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Premium vs. VIP: Which One Gets You More Play on FET?

So, you’ve got your FET profile set up. You’ve browsed a few kinky ads, maybe Spanked someone cute, or spent a late night exploring the forums.

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3 Perks That Make FET VIP Worth It

So, you’ve got a kinky little profile. Maybe you've Spanked a few cuties, joined a Group, or even dabbled in a Kinky Ad. But if you’re not using VIP

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What Kink Can Teach Us About Having Fulfilling Relationships

Fulfilling relationships are about all good communication, and as kink or BDSM relationships are very much based around talking, Kayla Lords suggests

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Learn more about D/s relationships, BDSM dynamics and fetish dating by experienced writers and bloggers from the kink community.

Inked & Pierced | Showing Commitment with a BDSM tattoo in a D/s Relationship

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Tattoos and piercings are becoming less taboo these days. We asked MadameZ to share her thoughts on how you can combine your kink or D/s relationship with a unique BDSM tattoo or

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Extreme Body Modification | An Introduction to the Art of Body Suspension

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Body suspension is a practice closely linked to the world of extreme body modification. At first sight, it can look a little terrifying, not to mention dangerous. But what is it, exactly? Writer

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Sex in Ancient Greece: How Kinky Were They?

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Halloween isn't the only excuse to get dressed up and do naughty things. Need a bit of inspiration for some role play ideas or party themes? Take a look back at history with writer Kayla Lords at

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Why Assertive Communication Doesn’t Make You a B*tch

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The words ‘passive-aggressive’ should tell us something about the nature of those actions. After all, aggressive is part of that. But what is the difference between aggressive and assertive

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You’re Kinky In A Vanilla Relationship | How To Talk About It

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When it comes to sex and relationships, there’s little that’s scarier than thinking your partner will reject you. You’re emotionally invested and want to make it work, and it can feel like any small

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Our Advice On How Role Playing Games May Save Your Relationship

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Ever find yourself stupid-in-love, in a long- term relationship but not having as much sex as you used to? Writer Leo Larkin went on the hunt for some top relationship advice on the matter, and he

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Fetish.com's A-Z of Body Mod

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Look up types of body modification, and you’ll be astonished! There’s everything from the simplest piercings to complex scarification and extreme body mod. Curious? Sienna Saint-Cyr checked out the

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D/s Relationships | How A Dom Sub Contract Can Ensure A Safe Experience

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Sienna Saint-Cyr switches things up from time to time, sometimes she’s a Top, and sometimes she’s a bottom. With multiple play partners, and a busy D/S lifestyle, how does she keep the dynamic in her

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Dear Abi: Dominant vs Abusive Relationships

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In D/s relationships there is a fine line to walk. Between dominant and abusive, things can be a bit blurry for those outside and inside of the relationship. Here to help clarify some things about

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Kink Shaming | You're too Old, Fat or Tall for Your Kinks

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What do you know about the Caregiver/little lifestyle? Is there such a thing as being too old/fat/tall for your kink? Writer Kayla Lords explores her DD/lg relationship and reveals issues with kink

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Alpha, Primal or Furry - What's in a BDSM Wolf Pack?

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Many people know what a furry is outside of the kink and fetish scene. But some furries also identify as wolves. We asked writer Sienna Saint-Cyr to take a look at this particular kind of fetish

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A Quick Guide to the Rubberist Community

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Are you a rubberist with a newly found love for all things rubber or latex? Writer Kayla Lords is here to let you know there's an entire community to help support people from across the rubber fetish

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Our Guide to BDSM Primal Play

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Some of us like to let our inner animal shine through in our kinky lifestyles. We asked Kayla Lords to help us dig a little deeper and understand what it means to be primal. 
 
What

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A Kinky History of Nylon Stockings Fetish

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May 15 is Nylon Stockings Day, so let's take the opportunity to look at the history of nylon stockings. Although these lingerie items have only been around for less than a century, they have a

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The Infamous Gold Bikini & Other Cosplay Costumes

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The first of May celebrates the labour movement, the fifth of May celebrates Mexican culture, and the fourth of May – well, the fourth of May celebrates Star Wars. “May the fourth be with you” echoes

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Who's Really in Control in a Dominant Submissive Relationship?

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Are you in a Dominant submissive relationship? Writer Sienna Saint-Cyr shares her thoughts on how her Dom helps her with everything from riding the train alone to overcoming deep trauma. She explains

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5 Quick Tips on How to be a Better Dominant

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Fetish.com writer Abi Brown looks at five things you can do right now that will instantly improve your kinky relationships and help you to be a better dominant.
 
Being a better dominant

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Being A Good Submissive Outside the Bedroom

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Does submission outside the bedroom work? And if so, what are the best non-sexual ways of serving your Dominant? Writer Kayla Lords shares her top tips to being a good submissive outside the

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How To Successfully Use Dating Sites Like FetLife

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New to the kink scene, or want to move beyond vanilla sex? Dating sites like FetLife is a great start - but can seem daunting. Writer Stella Harris guides you through.
 
Many people are

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Are Kinks Hereditary? What Science Really Says About Sex Kinks

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Some people are born with curly hair. Others with dimples. And then there are those who get goosebumps every time they hear the snap of a flogger. So, are kinks hardwired into us? Or do we learn them

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GGG Meaning: What It Means and Why It Matters in Dating

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You’ve probably scrolled past a profile that proudly says “GGG” and wondered if it’s a private club, a personality type, or just three letters people copy-paste for clout. Here’s the real, useful,

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🎁 Gifting icons in the Treasure Hunt: a how-to for kinky hunters

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So, you've started collecting icons in the Treasure Hunt and now you want to share the love? Whether you're feeling generous or just want to help a fellow Kinkster complete their set, gifting an icon

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BDSM Clubs In Los Angeles: The 2025 Consent-First Guide

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Hunting for the best BDSM clubs in Los Angeles? LA blends leather legacy, Hollywood spectacle, and serious community care. You’ll find purpose-built dungeons near LAX, femme- and queer-forward

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BDSM Clubs In Boston: 2025 Guide To Venues, Events & Community

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Hunting for the best BDSM clubs in Boston? Under the brick-and-ivy exterior lives a tight, creative, and steadily growing kink scene — discreet dungeons tucked into industrial pockets, stylish loft

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Gay Clubs In Houston: 2025 Guide To Queer Nights Out (Montrose, Midtown & Beyond)

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Looking for the best gay clubs in Houston? You’re in the right place. Montrose is still the city’s queer heartbeat, but you’ll also find action pulsing through Midtown and Washington Avenue — think

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