3 Perks That Make FET VIP Worth It

4 minutes ago, aligurl80 said:

Exactly!!

And I meant people reading profiles in general before messaging

September 12, JonRain954 said:

Lol the only thing that would make me pay for this website is if the men started reading our profile and stopped messaging us 🤣

Exactly!!

1 minute ago, JonRain954 said:

lol not me having to pay for spanks in points now that I acquired premium I now have to send a gift with a like wtf is that. Just a joke. Especially with the amount of bots on here no thank you 🤣🤣🤣 I was better off not paying and just riding the free wave

Did use points to pay for it but still. It was a WASTE!!!

18 hours ago, DommeDelight said:

Have you contacted support with these suggestions? They’re good ideas. No point complaining if it’s not to the people who can change it. 

Of course, but honestly, the feeling I get from both the mods and customer support is that they don't give a s**t.

Customer Services denied that filters are being applied by default, and the Mods just try and shut down any discussion or complaints about the situation.

2 hours ago, hiramcouple said:

Single guys can read?

I assume they can read but choose not to and bother us anyway

3 hours ago, JonRain954 said:

Lol the only thing that would make me pay for this website is if the men started reading our profile and stopped messaging us 🤣

Single guys can read?

38 minutes ago, HatfieldMaster said:

I appreciate the issues that come with being bombarded with messages, but this is not the solution.
The message filters have always been there - it's just rare for people to tweak them. And that's the problem - people will continue to fail to tweak them (which nullifies your point). And even if they do tweak them how are we (the men) supposed to know that they have - are you expecting us to click on the females profile every day on the off chance that they've changed their settings. This was clearly not thought about.

There are plenty of better/more sensible approaches to reduce the amount of messages females receive, eg.
* Limit number of first messages men can send to say for example, 3 a day. That way you stop the scatter-gun approach that some men take, messaging every female they come across, and people will focus on the people they are more interested in.
* They could even ask females during signup whether to prioritise messages by age or distance, and set filters accordingly, because who wants to receive messages from people 100's or 1000's of miles away if they're here for in-person meets.

 

Have you contacted support with these suggestions? They’re good ideas. No point complaining if it’s not to the people who can change it. 

1 hour ago, DommeDelight said:

Unfortunately things like this are needed for us girls to not be overwhelmed with contact. Keeps us safe until we tweak them to our own settings. I have mine very tight and still the amount of contact can be overwhelming at times. Frustrating for the guys but helps so many of the girls find their feet calmly.

I appreciate the issues that come with being bombarded with messages, but this is not the solution.
The message filters have always been there - it's just rare for people to tweak them. And that's the problem - people will continue to fail to tweak them (which nullifies your point). And even if they do tweak them how are we (the men) supposed to know that they have - are you expecting us to click on the females profile every day on the off chance that they've changed their settings. This was clearly not thought about.

There are plenty of better/more sensible approaches to reduce the amount of messages females receive, eg.
* Limit number of first messages men can send to say for example, 3 a day. That way you stop the scatter-gun approach that some men take, messaging every female they come across, and people will focus on the people they are more interested in.
* They could even ask females during signup whether to prioritise messages by age or distance, and set filters accordingly, because who wants to receive messages from people 100's or 1000's of miles away if they're here for in-person meets.

 

August 10, HatfieldMaster said:

Even if you pay for VIP or premium you still can't message anyone outside of +/- 10 years your own age, due to the stupid age based filters they automatically apply on new accounts.

Site is run by amateurs. Development is rushed, poorly thought out, not tested.

Communication with user-base is non-existent.

Customer service is terrible.

Unfortunately things like this are needed for us girls to not be overwhelmed with contact. Keeps us safe until we tweak them to our own settings. I have mine very tight and still the amount of contact can be overwhelming at times. Frustrating for the guys but helps so many of the girls find their feet calmly.

1 hour ago, PleaseMsPriya said:

I’d never pay for this site! Can 100% guarantee it would be the same results: interacting daily to only find 1 or 2 subs every few months who are genuine and local. Who serve and eventually ghost then I start all over again.

That’s a real shame. Maybe the local demographic. I get overwhelmed with the amount of subs making contact every week. Not enough Dommes about for them all!

August 8, sxabeast said:

He's right and everyone else are flakes or not looking.
This is the only dating I've never got a date on, despite premium for free which is the only way to get your moneys worth.

You could try putting more info into your profile. That may help entice the kind of people you’re looking for. Tell people more about yourself to generate more interest. Variety of photos etc can help. Profiles get lots of dates if they have the right content and connect with others.

August 8, DaddyBone_ said:

What a scam, this sight is almost all scammers they won't get rid of it seems.

Do you report them? I hear people talking about scammers, and lots of subs talking of Dommes asking for financial contributions, but no one actually reports them so they can be removed. Every social app or website needs people to report the problems for them to be removed. Be a helper 😉

Oh wow.  Thx for the heads guys.  I was hoping maybe, just maybe this site would be different.

Fuck, its as if the entire world turned into thieves overnight.  And stop calling them scammers.  They are from hell and they steal.  Scammer is too nice.  Only 2 types of devils on this planet.  Child molesters and thieves.