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Hello! For me, BDSM is about a sense of safety. I love being taken to the edge of danger, while knowing I'm safe in the arms of my Dom, who will hold me close and never let me fall over the edge. As such, I'm really not into *** play or extreme *** or degredation. I much prefer a softer, more affection type of power exchange. I'm looking for a romantic relationship, not just a D/s dynamic. As such, I'm only looking for local and in person at the moment. So please don't be offended if I don't reply to you because you're too far away. I identify with several roles, including: submissive, (non-age regressing) little, primal prey, kitten, rope bunny, and I'm sure there's more I have yet to discover. I enjoy several activities including impact play, rope, wax, sensation, tickling, and again, I'm sure there's more. But what really gets me going is the psychological aspect. The right sentence, the growl that comes from deep within your chest, the way you look at me as if I'm yours to devour, those all do a lot more for me than any one activity would. My favourite kinks tend to be more psychological: power exhange, collar and lead, orgasm control, praise, etc. I'm not looking to get caught up in anything too quickly, so looking for someone okay with the slow burn. Getting to know each other and developing a mutual respect and affection before I'll call anyone Daddy is important to me. Communication, honesty, transparency, authenticity, accountability, emotional maturity, and a growth mindset are all non-negotiables. I've put in a lot of work to get to know myself and become everything I am, and I would expect the same from any partner. I'm the kind of girl that absolutely holds people accountable for their actions, and likewise, expects to be held accountable for mine. I've also got a huge collection of stuffed ***s and a fort building kit though, so don't worry, I'm just as playful as I am serious. Everything is a balance. So if you've read this far, and I haven't scared you away yet, send me a message.
Female (35) Dublin, Leinster
I'm looking for a complex person( m or f) who knows what they want, who is open, and who is willing to have long discussions before exchanging photos and meeting in person. Important!!! I'm interested in play, not sex itself. Important!!! respect for personal boundaries isn't just words for you. You've achieved success in your profession and don't have any financial problems, as listening to complaints about the world isn't for me. This means you're not weak and childish, but submissive/switch with someone you completely trust.
Female (37) Dublin 2, Leinster
mean , spoiled, brutally honest , sarcastic , bossy , PHAT and a wet dream really 🤷🏻‍♀️ ***me bully and spicy stuff ask me more 👏🏻 more on X @goddessroro28
Female (27) Dublin 1, Leinster
I want some who I can dominate Who like *** I also have very sexy pics Looking to click with someone who is looking for what I want to offer
Female (32) Dublin, Leinster
a passionate girl looking to learn and explore and too boost confidence as I've been told my body ugly ? **Desires and Fantasies** There has to be plenty of dirty talk teasing, not 100% sure, really so exploring Being licked out, taking a bath or shower together, sex in public the risk of being seen, car sex , hearing a man moan during sex, outfits, tights, silk, dry humping, I have a breed fetish, love to call my man daddy or king,
Female (40) Wexford, Leinster
I'm married but unsatisfied, and it's been four long years since I've felt real intimacy. New to this area and looking for secret encounters with a mature and dominant partner who knows what he wants. I need someone who can satisfy me behind closed doors while appearing a complete gentleman in public
Female (37) Dundalk, Leinster
Hello😊 I'm quite shy but I won't shut up once I'm comfortable😅 I can be mature but really I'm a little girl at heart and I blush very easily😶. I love to watch anime, play games and just cuddle. I am very kinky in bed though💦 Kinks include: Bondage, orgasm denial, edging and electrical play. I like collars and leashes but I don't enjoy choking. I am very obedient but I am a bit of a brat😏. I'm in an open relationship that's also open to poly. Me and my partner like to have fun, together or separately. I'm down for some fun, roleplay, casual dating, or just conversation. Really I just like to vibe. I'd love a Mommy/Mistress, both for cuddles and discipline, I need a woman who exudes dominance but also has a warm, loving side to her 💖 Women, are always welcome to DM me, for any reason. I'm always down for a chat. Any Men trying to DM me, I don't mind talking and hanging out but if you're looking for anything sexual, it's not for me so please be respectful.
