters with a mature and dominant partner who knows what he wants. I need someone who can satisfy me behind closed doors while appearing a complete gentleman in public
Female (37) Dundalk, Leinster
Hello😊 I'm quite shy but I won't shut up once I'm comfortable😅 I can be mature but really I'm a little girl at heart and I blush very easily😶. I love to watch anime, play games and just cuddle. I am very kinky in bed though💦 Kinks include: Bondage, orgasm denial, edging and electrical play. I like collars and leashes but I don't enjoy choking. I am very obedient but I am a bit of a brat😏. I'm in an open relationship that's also open to poly. Me and my partner like to have fun, together or separately. I'm down for some fun, roleplay, casual dating, or just conversation. Really I just like to vibe. I'd love a Mommy/Mistress, both for cuddles and discipline, I need a woman who exudes dominance but also has a warm, loving side to her 💖 Women, are always welcome to DM me, for any reason. I'm always down for a chat. Any Men trying to DM me, I don't mind talking and hanging out but if you're looking for anything sexual, it's not for me so please be respectful.
Female (26) Dublin 12, Leinster
Dominant Goddess seeking obedient subs who know their place beneath my heels. Crave discipline? Yearn to serve and worship? Step forward only if you dare to surrender fully. Your devotion will be rewarded—or punished—as I see fit. I take pleasure in control, and my standards are as high as my stilettos. Think you're worthy? Kneel and prove it.
Female (24) Athlone, Connacht
I'm a sexy fiery ebony domme. I thrive on breaking white men and women to their knees. I love *** and pleasure. My favorites toys are riding crop, butt plug, and chastity cages. I enjoy pegging watersport feminization and roleplaying. I have a 24/7 lifestyle with my husband. He does all the cooking cleaning laundry and he worships the ground I walk. He so attentive, loving, and caring.
Female (31) Dublin, Leinster
my desire is to meet a man who will treat a woman with love and respect, i'm eager to meet my soulmate, someone who is as excited as I am to spend the rest of our lives together, creating memories, and making our dreams come true
Female (41) Power's Cross, Leinster
newbie and curious but I know what I like 👑 need: 1. a finpig who loves big tits and being ***d 2. a sub who I can use like my dirty little pig 3. a lover of big tits and big dark nipples who knows what to do with them and loves giving me tributes 4. all of the above 🖤 If you dont meet any of the above please don’t bother wasting each others time.
Female (34) Dublin 13, Leinster
i'm eager searching to meet my soulmate, someone who is as excited as I am to spend the rest of our lives together, creating memories, and making our dreams come true
Female (41) Power's Cross, Leinster
Hi ✨️ I'm happily married woman with kinky desires and fetishes carried from my first relationship. Currently looking to express this side of myself more, learn about it, share experiences and hopefully implement it in my marriage. I'm not here to cheat or trade photos and I do have my private life so I'm not spending my whole day online. However, I'll happily invest myself in chats with anyone who's looking to share experiences, teach me something, hear me out, need to be heared... My husband is fully aware of me doing this and he's fully supportive and curious to learn more, but in order to introduce him to this I need to reconnect with lifestyle first. Can't wait to meet you all and have a lot of fun 😊 Chat to you soon ✨️
Female (29) Cork, Munster
I am looking to explore more with Women. I am bi. I’m just looking to have some fun and explore. I am very submissive and love being told what to do. Restraints,slapping ,gags are a big plus. Head game is on point.
Female (23) Limerick, Munster
Sub female with a desire to be used by Domme lady or dom couple. Open minded and would like to chat with similar minds. I am also open to chat with sub ladies to share ideas 🌟
Female (37)
Love an older guy in charge , respectful , make my body totally aroused by no touching first , to unbelievable touching me **Desires and Fantasies** naughty ? sex with two naughty men like to try be pleasured by a woman , women … love to hook up with transgender maybe a threesome , love a sexy CD in nylons or stockings …..
Female (47) Kilkenny, Leinster
New to this I want someone to worship the ground I walk on we can get into details when you text me!! Treat me like the princess I am
Female (22) Kildare, Leinster
I'm a masochist and a sub. Willing to explore kink and discover new likes and sensations. Ready to push limits. Nearly always horny. A very good sex slave to have.
Female (37) Tralee, Munster
I'm looking for a dom/me/s looking to have a bit of fun and aren't afraid to be their true dominant selves with me
Female (19) Clonkeen, Leinster
I'm a domme who plays hard and punishes harder...subs slaves and cockold top priority....if u want to chat text me I won't bite unless I feel like it ..DO NOT COME AND ASK ME TO SWITCH OR BE UR SUB ..IM AN OWNER NOT PART OF THE BITCH SQUAD ...
