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Sex with Strangers | Get it On Anonymously!

Why is sex with strangers such a popular kink and how do you make it a fantasy come true? Let FET's own Victoria Blisse tell you all about it. 

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Molly's BDSM Tips | What is Heteroflexibility?

Our resident BDSM agony aunt Molly returns with advice for one FET member on the verge of exploring same-sex desires. Read on to discover more about

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Why Mutual Masturbation is Kinkier Than You Think

You may think masturbation is the most vanilla sex act out there, but there are ways to spice it up. That's especially true if you're jerking off

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Learn more about D/s relationships, BDSM dynamics and fetish dating by experienced writers and bloggers from the kink community.

Sex in Ancient Greece: How Kinky Were They?

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Halloween isn't the only excuse to get dressed up and do naughty things. Need a bit of inspiration for some role play ideas or party themes? Take a look back at history with writer Kayla Lords at

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Why Assertive Communication Doesn’t Make You a B*tch

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The words ‘passive-aggressive’ should tell us something about the nature of those actions. After all, aggressive is part of that. But what is the difference between aggressive and assertive

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You’re Kinky In A Vanilla Relationship | How To Talk About It

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When it comes to sex and relationships, there’s little that’s scarier than thinking your partner will reject you. You’re emotionally invested and want to make it work, and it can feel like any small

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Our Advice On How Role Playing Games May Save Your Relationship

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Ever find yourself stupid-in-love, in a long- term relationship but not having as much sex as you used to? Writer Leo Larkin went on the hunt for some top relationship advice on the matter, and he

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Fetish.com's A-Z of Body Mod

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Look up types of body modification, and you’ll be astonished! There’s everything from the simplest piercings to complex scarification and extreme body mod. Curious? Sienna Saint-Cyr checked out the

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D/s Relationships | How A Dom Sub Contract Can Ensure A Safe Experience

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Sienna Saint-Cyr switches things up from time to time, sometimes she’s a Top, and sometimes she’s a bottom. With multiple play partners, and a busy D/S lifestyle, how does she keep the dynamic in her

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Dear Abi: Dominant vs Abusive Relationships

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In D/s relationships there is a fine line to walk. Between dominant and abusive, things can be a bit blurry for those outside and inside of the relationship. Here to help clarify some things about

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Kink Shaming | You're too Old, Fat or Tall for Your Kinks

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What do you know about the Caregiver/little lifestyle? Is there such a thing as being too old/fat/tall for your kink? Writer Kayla Lords explores her DD/lg relationship and reveals issues with kink

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Alpha, Primal or Furry - What's in a BDSM Wolf Pack?

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Many people know what a furry is outside of the kink and fetish scene. But some furries also identify as wolves. We asked writer Sienna Saint-Cyr to take a look at this particular kind of fetish

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A Quick Guide to the Rubberist Community

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Are you a rubberist with a newly found love for all things rubber or latex? Writer Kayla Lords is here to let you know there's an entire community to help support people from across the rubber fetish

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Our Guide to BDSM Primal Play

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Some of us like to let our inner animal shine through in our kinky lifestyles. We asked Kayla Lords to help us dig a little deeper and understand what it means to be primal. 
 
What

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A Kinky History of Nylon Stockings Fetish

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May 15 is Nylon Stockings Day, so let's take the opportunity to look at the history of nylon stockings. Although these lingerie items have only been around for less than a century, they have a

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The Infamous Gold Bikini & Other Cosplay Costumes

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The first of May celebrates the labour movement, the fifth of May celebrates Mexican culture, and the fourth of May – well, the fourth of May celebrates Star Wars. “May the fourth be with you” echoes

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Who's Really in Control in a Dominant Submissive Relationship?

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Are you in a Dominant submissive relationship? Writer Sienna Saint-Cyr shares her thoughts on how her Dom helps her with everything from riding the train alone to overcoming deep trauma. She explains

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5 Quick Tips on How to be a Better Dominant

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Fetish.com writer Abi Brown looks at five things you can do right now that will instantly improve your kinky relationships and help you to be a better dominant.
 
Being a better dominant

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Being A Good Submissive Outside the Bedroom

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Does submission outside the bedroom work? And if so, what are the best non-sexual ways of serving your Dominant? Writer Kayla Lords shares her top tips to being a good submissive outside the

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How To Successfully Use Dating Sites Like FetLife

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New to the kink scene, or want to move beyond vanilla sex? Dating sites like FetLife is a great start - but can seem daunting. Writer Stella Harris guides you through.
 
Many people are

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Sex Doll Fetish | Is it Normal to be Turned on by a Doll? 

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You have an open mind when it comes to sex. You're open to exploring new trends, interested in experimentation, and embracing your kinks - that's all a given. But have

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8 Easy BDSM Tasks to Give Your Submissive

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Full-on 24/7 Total Power Exchange is a favoured fantasy for a lot of kinksters - but for some, the reality isn’t necessarily how they want to live their lives. Writer Abi Brown suggests eight easy

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Period Sex | 10 Reasons Why it’s Awesome

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For some kinksters, the sight of blood or blood play is a hard limit, but for others, their kink is all about the one type of blood you can access without needing to make a wound: menstrual blood. 

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The Problem With Sexual Orientation Labels

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Are 'kink' and 'poly' sexual orientation labels? Abi Brown looks at the way we define ourselves and our relationships.
 
Everyone has a gender orientation of some sort. It's about how

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BDSM Petplay |​ What Kind of Animal Are You?

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Ever fantasised about becoming the vulnerable mouse to his hungry cat? Fetish.com writer Stella Harris explores the world of BDSM petplay.
 
“What kind of animal do you feel like?” He

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5 Secret Erogenous Zones Only Kinksters Know About

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Everyone knows about the G-Spot, but many other erogenous zones go neglected in both men and women. Fortunately, kinksters know where to find them.
 
Each person has secret erogenous

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BDSM Fantasy vs Reality

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Author Stella Harris looks at the challenges involved in exploring BDSM fantasy vs reality in fiction and real life. What are the differences we should be aware of?
 
One of the benefits

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Vanillas, Listen Up! Learn From Your Kinky Friends

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Your kinky friends might seem a bit 'disturbed', but vanillas can learn a lot from the way their fetish friends communicate with each other.
 
Did you know that in 2013 BDSM sexual

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