Female (26) Dublin 12, Leinster
I'm a sexy fiery ebony domme. I thrive on breaking white men and women to their knees. I love *** and pleasure. My favorites toys are riding crop, butt plug, and chastity cages. I enjoy pegging watersport feminization and roleplaying. I have a 24/7 lifestyle with my husband. He does all the cooking cleaning laundry and he worships the ground I walk. He so attentive, loving, and caring.
Female (31) Dublin, Leinster
my desire is to meet a man who will treat a woman with love and respect, i'm eager to meet my soulmate, someone who is as excited as I am to spend the rest of our lives together, creating memories, and making our dreams come true
Female (41) Power's Cross, Leinster
newbie and curious but I know what I like 👑 need: 1. a finpig who loves big tits and being ***d 2. a sub who I can use like my dirty little pig 3. a lover of big tits and big dark nipples who knows what to do with them and loves giving me tributes 4. all of the above 🖤 If you dont meet any of the above please don’t bother wasting each others time.
Female (34) Dublin 13, Leinster
i'm eager searching to meet my soulmate, someone who is as excited as I am to spend the rest of our lives together, creating memories, and making our dreams come true
Female (41) Power's Cross, Leinster
I'm looking for a dom/me/s looking to have a bit of fun and aren't afraid to be their true dominant selves with me
Female (19) Clonkeen, Leinster
Love an older guy in charge , respectful , make my body totally aroused by no touching first , to unbelievable touching me **Desires and Fantasies** naughty ? sex with two naughty men like to try be pleasured by a woman , women … love to hook up with transgender maybe a threesome , love a sexy CD in nylons or stockings …..
Female (47) Kilkenny, Leinster
New to this I want someone to worship the ground I walk on we can get into details when you text me!! Treat me like the princess I am
Female (22) Kildare, Leinster
Hi people! New on FetLife. my requests are very simple, as i like to go straight to the point. I am looking for a submissive person, experienced, educated, polite for me as a gift to dominate. I won't accept to be sub. Looking for someone to do interesting stuff being both agree with some time before our booking. that's how i like to do the things. To discuss pro and contra because i want both to have a wonderfull experience, enjoyable to being able to see again. I repect and would appreciate if you would work and do this privately and respect aswell my privacy. Thank you for your time xx
Female (29) Dublin, Leinster
Catch me if you can!😜 Be respectful when messaging, I don’t want to see your dick as an opening message. I value intelligent conversation.
Female (29) Dublin 8, Leinster
Irish born and raised 🇮🇪 - I’m a book girlie through and through, you will most likely find me with my kindle in my hand curled up on the couch🙂‍↕️✋🏻 - should probably be mentioned I am a brat through and through, throw in the dry humour and Irish charm, can be.. entertaining to say the least😇 - I HATE being degraded, that’s the quickest way to get ignored 😌😌😌 the rest are secrets I’ll never tell 🤫 xoxo gossip girl
Female (27) Dublin, Leinster
✨ 27, Slight Little, Submissive ✨ Short and Sweet💋 in a relationship and very happily owned. Daddy’s girl with a partner who loves the idea of showing me off… with his say-so, of course. I’m here to explore, play a little, and see what happens... but only with Daddy’s permission. So don’t get too ahead of yourself: I’m taken and spoken for. If you’re fun, respectful, and like the idea of helping us test the waters and have some fun together, come say hi.