Female (51) Ennis, Munster
Hi people! New on FetLife. my requests are very simple, as i like to go straight to the point. I am looking for a submissive person, experienced, educated, polite for me as a gift to dominate. I won't accept to be sub. Looking for someone to do interesting stuff being both agree with some time before our booking. that's how i like to do the things. To discuss pro and contra because i want both to have a wonderfull experience, enjoyable to being able to see again. I repect and would appreciate if you would work and do this privately and respect aswell my privacy. Thank you for your time xx
Female (29) Dublin, Leinster
Catch me if you can!😜 Be respectful when messaging, I don’t want to see your dick as an opening message. I value intelligent conversation.
Female (29) Dublin 8, Leinster
Irish born and raised 🇮🇪 - I’m a book girlie through and through, you will most likely find me with my kindle in my hand curled up on the couch🙂‍↕️✋🏻 - should probably be mentioned I am a brat through and through, throw in the dry humour and Irish charm, can be.. entertaining to say the least😇 - I HATE being degraded, that’s the quickest way to get ignored 😌😌😌 the rest are secrets I’ll never tell 🤫 xoxo gossip girl
Female (27) Dublin, Leinster
kinks: catboys (but not petplay), twinks, musicians/emos and hoodies. also I was bald once. I hope that's all the information you need.
Female (36) Cork, Munster

New members in Ireland

Hello! For me, BDSM is about a sense of safety. I love being taken to the edge of danger, while knowing I'm safe in the arms of my Dom, who will hold me close and never let me fall over the edge. As such, I'm really not into *** play or extreme *** or degredation. I much prefer a softer, more affection type of power exchange. I'm looking for a romantic relationship, not just a D/s dynamic. As such, I'm only looking for local and in person at the moment. So please don't be offended if I don't reply to you because you're too far away. I identify with several roles, including: submissive, (non-age regressing) little, primal prey, kitten, rope bunny, and I'm sure there's more I have yet to discover. I enjoy several activities including impact play, rope, wax, sensation, tickling, and again, I'm sure there's more. But what really gets me going is the psychological aspect. The right sentence, the growl that comes from deep within your chest, the way you look at me as if I'm yours to devour, those all do a lot more for me than any one activity would. My favourite kinks tend to be more psychological: power exhange, collar and lead, orgasm control, praise, etc. I'm not looking to get caught up in anything too quickly, so looking for someone okay with the slow burn. Getting to know each other and developing a mutual respect and affection before I'll call anyone Daddy is important to me. Communication, honesty, transparency, authenticity, accountability, emotional maturity, and a growth mindset are all non-negotiables. I've put in a lot of work to get to know myself and become everything I am, and I would expect the same from any partner. I'm the kind of girl that absolutely holds people accountable for their actions, and likewise, expects to be held accountable for mine. I've also got a huge collection of stuffed ***s and a fort building kit though, so don't worry, I'm just as playful as I am serious. Everything is a balance. So if you've read this far, and I haven't scared you away yet, send me a message.
Female (35) Dublin, Leinster
mean , spoiled, brutally honest , sarcastic , bossy , PHAT and a wet dream really 🤷🏻‍♀️ ***me bully and spicy stuff ask me more 👏🏻 more on X @goddessroro28
Female (27) Dublin 1, Leinster
I want some who I can dominate Who like *** I also have very sexy pics Looking to click with someone who is looking for what I want to offer
Female (32) Dublin, Leinster
newbie and curious but I know what I like 👑 need: 1. a finpig who loves big tits and being ***d 2. a sub who I can use like my dirty little pig 3. a lover of big tits and big dark nipples who knows what to do with them and loves giving me tributes 4. all of the above 🖤 If you dont meet any of the above please don’t bother wasting each others time.
Female (34) Dublin 13, Leinster
I'm a sexy fiery ebony domme. I thrive on breaking white men and women to their knees. I love *** and pleasure. My favorites toys are riding crop, butt plug, and chastity cages. I enjoy pegging watersport feminization and roleplaying. I have a 24/7 lifestyle with my husband. He does all the cooking cleaning laundry and he worships the ground I walk. He so attentive, loving, and caring.
Female (31) Dublin, Leinster
New to this I want someone to worship the ground I walk on we can get into details when you text me!! Treat me like the princess I am
Female (22) Kildare, Leinster
I'm married but unsatisfied, and it's been four long years since I've felt real intimacy. New to this area and looking for secret encounters with a mature and dominant partner who knows what he wants. I need someone who can satisfy me behind closed doors while appearing a complete gentleman in public
Female (37) Dundalk, Leinster
I am looking to explore more with Women. I am bi. I’m just looking to have some fun and explore. I am very submissive and love being told what to do. Restraints,slapping ,gags are a big plus. Head game is on point.
Female (23) Limerick, Munster
I'm a masochist and a sub. Willing to explore kink and discover new likes and sensations. Ready to push limits. Nearly always horny. A very good sex slave to have.
