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Gender Woman
Age 48
Status Single
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Zodiac sign Libra
Languages English
German

About me

I’m looking for:

Description

She/her
I am not interested in casual sex. No ONS or NSA. Yes, I am sure.

I'm bright, lively, a little wonky and all filthy clown.
Predominantly submissive, ddlg and primal play make me weak though I have been in a number of different dynamics and there's plenty of exploring left to do. I'm here as much to learn about kink and participate in the community. I'm romantically polyamorous, though not necessarily sexually. I'm unlikely to ever be looking to hook up on a casual basis. I'm not a casual kind of woman in any sense of the word, and certainly not where kink's concerned! Really, what's the point in the absence of a willingness to build something potentially precious? That's where the gold lies in kink, as well as sex more broadly (the two are inextricably intertwined for me).

I'm happy to chat but I prefer my communications in fully-formed words and sentences please.

Desires and Fantasies
So much of what you want to explore and express is dependent on the person you're doing that with, it seems somewhat limiting to have a set menu and expect someone to slot in to a ready-made template. Far more exciting to relish the possibilities of creating something unique, as all dynamics are. Any way, I don't have any fantasies that would fit in this wee box and we haven't established I want anyone in mine...

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MsDrawers
icon-wio MsDrawers found their first icon!
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MsDrawers
icon-wio MsDrawers wrote something in the forum
  • 03.03.2026 17:50:51
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HOW I SET MY BOUNDARIES

I think, so much more important than minor, accidental transgressions are the intention behind them, and the extent to which healthy, consistent communication encircles them. Sometimes this can feel a littld gendered as men sometimes feel they have to act and fix. Sometimes being accessible, Read more… listening and holding space are the most precious and important things you can do. Accidents will happen, how you respond to that is *everything*

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MsDrawers
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  • 02.03.2026 13:59:37
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MsDrawers
icon-wio MsDrawers made a comment
  • 27.02.2026 17:03:18
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Here are the three reasons you absolutely can't miss out on using FET VIP and Premium.
MsDrawers
MsDrawers The number of people on this thread that imagine their subscription buys them women explains *exactly* what the issue is. The number of people on this thread that imagine their subscription buys them women explains *exactly* what the issue is.
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MsDrawers
icon-wio MsDrawers posted a status update
  • 25.02.2026 14:22:01
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  • Leicester
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It would be really marvellous if people passed on the disrespectful messages. I don't feel any way about blocking you from *my* space, but you continue to poison our shared space in ways that make many of us less inclined to interact at all. Do better.
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MsDrawers
icon-wio MsDrawers wrote something in the forum
  • 21.02.2026 21:26:32
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Do some people really like to be treated like objects.

You can know, you can know all about it, if you listen to people who list objectification as a kink - but more specifically, human furniture etc. There are as many permutations and pecadillos as people who get off on it. Lile anything else.

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MsDrawers
icon-wio MsDrawers wrote something in the forum
  • 19.02.2026 23:35:28
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  • Leicester
  • Single
Pussy Licking

Some of my most attentive lovers have been much younger than I. If anything, I'd say younger men tend to have a healthier attitude to sex but I think its probably more complex than that and not reducible to crude categories.

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MsDrawers
icon-wio MsDrawers wrote something in the forum
  • 14.02.2026 10:04:18
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  • Leicester
  • Single
Limits (or lack thereof)

I think its a combination of ignorance and bravado. They imagine there's something macho and daring about being up for anything. Eejits with no imagination. Profoundly stupid in their arrogance. Frequently not particularly kinky either.

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MsDrawers
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  • 09.02.2026 17:41:05
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MsDrawers
icon-wio MsDrawers found their first icon!
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MsDrawers
icon-wio MsDrawers made a comment
  • 19.12.2025 22:51:46
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Ghosting is boring. Say No-Thanks or make your move 🔥 Your inbox is waiting for play.
MsDrawers
MsDrawers Vanilla shouldn't be a pejorative term in a sex positive community. Vanilla shouldn't be a pejorative term in a sex positive community.
Like · 19.12.2025 22:51:46
MsDrawers
icon-wio MsDrawers wrote something in the forum
  • 25.11.2025 16:30:35
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FESTIVE FEET TREASURE HUNT

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MsDrawers
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  • 25.11.2025 0:23:08
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MsDrawers
icon-wio MsDrawers posted a status update
  • 24.11.2025 23:59:49
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If someone's pushing their fetish on you, they get what they get and fair enough since you didn't consent to enter into that interaction. If they're just minding their business, exploring their sexuality - leave them tf alone. Kink shaming isn't cool, no matter how it squicks you out. Keep it Read more… moving. Who's to say you won't be next?!
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