Female (27) Power's Cross, Leinster
Im from Brazil but have been in Ireland for quite a while now. I started to be into BDSM in 2024, and Im often having scenes with different people, as a Dom or sub. I also attend different events like: Nimhneach, dv8, Sanctuary, *** and etc Im a fully exhibitionist and a switch. Im open about being a sub if the right person shows up, but Im more careful if you are a cis man. Likes: whips, floggers, bites, spanks, ***, candle wax, nudity; Dislikes: gags, sissy play, pet play, age play; If you don't have pics of yourself and a proper bio, don't bother to talk to me, or at least show me them in the private chat. Good conversations are important to me. So, I enjoy creating a connection to be able to have possible scenes instead of just hookups. I am looking forward to having more friends, too, especially queer ones, to keep growing my BDSM community. == Results from bdsmtest.org: == 100% Exhibitionist 100% Voyeur 97% Non-monogamist 95% Masochist 92% Sadist 84% Rigger 77% Dominant 71% Switch 69% Master/Mistress 64% Experimentalist 64% Primal (Hunter) 56% Brat tamer 55% Rope bunny 45% Degradee 44% Degrader 40% Submissive 34% Brat 31% Primal (Prey) 26% Vanilla 20% Owner 1% Slave 1% Pet 0% Ageplayer 0% Daddy/Mommy 0% Little
Female (31) Drumcondra, Leinster
I'm a fun out going Friendly person. I don't take life too seriously. I'm looking for a potential Dom that's willing to help me learn more about the BDSM lifestyle. I always had an interest in the lifestyle , but could never find the right person that can fulfill that for me. I'm leaning more towards the submissive role . I'm not looking for a one time thing..I would like to get to know the person before the physical side first. I have a bit of a fetish for men in masks 🥵 I want someone my own age or few years older. I'm sorry but anyone past Forty I'm not interested in.
Female (34) Mooncoin, Leinster
Thicccc baddie, looking for someone who can lead me through the world of kink and keep me cuming back for more. Think you are up to the task? DM me what you would do to turn me on ;) ❤️ slow burns and teasing you. bonus points if you love big ( . ) ( . ) and 🥧
Female (31) Dublin 1, Leinster
NOT LOOKING FOR PLAY PARTNERS ABOUT ME: I’m a BBW with a variety of kinky interests my tastes and needs are somewhat fluid and contrasting at times, both rough and the gentle. In general I’m easy to talk to, understanding and have a great, if sometimes inappropriate, sense of humour. . I’m relatively new to the kink scene, out of a 25 year vanilla relationship/marriage since February 2023 and since had 2 long distance relationships that were not easy and I don’t want to do long distance again. and I have been enjoying exploring. I’ve no interest in one off hookups, the friends part of FWB is important and realistically I will ultimately want a relationship so prefer to only talk to people open to a relationship at some point. . MY KINKY SIDE: I am submissive sexually with men, more sensual/kinky with women but open to some D/s fun. I am not very submissive at all in my day to day life, so my submission is very much kink/sex based. My submissive side reflects a desire to let go in a safe environment so building trust is important to me. I’m not much of a masochist and don’t have a big threshold for *** physically or emotionally but I’m open to trying things at my pace, start slow and build up the submission with trust. . I also have a sensual/hedonistic side. I like a balance, my preference is that not every sexual encounter be hardcore/rough play. I’m quite sensory and tactile with a wicked oral fixation so I adore kissing, cuddles and affection. I like going on dates / hanging out outside of play (I pay my own way, as should you) because some sort of friendship/relationship outside of play is important to me. . As a sub I am highly motivated by reward, pleasure and praise. As a hopeless perfectionist I don’t like to say “no” and prefer to avoid having to safe word during play unless something is really wrong so I negotiate limits and potential play in advance. . I’m not a bratty sub, I enjoy doing a good job and as such I don’t respond well to criticism/punishment (especially orgasm denial), I’d rather be rewarded with something others might deem a punishment, like spanking or other bdsm play for doing a good job. If I feel I’ve “failed” or get a punishment for an arbitrary or fabricated reason just to assert dominance I tend to withdraw so I avoid this type of play. I will always do my best to comply with my Dom’s request so if I say I can’t do something there’s a good reason and it may upset me not to be able to do it. . Generally I like being restrained so pinned down or with actual restraints, light rough stuff like slapping/spanking, spitting, grabbing throat (not choking) or pulling hair, I like toys, etc and wax play too. One area I’d like to explore more is threesomes/multiple partners at once. It’s of interest but requires a lot of trust so I’m waiting for the right scenario. . I believe pleasure should be reciprocal, I adore giving pleasure but I do expect that enthusiasm to be a two way street. I’ll match my play partner’s energy for pleasing me. . It’s disheartening to see the number of so called “dom’s” who seem