Female (37) Tralee, Munster
i'm eager searching to meet my soulmate, someone who is as excited as I am to spend the rest of our lives together, creating memories, and making our dreams come true
Female (41) Power's Cross, Leinster
my desire is to meet a man who will treat a woman with love and respect, i'm eager to meet my soulmate, someone who is as excited as I am to spend the rest of our lives together, creating memories, and making our dreams come true
Female (41) Power's Cross, Leinster
Hi ✨️ I'm happily married woman with kinky desires and fetishes carried from my first relationship. Currently looking to express this side of myself more, learn about it, share experiences and hopefully implement it in my marriage. I'm not here to cheat or trade photos and I do have my private life so I'm not spending my whole day online. However, I'll happily invest myself in chats with anyone who's looking to share experiences, teach me something, hear me out, need to be heared... My husband is fully aware of me doing this and he's fully supportive and curious to learn more, but in order to introduce him to this I need to reconnect with lifestyle first. Can't wait to meet you all and have a lot of fun 😊 Chat to you soon ✨️
Female (29) Cork, Munster
I'm looking for a dom/me/s looking to have a bit of fun and aren't afraid to be their true dominant selves with me
Female (19) Clonkeen, Leinster
Sub female with a desire to be used by Domme lady or dom couple. Open minded and would like to chat with similar minds. I am also open to chat with sub ladies to share ideas 🌟
Female (37)
Dominant Goddess seeking obedient subs who know their place beneath my heels. Crave discipline? Yearn to serve and worship? Step forward only if you dare to surrender fully. Your devotion will be rewarded—or punished—as I see fit. I take pleasure in control, and my standards are as high as my stilettos. Think you're worthy? Kneel and prove it.
Female (24) Athlone, Connacht
I'm a domme who plays hard and punishes harder...subs slaves and cockold top priority....if u want to chat text me I won't bite unless I feel like it ..DO NOT COME AND ASK ME TO SWITCH OR BE UR SUB ..IM AN OWNER NOT PART OF THE BITCH SQUAD ...
Female (51) Ennis, Munster
Hi people! New on FetLife. my requests are very simple, as i like to go straight to the point. I am looking for a submissive person, experienced, educated, polite for me as a gift to dominate. I won't accept to be sub. Looking for someone to do interesting stuff being both agree with some time before our booking. that's how i like to do the things. To discuss pro and contra because i want both to have a wonderfull experience, enjoyable to being able to see again. I repect and would appreciate if you would work and do this privately and respect aswell my privacy. Thank you for your time xx
Female (29) Dublin, Leinster
I'm looking for a complex person( m or f) who knows what they want, who is open, and who is willing to have long discussions before exchanging photos and meeting in person. Important!!! I'm interested in play, not sex itself. Important!!! respect for personal boundaries isn't just words for you. You've achieved success in your profession and don't have any financial problems, as listening to complaints about the world isn't for me. This means you're not weak and childish, but submissive/switch with someone you completely trust.
Female (37) Dublin 2, Leinster
Hello😊 I'm quite shy but I won't shut up once I'm comfortable😅 I can be mature but really I'm a little girl at heart and I blush very easily😶. I love to watch anime, play games and just cuddle. I am very kinky in bed though💦 Kinks include: Bondage, orgasm denial, edging and electrical play. I like collars and leashes but I don't enjoy choking. I am very obedient but I am a bit of a brat😏. I'm in an open relationship that's also open to poly. Me and my partner like to have fun, together or separately. I'm down for some fun, roleplay, casual dating, or just conversation. Really I just like to vibe. I'd love a Mommy/Mistress, both for cuddles and discipline, I need a woman who exudes dominance but also has a warm, loving side to her 💖 Women, are always welcome to DM me, for any reason. I'm always down for a chat. Any Men trying to DM me, I don't mind talking and hanging out but if you're looking for anything sexual, it's not for me so please be respectful.
Female (26) Dublin 12, Leinster
Love an older guy in charge , respectful , make my body totally aroused by no touching first , to unbelievable touching me **Desires and Fantasies** naughty ? sex with two naughty men like to try be pleasured by a woman , women … love to hook up with transgender maybe a threesome , love a sexy CD in nylons or stockings …..
Female (47) Kilkenny, Leinster
a passionate girl looking to learn and explore and too boost confidence as I've been told my body ugly ? **Desires and Fantasies** There has to be plenty of dirty talk teasing, not 100% sure, really so exploring Being licked out, taking a bath or shower together, sex in public the risk of being seen, car sex , hearing a man moan during sex, outfits, tights, silk, dry humping, I have a breed fetish, love to call my man daddy or king,
Female (40) Wexford, Leinster
kinks: catboys (but not petplay), twinks, musicians/emos and hoodies. also I was bald once. I hope that's all the information you need.
Female (36) Cork, Munster
Catch me if you can!😜 Be respectful when messaging, I don’t want to see your dick as an opening message. I value intelligent conversation.
Female (29) Dublin 8, Leinster
I’m exploring BDSM with a particular interest in a caring, trust-based D/s dynamic. What attracts me most is a Caretaker Dominant: confident, emotionally mature, self-aware and capable of taking the lead without confusing dominance with control. I’m independent and I want my partner to be independent too. I don’t want someone to abandon his own life, friendships or ambitions for me. At the same time, in a serious relationship I want us to genuinely prioritise one another.
Female (34) Newtown, Leinster

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