So, you’ve got your FET profile set up. You’ve browsed a few kinky ads, maybe Spanked someone cute, or spent a late night exploring the forums. You’re getting a taste of what FET can be — but here’s the thing: as a free user, you’re only scratching the surface.

On FET, Premium and VIP aren’t just “upgrades.” They’re like slipping into a latex catsuit that makes every move smoother, bolder, and way more noticeable. They open doors to extra visibility, priority access, and spicier content that the free crowd just doesn’t get.

 

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Deciding between Premium and VIP isn't just about status. It's about access. It's about standing out. It's about being able to play however you want, flirt however you want, and connect in your own way.

 

1. See (and be seen) like never before

You know people are checking you out — the question is, do you want to know who?
Premium lets you see a bigger slice of your visitor list, VIP shows you even more. That means you can Spank back, drop a cheeky message, or simply revel in knowing you made someone curious.

And it’s not just about seeing — it’s about being seen. Premium puts you at the top of the “Who's Online?” list so you’re front and center. VIP? You also rocket to the top of search results, which is basically the kink-world version of a spotlight.

 

2. Make your moves first

Why wait for people to find you when you could be in their inbox first? With Premium or VIP, you get dibs on messaging newcomers and popular members. It’s like getting into the party before the crowd arrives — more chances, less competition.

You’ll also stand out in inboxes with VIP’s top messages, cutting through the noise like a whip crack.

 

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3. Turn up the heat on content

Sure, FET is already spicy for everyone — but Premium and VIP users get even more 18+ content to explore, plus better search tools to find exactly what you’re looking for. Want to sort by age, region, or kink preference? Done. Want to dig through photo and video content like a pro? Absolutely.

 

premium-vs-vip.jpgDon’t just play your cards right — play the right cards.

 

4. Control, privacy & stealth

Sometimes you want to make a loud entrance. Other times? You’d rather sneak in. Premium and VIP give you stealth mode to browse without leaving a trace, plus the ability to blur your tracks on visits.

You’ll also have more control over who can see your galleries, and more power to highlight yourself whenever you want to be noticed.

 

Feature Free Premium VIP
See more profile visitors 5/24h 100/month 300/month
Bigger friends list 50 100 500
Icebreaker messages  10/month; 1/day 150/month 300/month

Top of “Online Now” list

Highlighted in search results
Message newcomers & popular members first
Top message in inbox
See who rated you positively
See adult content
Advanced search filters
Stealth mode & hide visits
No ads

 

Ready to upgrade?

Premium membership gets you in the door. VIP membership puts you front and center. Whether you’re just flirting, dipping your toe in, or diving in headfirst — the right membership is going to make every kinkier move a little smoother, a little bolder, and a lot more enjoyable.

Select your upgrade. It’s time to be in charge.

 

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sa****

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It's a platform geared not to connect kink enthusiasts to one another or to build a safe and ethical forum of some kind the primary goal as in most "businesses" is monetary profits no matter what their schlepping
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pi****

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I dont see any difference, I dont get anything on this site anyway so why does it matter if I pay or not? I swear this app is only full of bots.
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Honestly I haven't noticed a difference. I get to see more people who peruse my stuff, or like images, but when I get those free weeks around the birthday, I have tried both versions, and for me there's not much difference. But then I also don't initiate messages and I know that gets messed with, with the free.
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Domephy

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I'm looking for subs
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Ca****

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I’m not even saying it’s a bad one. It’s a great business model for shitty humans who don’t care about anyone but themselves. I’ve seen 50 fake accounts get deleted this week. They never asked for money so why make the accoubt? Only logical answer is to get more VIP signups which in turn means they are site hired. Not scammers using the platform. The platform is the scam.
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I really feel that I have pretty solid evidence these people are actually part of the plan to scam. You wouldn’t need many based on what I’ve seen. Basically you setup a fake profile. Pretty girl. Say something kinky, half fill out the profile. Done. Now set ridiculously impossible chat filters.