to think the role of a dom is simply to be rude and demand pictures or pleasure without taking responsibility for and fulfilling the physical and emotional needs of their sub, including aftercare and respecting limits. . I like to be treated well and have a weakness for someone who understands when to spoil me and when to play rough and when to be kind and caring. As a woman I get periods, shocking I know, if you’re the type who thinks that means it’s the fun stops that week, please don’t waste my time. . DM’s: So if after all that you still want to chat to me please introduce yourself and get to know me a little. Please use the codeword **STAR** in your DM subject to show you’ve read this. Everyone else is getting ignored or blocked because I’m tired of copy and paste intros. . It should go without saying don’t aggressively DM assuming you have my submission or that it’s ok to be be disrespectful/demanding, I will just ignore you. My submission, trust and respect needs to be earned, show me you are a decent human first. If you can do that, I’m open to meeting new people. . I only talk to people who are willing to share a face pic (privately is fine) it’s important I know who I’m talking to, Dublin, and indeed Ireland, is small after all. I will of course share a picture of my face privately too. . Please don’t message me if you have a blank profile or a gallery of memes/pics of someone else if you’re not willing to share one of your face when you introduce yourself and some sense of who you are. I get an overwhelming amount of messages so please be cognisant of that when you message that I may not always respond quickly or at all if you haven’t bothered to read this and use the code word above. .
Female (43) Dublin, Leinster
Relatively new to bdsm. Looking to explore, & meet that submissive someone, that I also authentically connect with irl. For now, I am only comfortable bestowing my dominance upon someone I am romantically involved with, so we will need to vibe irl and discuss limits, wants, & expectations, prior to engaging. Therefore, i am not seeking someone below age 30yrs, or above age 50yrs - this is a hard limit. A gentle femdom, with a devious streak 😈 Non-sadist. Curious about rigging. Foot worship. Service submission. Bedroom-only Domme (i.e., not seeking 24/7 dynamic). If you message me with an uninteresting "well, how are you" message, or, if you have no description (including limits), or no photos, and/or are beyond my age preferences, then you won't get a response from me.
Female (38) Dublin, Leinster
I’m overwhelmed with messages so please introduce yourself and include: 1. are you dom/sub/switch 2. non-negotiables in what you’re looking for 3. a quick summary that you understand I’m demisexual, that you are willing to invest time in romance and building a relationship BEFORE any sexual activities 4. do you want anything IRL eventually/strictly online 5. what names do you like to be called/not like Only interested in those 27-35 y/o. Big time brat take it or leave it, I’ll get what I want anyway. I will test your patience, your willpower, and your self-control 😇 Princess first, menace always 😈
Female (28) Dublin, Leinster

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Hello! For me, BDSM is about a sense of safety. I love being taken to the edge of danger, while knowing I'm safe in the arms of my Dom, who will hold me close and never let me fall over the edge. As such, I'm really not into *** play or extreme *** or degredation. I much prefer a softer, more affection type of power exchange. I'm looking for a romantic relationship, not just a D/s dynamic. As such, I'm only looking for local and in person at the moment. So please don't be offended if I don't reply to you because you're too far away. I identify with several roles, including: submissive, (non-age regressing) little, primal prey, kitten, rope bunny, and I'm sure there's more I have yet to discover. I enjoy several activities including impact play, rope, wax, sensation, tickling, and again, I'm sure there's more. But what really gets me going is the psychological aspect. The right sentence, the growl that comes from deep within your chest, the way you look at me as if I'm yours to devour, those all do a lot more for me than any one activity would. My favourite kinks tend to be more psychological: power exhange, collar and lead, orgasm control, praise, etc. I'm not looking to get caught up in anything too quickly, so looking for someone okay with the slow burn. Getting to know each other and developing a mutual respect and affection before I'll call anyone Daddy is important to me. Communication, honesty, transparency, authenticity, accountability, emotional maturity, and a growth mindset are all non-negotiables. I've put in a lot of work to get to know myself and become everything I am, and I would expect the same from any partner. I'm the kind of girl that absolutely holds people accountable for their actions, and likewise, expects to be held accountable for mine. I've also got a huge collection of stuffed ***s and a fort building kit though, so don't worry, I'm just as playful as I am serious. Everything is a balance. So if you've read this far, and I haven't scared you away yet, send me a message.
Female (35) Dublin, Leinster
mean , spoiled, brutally honest , sarcastic , bossy , PHAT and a wet dream really 🤷🏻‍♀️ ***me bully and spicy stuff ask me more 👏🏻 more on X @goddessroro28
Female (27) Dublin 1, Leinster
I want some who I can dominate Who like *** I also have very sexy pics Looking to click with someone who is looking for what I want to offer
Female (32) Dublin, Leinster
newbie and curious but I know what I like 👑 need: 1. a finpig who loves big tits and being ***d 2. a sub who I can use like my dirty little pig 3. a lover of big tits and big dark nipples who knows what to do with them and loves giving me tributes 4. all of the above 🖤 If you dont meet any of the above please don’t bother wasting each others time.
Female (34) Dublin 13, Leinster
I'm a sexy fiery ebony domme. I thrive on breaking white men and women to their knees. I love *** and pleasure. My favorites toys are riding crop, butt plug, and chastity cages. I enjoy pegging watersport feminization and roleplaying. I have a 24/7 lifestyle with my husband. He does all the cooking cleaning laundry and he worships the ground I walk. He so attentive, loving, and caring.
Female (31) Dublin, Leinster
New to this I want someone to worship the ground I walk on we can get into details when you text me!! Treat me like the princess I am
Female (22) Kildare, Leinster
I'm married but unsatisfied, and it's been four long years since I've felt real intimacy. New to this area and looking for secret encounters with a mature and dominant partner who knows what he wants. I need someone who can satisfy me behind closed doors while appearing a complete gentleman in public
Female (37) Dundalk, Leinster
i'm eager searching to meet my soulmate, someone who is as excited as I am to spend the rest of our lives together, creating memories, and making our dreams come true
Female (41) Power's Cross, Leinster
my desire is to meet a man who will treat a woman with love and respect, i'm eager to meet my soulmate, someone who is as excited as I am to spend the rest of our lives together, creating memories, and making our dreams come true
Female (41) Power's Cross, Leinster
I'm looking for a dom/me/s looking to have a bit of fun and aren't afraid to be their true dominant selves with me
Female (19) Clonkeen, Leinster
Hi people! New on FetLife. my requests are very simple, as i like to go straight to the point. I am looking for a submissive person, experienced, educated, polite for me as a gift to dominate. I won't accept to be sub. Looking for someone to do interesting stuff being both agree with some time before our booking. that's how i like to do the things. To discuss pro and contra because i want both to have a wonderfull experience, enjoyable to being able to see again. I repect and would appreciate if you would work and do this privately and respect aswell my privacy. Thank you for your time xx
Female (29) Dublin, Leinster
I'm looking for a complex person( m or f) who knows what they want, who is open, and who is willing to have long discussions before exchanging photos and meeting in person. Important!!! I'm interested in play, not sex itself. Important!!! respect for personal boundaries isn't just words for you. You've achieved success in your profession and don't have any financial problems, as listening to complaints about the world isn't for me. This means you're not weak and childish, but submissive/switch with someone you completely trust.