I’ve seen girls get 100 likes quickly so some qty above 100 is looking. Then they try and message and it forces them to think they need to buy gifts to talk to them. The fake profile will respond to a few people (btw their responses won’t line up with the convo just copy paste like “what are you looking for on this site?” Or “Are you looking for a mistress.” Whats embarrassing is for the app to pretend they care when they make more money off the fake profiles.

Let’s say 10 people out of those 100+ upgrade. It’s $100/yr here. So that’s $1k a day in upgrades ofc one fake profile. That’s $365,000/yr. It’s a business model. We get screwed. They get rich.
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StrictMaster44

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14 day premium with 1500 points

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ha****

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This app is just like the rest of pay do you can someone. Don’t waste your time or money.
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Da****

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Worth .
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ja****

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Yeah I get to pay money to talk to people that you put behind a paywall LOL
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mick1234678910

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DONT BOTHER!
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Da****

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Both

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Bl****

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There should be two separate upgrades, it's just greedy and tedious. Also way too much is locked behind premium. I shouldn't have to pay to send a message or like, that's absurd
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Co****

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Premium vs VIP which gets you more play?

Neither, just be hot, apparently
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Do****

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August 22, ColdMartini said:
Unless you get a handle on the fake profiles and crypto scams, you will never get another cent from me.

You need to report them all. Keep getting subbies complaining about fake dommes but they’re not reporting them so they’re not being booted out. Please report every scammer or findom you find. Like whackamole, get rid of them all 💪🏼

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August 22, Dante_88 said:
even with VIP there are still a lot of profiles you can’t message without sending some gift nonsense. And even then most of the profiles are still scammers. And when you call out the profiles selling content you get punished. VIP is a scam too. Don’t fall for it.

You really shouldn’t get punished if you’re reporting a profile for being a scammer or wanting money. You just can’t publicly name and shame. But if you report someone wanting money, they get booted from the site. Click the three dots and report.

And if it says you can’t message so send a gift, usually means their message filters block you. So for example anyone outside my geographical area and age profile, or doesn’t have a photo or haven’t verified themselves will be told they can’t message me and send a gift to get my attention. That’s because I set my message filters to exclude them.

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August 22, Gilly222 said:
Only difference between premium and VIP seems to be 1500 points😅

Lads, Collect the 30 points a day by uploading pics, liking pics and msgn. Use that effort to experience premium (which let's you go incog so no one can biatch you're online without talking to them,&if you click on a profile n decide against; you can "hide" your view of it basically so you're not getting hit up by ppl you already decided weren't your thang😅🫶🏻I once saw a guy with 1500 photos in his gallery. I realised he was collecting points with it. Ingenious 😂

I wondered why people keep adding the same photos over and over again! That makes sense now 😃

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Agree with all the comments below. I only ever pay £9.99 for the month(cheaper than most) but the fake profiles are ridiculous. Even when you do chat to someone, you find that they'll suddenly delete their profile. Makes me wonder if people are paid to just set up female profiles and pretend to be interested 😆
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Dr_Discipline392

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Pointless website, look elsewhere
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Only difference between premium and VIP seems to be 1500 points😅

Lads, Collect the 30 points a day by uploading pics, liking pics and msgn. Use that effort to experience premium (which let's you go incog so no one can biatch you're online without talking to them,&if you click on a profile n decide against; you can "hide" your view of it basically so you're not getting hit up by ppl you already decided weren't your thang😅🫶🏻I once saw a guy with 1500 photos in his gallery. I realised he was collecting points with it. Ingenious 😂
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Gi****

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Dante punished how?

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we****

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If i could, I would have my money refunded and never come back. Complete disappointment all the way around. Scams and bots everywhere. Plus access is still limited after upgrading.

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ju****

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Yeah, never again
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Co****

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Unless you get a handle on the fake profiles and crypto scams, you will never get another cent from me.

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Da****

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even with VIP there are still a lot of profiles you can’t message without sending some gift nonsense. And even then most of the profiles are still scammers. And when you call out the profiles selling content you get punished. VIP is a scam too. Don’t fall for it.
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Da****

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Return premium!

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