Female (37) Dublin 2, Leinster
Hello😊 I'm quite shy but I won't shut up once I'm comfortable😅 I can be mature but really I'm a little girl at heart and I blush very easily😶. I love to watch anime, play games and just cuddle. I am very kinky in bed though💦 Kinks include: Bondage, orgasm denial, edging and electrical play. I like collars and leashes but I don't enjoy choking. I am very obedient but I am a bit of a brat😏. I'm in an open relationship that's also open to poly. Me and my partner like to have fun, together or separately. I'm down for some fun, roleplay, casual dating, or just conversation. Really I just like to vibe. I'd love a Mommy/Mistress, both for cuddles and discipline, I need a woman who exudes dominance but also has a warm, loving side to her 💖 Women, are always welcome to DM me, for any reason. I'm always down for a chat. Any Men trying to DM me, I don't mind talking and hanging out but if you're looking for anything sexual, it's not for me so please be respectful.
Female (26) Dublin 12, Leinster
Love an older guy in charge , respectful , make my body totally aroused by no touching first , to unbelievable touching me **Desires and Fantasies** naughty ? sex with two naughty men like to try be pleasured by a woman , women … love to hook up with transgender maybe a threesome , love a sexy CD in nylons or stockings …..
Female (47) Kilkenny, Leinster
a passionate girl looking to learn and explore and too boost confidence as I've been told my body ugly ? **Desires and Fantasies** There has to be plenty of dirty talk teasing, not 100% sure, really so exploring Being licked out, taking a bath or shower together, sex in public the risk of being seen, car sex , hearing a man moan during sex, outfits, tights, silk, dry humping, I have a breed fetish, love to call my man daddy or king,
Female (40) Wexford, Leinster
Catch me if you can!😜 Be respectful when messaging, I don’t want to see your dick as an opening message. I value intelligent conversation.
Female (29) Dublin 8, Leinster
I’m exploring BDSM with a particular interest in a caring, trust-based D/s dynamic. What attracts me most is a Caretaker Dominant: confident, emotionally mature, self-aware and capable of taking the lead without confusing dominance with control. I’m independent and I want my partner to be independent too. I don’t want someone to abandon his own life, friendships or ambitions for me. At the same time, in a serious relationship I want us to genuinely prioritise one another.
Female (34) Newtown, Leinster
new account Dd/lg, Finger fucking, Giving oral, Using toys, Overstimulation, Creampies, Spanking, Freeuse, Praise
Female (23) Dublin, Leinster
If being beneath a woman out of your league turns you on, l'm exactly your type. 📣 Anyone eager to send me new polewear they'll never see my beautiful legs grip the pole in, might move to the front of the line. Only well-behaved boys make it past hello.😇 It’s generosity that sets you apart from the crowd. 🧚‍♂️ Lead with respect, or don't speak at all. Don’t approach me sexually 🛑🧎🏻
Female (52) Power's Cross, Leinster
I’ve been single for a few years now just trying to get back out im curious about a few things I want to try I’m easy going and all ways up for a laugh I’m from Dublin
Female (42) Glasnevin, Leinster
A tweet I saw quoted: "Yapper Online, Non-Verbal IRL" probably describes me best lmao. Honestly wouldn’t mind having an extrovert by my side. On a more serious note, I enjoy gaming, writing & reading, watching horrors, basically being a couch potato (| do occasionally touch grass)! I may appear shy but I display a pretty dominant energy once I get used to the atmosphere;)
Female (21) Dublin, Leinster
Hi there, I'm Shirina and I'd love to live out my wildest fantasies. Please get in touch if you're interested in meeting up in person and live in Dublin.🔥🤤
Female (22) Dublin 7, Leinster
older men to the front please 🥹🏾 sapiosexual before anything so if you can stimulate my mind, you’ve already won half the battle 🙂‍↕️ *bdsm personality results skewed because of my extreme lack of experience and thus analysable data i’m definitely more like 85%+ submissive
Female (24) Dublin, Leinster

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